How open minded are you?

[RiskyFlame]

So in my opinion women are more open minded than men. For example, more women are willing to try a threesome with only one of the three from the opposite gender than men are willing. Another example, two heterosexual females are more likely to kiss each other than two heterosexual males.

So how open minded are you? But first some basic information so we have a better overview of which gender is more open minded here on getDare.

Just to make sure:
- Question --> answer with yes or no.
- You agree with the sentence --> yes.
- You disagree with the sentence --> no.

Gender: male/ female
Nature: straight/ bi-sexual/ gay
Age:

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.


Here is a non-sexual related test to see how open minded you really are:
link to the test

If you do this test, please also post the result. I (and others) would be very interested in how open minded you are.

[cbtslave999]

I think everyone is different, but women do tend to be more open minded, because alot of guys get the whole (macho) thing going. Where they will never do it or are against it. Maybe its testosterone or just fear of being labled (gay, or queer) Who knows?

I myself dont like guys (sexually) but who knows, maybe someday even that could change, we all grow, and evolve.

Afterall, there are things today that arouse me, that I would have thought to be nasty years ago, and vice versa. Just my own opinion on the whole thing.

[Dutchbuster]

My result:

"68% : You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded.
Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints.
But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line.
You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself."

And that's exactly how I would describe myself concerning this matter.


About female or male being more open minded.
I don't agree with the statement that female are more open minded.
If you read several different studies on it you will see that some of them state that men are and some will state that women are. I think it's about equal.

Because females being bi-sexual or being outgoing in a sexual way is more accepted by society, it's obvious that people think that women are more open minded. But that's a mind-set created by society.

For example, if a guy sticks a finger up his but, no way that he will talk about it with other guys, because they will say "dude that's gay", even if they to do it theirselves.

Or another example. When your at a party and two girl will kiss, most people would not mind. But if two guys kiss, most of them will be disgusted.

The whole macho thing and guys saying I would never do that, does not mean they are not doing it. They just do not want to be honest about it because it is not generally accepted. So like I said, speaking out and being open about the matter has nothing to do with being open minded. It's just a mask and being afraid of being judged.

If you would give 1000 men and 1000 women a list with 200 questions about sexual fantasies, kinks and fetishes, I truely believe that the outcome will be close to 50/50. Women being more open about it does not neccesarilly mean that they are more open minded.

I would never get i to something with another man involved and have no bi-sexual fantasies at all. But I enjoy a dildo inside my ass. I would never speak about that with friends, just because 95% of the guys will say that's gay. It's hypocrite but true.

[LitDarkness]

Gender: female
Nature:bi-sexual
Age:18

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?No

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.Yes

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)Yes

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?No

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?No

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).Yes

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)Yes

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?No

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.Yes

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.Yes

Test result:64% open minded:

You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded.
Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints.
But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line.
You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself.

I think males are more open minded by the way.

[RiskyFlame]

Originally Posted by Dutchbuster

My result:

"68% : You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded.
Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints.
But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line.
You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself."

And that's exactly how I would describe myself concerning this matter.


About female or male being more open minded.
I don't agree with the statement that female are more open minded.
If you read several different studies on it you will see that some of them state that men are and some will state that women are. I think it's about equal.

Because females being bi-sexual or being outgoing in a sexual way is more accepted by society, it's obvious that people think that women are more open minded. But that's a mind-set created by society.

For example, if a guy sticks a finger up his but, no way that he will talk about it with other guys, because they will say "dude that's gay", even if they to do it theirselves.

Or another example. When your at a party and two girl will kiss, most people would not mind. But if two guys kiss, most of them will be disgusted.

The whole macho thing and guys saying I would never do that, does not mean they are not doing it. They just do not want to be honest about it because it is not generally accepted. So like I said, speaking out and being open about the matter has nothing to do with being open minded. It's just a mask and being afraid of being judged.

If you would give 1000 men and 1000 women a list with 200 questions about sexual fantasies, kinks and fetishes, I truely believe that the outcome will be close to 50/50. Women being more open about it does not neccesarilly mean that they are more open minded.

I would never get i to something with another man involved and have no bi-sexual fantasies at all. But I enjoy a dildo inside my ass. I would never speak about that with friends, just because 95% of the guys will say that's gay. It's hypocrite but true.

Never thought about this until now. You might be right about this. But what about what's written below?

About your example with your finger in your butt. Males are not likely to share that with your friends, like you said. I think this is true. But what about the reason they are not sharing it with their male friends? The person who fingered his butt will not share it with his friends because his friends are likely not very open minded.

Why are sharing women more things than males? I think because women are more open minded than men.

