Have a significant other at home?

tordlover · 07-11-2014, 04:16 PM

What do many of you do if you have a significant other at home that does not know about this? How do you find time, how do you hide it from them. If they do know how do they feel about it? Do they ignore or do issues arise. I've actually had a tough time finding people that have online D/s relationships that actually talk to their real life partners about it. Majority of at home partners don't know. I do know of a few that know and have noticed they deal with the same things that my wife and I currently do. Obviously I know what she does, I'm practically around it 90% of the time. Just want to start up a conversation about real life issues when there are partners at home.

Also want to extend a hand to anyone that has a partner that would like to talk to jlstockton25 and I. It is a very hard balancing act. D/s relationships are time consuming and take a lot of energy so to be able to balance it all is very difficult. Feel free to shoot either of us a PM.

AtticsToEden · 07-13-2014, 05:42 AM

Nice avatar, we match!

Sorry, this isn't much of a contribution, but just to clarify: you live with a partner, but both of you have a D/s partner outside of the relationship? That's how I interpreted it anyway?

jlstockton25 · 07-15-2014, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by AtticsToEden

Nice avatar, we match!

Sorry, this isn't much of a contribution, but just to clarify: you live with a partner, but both of you have a D/s partner outside of the relationship? That's how I interpreted it anyway?

I am his wife, I have three subs and sometimes a Dom, and he has a sub. All online only.

John Masters · 07-16-2014, 12:00 AM

I shared my submissive interests with my wife and she even tried being my Domme for while but didn't like it. Nowadays, I keep my interests to myself and generally play online in the mornings while she's still asleep and when she's away.

tordlover · 08-01-2014, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by AtticsToEden

Nice avatar, we match!

Got to love a woman in heels cuffed!

07-11-2014, 04:16 PM	#1
tordlover Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: East Coast US Posts: 80 Blog Entries: 10	Have a significant other at home? What do many of you do if you have a significant other at home that does not know about this? How do you find time, how do you hide it from them. If they do know how do they feel about it? Do they ignore or do issues arise. I've actually had a tough time finding people that have online D/s relationships that actually talk to their real life partners about it. Majority of at home partners don't know. I do know of a few that know and have noticed they deal with the same things that my wife and I currently do. Obviously I know what she does, I'm practically around it 90% of the time. Just want to start up a conversation about real life issues when there are partners at home. Also want to extend a hand to anyone that has a partner that would like to talk to jlstockton25 and I. It is a very hard balancing act. D/s relationships are time consuming and take a lot of energy so to be able to balance it all is very difficult. Feel free to shoot either of us a PM.

07-13-2014, 05:42 AM	#2
AtticsToEden getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: England Posts: 418 Blog Entries: 1	Nice avatar, we match! Sorry, this isn't much of a contribution, but just to clarify: you live with a partner, but both of you have a D/s partner outside of the relationship? That's how I interpreted it anyway? __________________ Hello, my name is Eden. [ NineteenFemaleEnglandBisexual ] ♥ Likes, Dislikes and Limits.

07-16-2014, 12:00 AM	#4
John Masters Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cumbria Posts: 194	I shared my submissive interests with my wife and she even tried being my Domme for while but didn't like it. Nowadays, I keep my interests to myself and generally play online in the mornings while she's still asleep and when she's away.