Finding someone

Bob123321 · 09-30-2019, 09:28 PM

I recently decided I want to try out being an online slave. I'm excited and all but getting really discouraged since, well, it's hard for a guy to find a female dom. Does anybody out there have suggestions for finding the right fit? What should I look for? Where should I look? How do I approach the conversation? Any tips are welcomed, thank you.

LessAwful · 11-19-2019, 01:18 PM

Haven't been dommed before, nor have I dommed someone on a longer term, but I have experience with making longer-standing connections, if that applies.

My tip for anyone doing anything would be to strike up conversation with someone who seems interesting, and just talk. Any conversation topic can work, but kink stuff is usually the go-to, and what is of interest anyway.

Point being, if you can't have fun with someone just through casual conversation, then it's unlikely that a sub/dom relationship (or other stuff) would work out, I think. Once you're already online acquaintances, you can start discussing other stuff from there.

09-30-2019, 09:28 PM	#1
Bob123321 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2015 Location: USA Posts: 116	Finding someone I recently decided I want to try out being an online slave. I'm excited and all but getting really discouraged since, well, it's hard for a guy to find a female dom. Does anybody out there have suggestions for finding the right fit? What should I look for? Where should I look? How do I approach the conversation? Any tips are welcomed, thank you. __________________ I recently got into wanting to be an online slave and am looking for a female dom. I would love to chat with anybody that could help and get to know me. Likes: Nipple play, bondage, edging, pics, switch, hidden public, pm dares Limits: Outdoors, face, scat, illegal, permanent, family, work, CBT, pee Females if you want to control my Max2 let me know! Kik: bob1233233

11-19-2019, 01:18 PM	#2
LessAwful getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: Denmark Posts: 311 Blog Entries: 8	Haven't been dommed before, nor have I dommed someone on a longer term, but I have experience with making longer-standing connections, if that applies. My tip for anyone doing anything would be to strike up conversation with someone who seems interesting, and just talk. Any conversation topic can work, but kink stuff is usually the go-to, and what is of interest anyway. Point being, if you can't have fun with someone just through casual conversation, then it's unlikely that a sub/dom relationship (or other stuff) would work out, I think. Once you're already online acquaintances, you can start discussing other stuff from there. __________________ _____________________________________ ~/~ LessAwful \| Male \| 23 \| Switch ~/~ _____________________________________ Likes: Control in General, Bondage, Hidden Public, Orgasm Control, Rules, Bets and Games Dislikes: Pain, Degradation, Humiliation Limits: Pics/Vids, Ageplay, Messy, Hardcore Illegal Stuff, Anything you'd consider taboo probably Currently searching for a long-term sub or dom, ask me about it!