Sure, you are right about the mask that (most) people are wearing, yet when people truely know each other they (must) consider it to share it with the persons friends.

[xico]

In my opinion gender is not important to determinate how open minded the person is. Education and culture are most influential for this.


Gender: male
Nature: bi-sexual
Age: 29


• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included? YES

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other. YES

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.) YES

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them? YES

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual? YES

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type). YES

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related) YES

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating? YES

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating. YES

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you. YES

TEST RESULT: 84% Open Minded
"You are so open minded that your brain may have fallen out!
Well, not really. But you may be confused on where you stand.
You don't have a judgmental bone in your body, and you're very accepting.
You enjoy the best of every life philosophy, even if you sometimes contradict yourself. "

[RiskyFlame]

Originally Posted by xico

In my opinion gender is not important to determinate how open minded the person is. Education and culture are most influential for this.

This plays a part too. But what when a male and female person both are from the same culture, have had the same kind of education and are somewhat on the same level of IQ. Who would be more open minded?

[maxperv]

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included? Yes

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other. Yes

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.) Yes

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them? Yes

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual? Yes

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type). Yes

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related) Yes

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating? Yes

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating. Yes

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you. Yes

On the test: 80% open minded.

[xertz]

Changing the questions slightly, as gender/sex ain't the same thing (gender = brainy stuff, how you think/feel, sex what you're born as, for those who may not know) I hope it makes sense

Gender: Transman
Sex: AFAB/Female (AFAB = assigned female at birth)
Nature/sexuality: Unsure (need to be close to someone to feel any romantic/sexual attraction, apparently this can be called demisexual but a lot of people don't think it's a real thing, so I try avoid using it)
Age: 18

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?
Well, maybe with another female (as well as male), but maybe not two other males. I know you said say yes/no, but it depends if I'm attracted to them, if I know them, etc. I'd probably be open to it if I knew them well and could trust them. Genders I ain't fussed

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.
No, it doesn't bother me

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)
Yeah

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?
Yes, but no more than one more chance

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?
No.. well, more in-depth, maybe.. it's a difficult one

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).
No

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)
Yes, I mind. I'd rather be encouraged, not forced

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?
No, I have limits

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.
No.. I think. I'd date anyone, I mean :P

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.
No, just no sexual harassment, regardless if I go through operations or not.

Quiz results:
"You are 76% open minded

You are so open minded that your brain may have fallen out!
Well, not really. But you may be confused on where you stand.
You don't have a judgmental bone in your body, and you're very accepting.
You enjoy the best of every life philosophy, even if you sometimes contradict yourself."

I believe the female sex and genders are more open minded than males, personally

[xico]

Originally Posted by RiskyFlame

This plays a part too. But what when a male and female person both are from the same culture, have had the same kind of education and are somewhat on the same level of IQ. Who would be more open minded?

Probably the same

[Dutchbuster]

Originally Posted by RiskyFlame

Never thought about this until now. You might be right about this. But what about what's written below?

About your example with your finger in your butt. Males are not likely to share that with your friends, like you said. I think this is true. But what about the reason they are not sharing it with their male friends? The person who fingered his butt will not share it with his friends because his friends are likely not very open minded.

Why are sharing women more things than males? I think because women are more open minded than men.

Sure, you are right about the mask that (most) people are wearing, yet when people truely know each other they (must) consider it to share it with the persons friends.

I think they will not share it with friend because they know they will be judged. Most people are like sheeps and just go with the rest of them. The first time I had my finger up my butt, was the night after a colleague told that he liked to have a finger inside. I got home and tried it. I am not proud to say that I litterly laughed at him and said dude, wtf..... I know that's hypocrite, but I am in a job where it's all about your image. All of my colleague's were laughing and some of them thought that's gay.

So what I mean to say is that the assumption that someone is not open minded because he judges you is not always correct. They can say they would never do it because society "programmed" them that way, and later come home and try it himself because he was actually fascinated about it. My best friend is like a brother to me, but since I am used to be aware of my image all the time, he doesn't know about any of my kinks.

Ofcourse culture and iq has something do to with it.But for an actual test/poll that does not matter as it will not really affect the outcome.I prefer to talk about iq instead of education as it's actually your iq that determines how you are able to handle certain things. There are plenty of people with a high iq that are not highly educated.


I think being open minded means being able to think about new things and being open to give it a try or adjust your opinion if someone convinces you. So when someone (in your example girls) talk about something much easier than others, I think that's just being an open personallity and not necessarilly being open minded. Girl talk more and more open about anything, not just about sex. Also about the way they feel or what color their new shoes are. (Not every girl ofcourse, don't be offended if you're different hehe)


I hope my messages make sence haha, my English is not perfect.

