blackmail

userben · 04-28-2007, 10:31 PM

it is a good way to keep your slaves in line and keep them around but master or mistress should tell the person that is going to be there slave up front that if that get out of line or just leave and are never to be seen or heard from again that the video or pics are going on the web. trust me i now how it feel to be approc be someone you know and asking ? about the pic and or video it weird. it works best for rebellon slave and people that want to keep there slave and master thing a secret.so what do u think on the punishment to keep slaves in line.

Hccmike · 04-29-2007, 06:07 AM

Well the only problem is you may run into some legality issues. I was understanding that in order to post somones picture anywhere you need there consant. You really want to be carefull about posting nude pictures ESP becuase alot of the people are under the age of 18... and even if a person says there 18 you can never reall be sure. Child Porn is taking very strongly.

An alternative that ive used at least once.
Have your slave give you the email of somone from there school. If they try to ditch send them to that person.

TrekBoy008 · 04-29-2007, 09:29 AM

The problem with blackmail is that it is illegal and becomes ineffective if the person being blackmailed decides to not keep the secret anymore.
The problem with the e-mail thing is that the slave could send you a fake e-mail address and you'd have no way of knowing it.
Also, with both of these, what's to stop a master from using them to force the slave to do something beyond his/her limits?

Maverick · 04-29-2007, 04:28 PM

I'd recommend against it, mostly from a master's point of view. I fully understand the frustration in losing a slave, especially a good one. However, the master/slave arrangement is mostly based on trust, and should be. Besides, do you really want a slave that does not want to stick around. My guess is that it would stop being fun really quickly.

Dare861 · 05-01-2007, 04:40 PM

No. Just no. Blackmail is wrong, especially in this kind of relationship. Like Maverick said, it's built on trust. Blackmail will kill all trust. Even if you don't actually plan on going through with the threat, bad idea.

-Daredude

chain · 05-02-2007, 02:07 PM

I do not endorse blackmail, personally.

Glutgod · 05-02-2007, 04:40 PM

Yes blackmail is a very bad thing, I know I would not do anything with that.

insanehuman455 · 05-28-2007, 05:24 PM

it is bad indeed, however some people like the threat of it, because it will push their limits and gives a stronger sense that you must obey your master/mistress, it should be optional for the slave, if the slave wants to move up the notch then it should be done, because thats the only way over the internet, most of the blakcmails probably wont follow through its up to the master/mistress

Buzzlightyear · 09-14-2007, 03:00 PM

i think it sort of depends on if you are doing it recreationally, or hardcore/real life. personally, i hate the idea.

and9993 · 09-15-2007, 07:10 AM

instead of asking for a frinds email ask for the password to their email so you have more control but in the end if they dont wantto be yor slave ne more blackmail wont help

tieddowncold · 10-17-2007, 12:23 AM

So the whole blackmail thing may seem like a turn-on to some slaves, where they are forced to stay with the master, but the reality of it is that the master will have control of everything the slave does. Blackmailing has a huge risk, not only legality issues, but safety as well. Limits are set based on comfortability...and in the condition that a slave CAN have limits. If that is taken away, and the line is carried out too far-you no longer have a master/slave relationship, but rather an issue of forced doing.

TheLittleStrawberry · 10-17-2007, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by tieddowncold

So the whole blackmail thing may seem like a turn-on to some slaves, where they are forced to stay with the master, but the reality of it is that the master will have control of everything the slave does. Blackmailing has a huge risk, not only legality issues, but safety as well. Limits are set based on comfortability...and in the condition that a slave CAN have limits. If that is taken away, and the line is carried out too far-you no longer have a master/slave relationship, but rather an issue of forced doing.

Still.. Ind the end, the slave can always report it. So In SOME way the slave still has a small plan B... thats if the Master isn't stupid and goes even though, he/she has been threatened with reporting the issue. I believe cases like this are taken quite seriously.

Powerstrip · 10-17-2007, 09:22 AM

IMHO, if you need blackmail to stay with your master/mistress, then your not really into this are you?

damned_virus · 10-17-2007, 10:02 AM

Well with my mistress, there is an element of jokey blackmail, but nothing serious. Serious blackmail in this kind of relationship is very wrong, it fractures vital trust.

Looking4somename · 10-17-2007, 04:44 PM

I personally believe that blackmailing a slave is wrong on so many levels.
The whole point in these relationships is TRUST. how can u trust someone who's blackmailing you..?

Anyway, about reporting an abuse. If, say, the slave lives in one country and the master lives in a far away country. How effective will reporting an abuse be? seriously, it just won't work.

