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Old 07-08-2018, 08:28 PM   #1
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So, just over 2 years ago now, my husband had a post on this site that required him to write lines based on posts and views. I actually joined the site at that time and stirred the pot.

By the end he got mad, didn't want to write the lines and didn't feel that he should because I had intentionally stirred it. (guilty as charged, at the end he owed juts over 4000 lines)

I was even going to be flexible with him, allowing him to write just 10 lines per day, still he didn't comply, so I told him he would have no full orgasms until they were done.

So.. with only 2 ruined orgasms total since then, he is now singing a different tune.

What would you do if you were me? I am a stickler for adhering to rules I set down... I originally told him I would want interest for the over 2 years he has gone without writing any lines... I have never seen him drop to the floor so fast groveling at me feet....

Should I have mercy on him and forgive the lines, make him write more, do some other punishment?

I may take the ides here and make a pole, or make him make a pole to determine his fate.


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Finish Original Lines
Finish original lines with option to earn line reductions from tasks
Change the punishment completely to tasks/rules
Keep the original lines and make it harder with add-ons to the task
Keep original lines but put it on write for me to make it harder and require hand written lines as punishments for errors.
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Old 07-08-2018, 08:34 PM   #2
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I would say just make him finish the original lines the no orgasms should be interest enough.Maybe increase how many he has to do per day.
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Old 07-08-2018, 08:53 PM   #3
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Yes, finish the original lines, and no (or only ruined) orgasms until done.
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Old 07-08-2018, 09:06 PM   #4
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Oh yes. He should deffinatly write the original number of lines. I also like the idea of only ruined orgasms until they are written. Maybe he can earn some line reductions by doing humiliating tasks for you? Each task completed rewards him a line reduction of 50 lines.
And he should make a report about each task on his blog here on getdare. For all to see.

Something I would do personally is lock him in chastity to ensure he cam only touch himself when I said so. But that's me.

Hope these ideas help! (I love punishing bad boys)
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Old 07-08-2018, 09:31 PM   #5
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Oh yes. He should deffinatly write the original number of lines. I also like the idea of only ruined orgasms until they are written. Maybe he can earn some line reductions by doing humiliating tasks for you? Each task completed rewards him a line reduction of 50 lines.
And he should make a report about each task on his blog here on getdare. For all to see.

Something I would do personally is lock him in chastity to ensure he cam only touch himself when I said so. But that's me.

Hope these ideas help! (I love punishing bad boys)
I won't reward him for any tasks I give him. He would be doing those regardless.

I have no problem keeping home denied indefinitely.
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Old 07-08-2018, 09:32 PM   #6
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Poor guy change the punishment make him pay for it a different way
1 No using urials or standing to Pee
2. For the next 2000 visits to the toilet he must squat to both pee and poop.

At about 7 visits a day that will be 286 days he would rather write the lines
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Old 07-08-2018, 09:38 PM   #7
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Poor guy change the punishment make him pay for it a different way
1 No using urials or standing to Pee
2. For the next 2000 visits to the toilet he must squat to both pee and poop.

At about 7 visits a day that will be 286 days he would rather write the lines
The first person to show Mercy. He has the rule to always sit when using the restroom.

maybe deny a bathroom all together? He has never tried diapers.
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Old 07-08-2018, 10:23 PM   #8
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The first person to show Mercy. He has the rule to always sit when using the restroom.

maybe deny a bathroom all together? He has never tried diapers.
On chastitymansion forum I have seen some of the ladies employ removing toilet privileges, especially at home or while not at work.

I saw another kind of embarrassing punishment along the same lines called a pacifier punishment. Pretty simple. All he has to do is carry a pacifier 24/7. As long as he has pockets it is not a big deal. He is responsible for keeping it clean in his pocket. Whenever you ask to have it stuck in his mouth it is available. And only you may remove it so he can return it to a pocket. You can ask for a picture of the pacifier while he is at work.

Of course, he may not have pockets when taking a shower, or when sleeping. Those that employ diapers at home don't allow covering up the diapers while at home so he may not have pockets at home unless he wears an apron with pockets. If there are no pockets then he is sucking on it.
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Old 07-09-2018, 12:06 AM   #9
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On chastitymansion forum I have seen some of the ladies employ removing toilet privileges, especially at home or while not at work.

I saw another kind of embarrassing punishment along the same lines called a pacifier punishment.
I like this... I may have to try this with him.
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I don't think interest is necessary, but you could hinder the ones he has to do. Like he can only complete lines when something is in his ass or something like that.
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Old 07-09-2018, 12:34 AM   #11
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I don't think interest is necessary, but you could hinder the ones he has to do. Like he can only complete lines when something is in his ass or something like that.
Oh, I thought of this too. Non-dominate hand, doing it while kneeling on rice... or one of my favorites, forcing him to alternate colors with every letter.

It seems to be the consensus so far to stick to the original lines. I may actually make him spread them out super far apart and not let him finish them quickly. I could make him write 12 lines per day and it would take him almost a year to finish like that.
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You could make him use writeforme.com to complete the lines, and make this difficult and frustrating for him by setting it to add more lines every time he makes a mistake, there are various other settings that can be used to make it more difficult so you can be as cruel as you like.

Maybe make him complete a set of lines using writeforme every time he asks to use the toilet while he's at home, then make him complete the task before you give him permission.
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Old 07-09-2018, 01:01 AM   #13
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You could make him use writeforme.com to complete the lines, and make this difficult and frustrating for him by setting it to add more lines every time he makes a mistake, there are various other settings that can be used to make it more difficult so you can be as cruel as you like.

Maybe make him complete a set of lines using writeforme every time he asks to use the toilet while he's at home, then make him complete the task before you give him permission.
He hates writeforme even more than having to hand write lines. He sucks at typing. Or perhaps for every mistake on write for me he has to do hand written lines.
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He hates writeforme even more than having to hand write lines. He sucks at typing. Or perhaps for every mistake on write for me he has to do hand written lines.
Writeforme is a fun punishment to combine with a full bladder, a simple task can become extremely frustrating and agonizing as the mistakes start to add up.
The greater his need to piss becomes the harder it is to concentrate and the more mistakes he'll make.
You should show no mercy though and have a severe punishment ready if he loses control and wets himself, maybe a long session of hand written lines if he has an accident.
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Old 07-09-2018, 01:32 AM   #15
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Writeforme is a fun punishment to combine with a full bladder, a simple task can become extremely frustrating and agonizing as the mistakes start to add up.
The greater his need to piss becomes the harder it is to concentrate and the more mistakes he'll make.
You should show no mercy though and have a severe punishment ready if he loses control and wets himself, maybe a long session of hand written lines if he has an accident.
Hmmm.. I don't want to push him to quite again... though I told him if he back out there will be no touching or teasing from me.

So far the pole options will be:
  • Finish Original Lines
  • Finish original lines with option to earn line reductions from tasks
  • Change the punishment completely with tasks/rules
  • Keep the original lines and make it harder with add-ons to the task
  • Keep original lines but put it on write for me to make it harder and require hand written lines as punishments for errors.
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