[LovEma]

Gender: Female
Nature: Bisexual
Age: 18

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?

Yes

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.

Nope

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)

Not any kind, most kinds I'm at least willing to try.

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?

Yes, I'm polyamorous so I don't mind my lover having multiple partners as long as they're open about it and talk to me.

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?

No. I don't like when people say that, it's kinda offensive to bisexuals because bisexuality is already enough of a joke (in straight and LGBT communities). It's like saying "Oh yeah I have ADHD I cant concentrate." in that it's making what someone goes through unimportant.

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).

Not particularly, no

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)

No I don't mind

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?

Yeah

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.

There is no race I wouldn't consider dating

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.

Nope

I took the test and I'm 76% open-minded

[SandMguy]

I took the test and I'm supposedly 100% open minded. I dunno about that. In my own opinion, ill consider absolutely anything but ill base it on evidence rather than let my opinions cloud things.

[Tempting_rebuttal]

Gender: male
Nature: bi-sexual
Age: 19

On the quiz I got "You Are 80% Open Minded"

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?
Definitely. I'd just have to know both parties involved before we got into anything. My biggest thing when it comes to relationships is trust and I'd have to know both parties could be trusted
But yeah, definitely

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.
No, why would it? Straight couples kiss all the time and nobody bats an eyelid, why would it be different for gay/bi people?

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)
Any? Maybe not but for the most part I'm definitely willing to try most things. I like to experiment and have plenty of fantasy's and fetishes that would be fun to try out with another kinky person. The things I'm not huge of, for myself are extreme pain, public nudity, and things along those lines.

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?
I couldn't say for sure. As I said, trust is huge for me and to break my trust like that would be very close to a deal breaker. Honestly, if the person cheating were to simply bring up an open relationship, I'd definitely talk and figure things out with them, but to go behind my back and start a relationship of that intent without letting me know, it just screams disrespect to me.

In the end, I'd probably tell them to leave the house and I'd talk to them on it in a couple days to a week, but I doubt it would end very happy

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?
Not at all. I think it's kinda naive to think that too. Just because I'm bi doesn't mean others are, just like how just because someone is straight doesn't mean the whole world lines up that way.

•You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).
Not necessarily true. Body types, for the most part don't bother me. Maybe when somebody is going to extremes and very obviously hurting their bodies, but hey, it's your body, I'm not going to make a fit about it or worry all that much.

In terms of public nudity, I'm not bothered by it if it has a reason. There's a time and place for everything and I think public nudity is one no exception. Couple examples, I know in my city there's a cycling event annually where people cycle nude, there fine, if it's super hot out? Hell yeah, take off your shirt, I won't judge, Nude beach? Good on ya, but to go all bits out just to go all bits out, I'm not a fan

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)
How do you mean by forced? Like a consensual forced? Then yeah, please! I've been "forced" to go on roller coasters before (Love the damn things but sometime mind over matter works terribly) And I'm always grateful for it. Hell, as a kid I would "force" myself to try new foods all the time and I think that's helped me in becoming so experimental when I see new foods!

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?
I guess... I don't think I'd enjoy it for some of it, I can imagine though haha

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.
This seems true. I've found people attractive from every race, I'm fairly sure.

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.
I'm bi, I think that answers the question! Hell, I myself have tried seducing other guys before haha! Though in terms of sexual contact, I have to get to know you first as I'm one who would rather long term relationships than a one night stand, not really into that kinda thing.

Oh boy, I do enjoy sharing my opinions! haha

[M.G]

Gender: male/female
Nature: straight/bi-sexual/gay
Age: 21

• Are you willing to have a threesome with another person of your gender included?
Yes - but I'm not that into threesomes.

• It doesn't bother you when two persons of your gender kiss each other.
No - it doesn't bother me.

• Are you willing to try any kind of fetish or kinky things? (except extreme, abusive, etc.)
Yes - but that 'etc.' is an extremely dangerous 'etc.'

• If your lover cheated on you, would you listen to his/ her explanation and consider staying with them?
Maybe - I would definitely listen and talk about it calmly, I might also understand and forgive them, but more than once is pushing it.

• Do you think probably everyone is a little bi-sexual?
No - I won't judge other people, sorry.

• You are not bothered by public nudity (of any body type).
Yes - I am not bothered by it.

• You don't mind getting forced to do something you never did before. (sexual related)
'Forced'? I do mind - Pass.

• Would you like to try each and every kind of porno type for masturbating?
Yes - kind of have.

• There isn't a race you wouldn't consider dating.
No - everyone has a chance.

• It doesn't bother you that another person of the same gender you don't know tries to seduce you and might have some little sexual contact with you.
No - it doesn't bother me.