04-28-2007, 10:31 PM	#1
userben getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: iowa Posts: 461	blackmail it is a good way to keep your slaves in line and keep them around but master or mistress should tell the person that is going to be there slave up front that if that get out of line or just leave and are never to be seen or heard from again that the video or pics are going on the web. trust me i now how it feel to be approc be someone you know and asking ? about the pic and or video it weird. it works best for rebellon slave and people that want to keep there slave and master thing a secret.so what do u think on the punishment to keep slaves in line. __________________ "every where i go it seems like i'm going in the wrong way and i need to turn around and start over"

04-29-2007, 09:29 AM	#3
TrekBoy008 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Greater Boston Area Posts: 310	The problem with blackmail is that it is illegal and becomes ineffective if the person being blackmailed decides to not keep the secret anymore. The problem with the e-mail thing is that the slave could send you a fake e-mail address and you'd have no way of knowing it. Also, with both of these, what's to stop a master from using them to force the slave to do something beyond his/her limits? __________________ "Words are, in my not so humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it." ~ Albus Dumbledore (Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows)

05-01-2007, 04:40 PM	#5
Dare861 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: United States, Tri-State area Posts: 315 Blog Entries: 4	No. Just no. Blackmail is wrong, especially in this kind of relationship. Like Maverick said, it's built on trust. Blackmail will kill all trust. Even if you don't actually plan on going through with the threat, bad idea. -Daredude __________________ Dare861: Official PM Sniper (If you don't know what this means, don't ask. I WILL give you false information leading you on a wild goose chase that almost definitely will leave you with a headache) Meow.

05-02-2007, 02:07 PM	#6
chain SysOp & Cougar Trainer Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA Posts: 705	I do not endorse blackmail, personally. __________________ Formerly Known as Chaingangistheclick Rowing all day, erry Day

05-02-2007, 04:40 PM	#7
Glutgod getDare Devil Join Date: May 2006 Location: In your pants Posts: 1,403	Yes blackmail is a very bad thing, I know I would not do anything with that. __________________ For us, the storm has passed. The war is over. And let us never forget those who journeyed into the howling dark, and did not return. For their decision required courage beyond measure. Sacrifice, an unshakeable conviction that their fight... our fight... was elsewhere. As we start to rebuild, this hillside will remain barren, a memorial to heroes fallen. They enobled all of us, and they shall not be forgotten

04-29-2007, 06:07 AM	#2
Hccmike Account Banned Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 142	Well the only problem is you may run into some legality issues. I was understanding that in order to post somones picture anywhere you need there consant. You really want to be carefull about posting nude pictures ESP becuase alot of the people are under the age of 18... and even if a person says there 18 you can never reall be sure. Child Porn is taking very strongly. An alternative that ive used at least once. Have your slave give you the email of somone from there school. If they try to ditch send them to that person.

04-29-2007, 04:28 PM	#4
Maverick Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 136	I'd recommend against it, mostly from a master's point of view. I fully understand the frustration in losing a slave, especially a good one. However, the master/slave arrangement is mostly based on trust, and should be. Besides, do you really want a slave that does not want to stick around. My guess is that it would stop being fun really quickly.

05-28-2007, 05:24 PM	#8
insanehuman455 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 71	it is bad indeed, however some people like the threat of it, because it will push their limits and gives a stronger sense that you must obey your master/mistress, it should be optional for the slave, if the slave wants to move up the notch then it should be done, because thats the only way over the internet, most of the blakcmails probably wont follow through its up to the master/mistress

09-14-2007, 03:00 PM	#9
Buzzlightyear Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 501	i think it sort of depends on if you are doing it recreationally, or hardcore/real life. personally, i hate the idea.

09-15-2007, 07:10 AM	#10
and9993 Account Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: usa Posts: 10	instead of asking for a frinds email ask for the password to their email so you have more control but in the end if they dont wantto be yor slave ne more blackmail wont help

10-17-2007, 12:23 AM	#11
tieddowncold Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 13	Touchy So the whole blackmail thing may seem like a turn-on to some slaves, where they are forced to stay with the master, but the reality of it is that the master will have control of everything the slave does. Blackmailing has a huge risk, not only legality issues, but safety as well. Limits are set based on comfortability...and in the condition that a slave CAN have limits. If that is taken away, and the line is carried out too far-you no longer have a master/slave relationship, but rather an issue of forced doing.

10-17-2007, 09:22 AM	#13
Powerstrip Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 716 Blog Entries: 1	IMHO, if you need blackmail to stay with your master/mistress, then your not really into this are you? __________________ I am looking for a mistress. Please PM me if interested

10-17-2007, 10:02 AM	#14
damned_virus Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 71	Well with my mistress, there is an element of jokey blackmail, but nothing serious. Serious blackmail in this kind of relationship is very wrong, it fractures vital trust.

10-17-2007, 04:44 PM	#15
Looking4somename getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2007 Location: Right behind you. Posts: 275 Blog Entries: 3	I personally believe that blackmailing a slave is wrong on so many levels. The whole point in these relationships is TRUST. how can u trust someone who's blackmailing you..? Anyway, about reporting an abuse. If, say, the slave lives in one country and the master lives in a far away country. How effective will reporting an abuse be? seriously, it just won't work. __________________ Some of them want to use you... "You know, these clothes do not fancy you at all. It should be a dress or nothing... I happen to have no dress in my cabin." (Captain Jack Sparrow) ...Some of the want to get used by you