Is it safe?

nellybell · 03-30-2011, 06:00 PM

Congrats on being my first offical question :3

There was a thread pretaining to this floating around in the advise section.
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67957

Pretty much the general consenses is that is it generally safe.

However, with the above warning about vaginal health I would warn against excessive use inside of your vagina. With all the chamicals and such in toothpaste it could probably set off the pH without much issue. That leaves you open to infection and just general unpleasentness, and not the good kind. Also some brands of toothpaste I've heard use sugar and other sweetening substances. Excessive sweets stuff in your vagina can lead to nasty yeast infection.

So a light coating over an object or a small dab on your finger and rubbed around should give you the desired effect without causing too many other complications.

I feel like a similar thing should be true for use in your ass. A small amount will be more than enough to give a good burning sensation. I think that if enough is inserted your intestines will do what they are designed to do which is to absorb any nurtients and water that it can. As you're not supposed to swallow toothpaste in almost any amount other than whats left on your teeth after you rinse and maybe the occational accidental swallow, having it absorbed through your intestines probably would be a bad thing.

So I would basically say, everything in moderation. You don't need a lot of it to reach a point of burning. Don't do any of those rediculas dares where they dare you to use an entire tube of toothpaste and shit. Just not a good idea. Lastly, make sure you clean up properly down there when you're all done and you should be good to go. :3

~Happy daring!

YoungPantyBoy · 04-02-2011, 08:19 PM

What are some safe lubes? Do you think lotion would be a safe anal lube?

CardiffBoy · 04-03-2011, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoungPantyBoy

What are some safe lubes? Do you think lotion would be a safe anal lube?

Lotion can cover a vast range of items, but I think the best course of action is to avoid using lotion anywhere inside the body.

A petroleum jelly could be used, but is difficult to wash away, and may still harbour infections if not properly cleaned away. As I dont know what you are planning to lube up with it, I must point out that stuff like vaseline damages latex, so would decrease the protection from STIs if used on a condom

The best sort of lube to be used anally would be water based. eg KY Jelly, easily obtainable in large supermarkets or chemists. There are also specific personal lubricants available, designed to be used for just that sort of use. You would probably find them in the same section as condoms in the shop.

Hope that helps a bit, and Im sorry for jumping in on your advice thread Nelly!

nellybell · 04-03-2011, 06:22 PM

So, I would have posted my answer last night buuuut I sort of hit the point where english turns into gibberish. With everything that can be included with this I was trying not to screw it up.

So, to start off with, the safest option will always be to just go to a store and buy some. Many stores carry it, you don't have to ask anyone for it, and with self checkouts you don't even have to have the cashier see it. It is also usually inexpensive. Water based is generally viewed as safest and favorite.

If that is the road you're interested in taking, this site has a lot of good just basic information about what kind of lubes can be used with what. Also what ingredients in certain lubes can cause irritaion or yest infections in women.
http://www.babeland.com/shoppingadvice/lubeadvice

So I've been looking A LOT for correct information for what is or isn't safe to use as lube. I have to say that for almost everything there are two sides for each. Unless store bought everything has it's ups and downs, and even some of the store bought ones have little things you have to watch out for too. Those however can be found in the above link. So I can't garuntee everything is spot on.

So here goess the list of what I've found that can be used and the ups and downs of them:

Lotion:
So, I had an earlier discussion about this with Leopard and we pretty much figured out that some that are more ok to use than others. All lotions have chemicals in them that half of us couldn't even come close to pronouncing. After looking some of them up I've found that while some of them are relitively safe there are some that aren't as much.

I would suggest that you go with the simpliest you can find if you feel you must use it. No pretty smells, no extra additives that make it absorb better. Also don't go for really cheep stuff either, they could be full of filler chemicals that could be much more harmful. If the words "For external use only" appear on it doesn't use for anal lube.

So, not suggested, but if you have truely nothing else for anal lube than I suppose it is better than nothing.

For guys, it should be ok for regular masterbating to avoid chafing and such as long as you avoid getting it into your urethra. That wouldn't be too pleasent feeling. Girls, this could also screw with vaginal pH so I would avoid it for non-anal playing.

Cooking oils:
Something that I found while looking was that people were mentioning Things such as vegetable, olive, and coconut oil. These things can be found in most homes and have usually no chemicals, plus they are things that usually pass through your digestive system anyway. Things such as butter and crisco where also mentioned. Make sure that the oils are pure and with no extra stuff added in.

While these can provide good lubrication it was also pointed out that these are less likely to disssipate quickly and could hang around and allow bateria to grow. I think this may be on the lower chance side of happening, but it couldn't hurt to take a little extra time in the shower to make sure you're clean in that area after playing :3

A few warnings though. This shouldn't be used in or around the vaginal area. They can cause an imbalance in pH as well and give bacteria a nice place to grow too. See one of the above post for vaginal health for more information. The oils can also cause damage to latex so keep that in mind if you're thinking of using it in combination with condoms.

Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly:
I'm Not so sure about using this as lube, but I would say no for the sake of lack of knowledge and clean up. Vaseline has a melting point above the bodies normal temperature so it could easily build up in clumps and just be a mess. I would keep it for outside of the body only.

Baby oil:
I didn't find much on this either, but as it is meant for use on very sensitive baby's skin it should be more on the safe side? This is another substance where all I got was that they said it was ok to use. Nothing else. So it is a tenitive yes.

Spit:
While this is very commonly used, it may not really be as great as some people think. This can be found on the link earlier in the post. "While spit is cheap, and you may have seen non-stop spit-fests in porn movies, the reality is that spit dries out pretty quickly and can leave genitals feeling even drier afterwards. If someone has oral herpes, using spit as lube poses a threat of infection to your partner." Not suggested but will work in a pinch I suppose but becareful and relube often.

So, this is pretty much all I can think of, I'm very sorry it took so long and is such a long post but there was a lot of information. PM me for anything that might need to be changed or if anything should be added and I will edit it.

Star Shadows · 05-02-2011, 03:00 AM

"Is it safe to use nail polish on your clit as a punishment? I did this once when it was little and I can't recall the feeling so I want to try it and see how it feels now, but I'm worried it might be harmful. Would it be more or less harmful than toothpaste?"

This is another that came up in the anonymous SM advice section, I can do a short one there and refer them here If you want to take a crack at it. Delegation is key !

nellybell · 05-02-2011, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Star Shadows

"Is it safe to use nail polish on your clit as a punishment? I did this once when it was little and I can't recall the feeling so I want to try it and see how it feels now, but I'm worried it might be harmful. Would it be more or less harmful than toothpaste?"

I actually have already written something on this before, it was just a matter of finding it again. Which I somehow managed to do, soooo here goes.

Alright, to start out, There was a separate thread started on this here : http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=51306

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anjelen

You're using paint on skin - paint in fact that's known for it having to be strong enough when applied to deal with the rigors of an office day without chipping (too much).

Like any product that wasn't developed to be applied for skin and particularly not developed for skin so delicate as the genital skin - it can, potentially, have some harmful effects.

For safety's sake i would urge you to switch to something along the lines of an eyeliner pencil, or - for something a little more permanent - a marker without additives to the ink.

Quote:

Originally Posted by cara.loverin1989

Nail polish, so i have read, is very dangerous on skin. It has no effects on the skin around a nail because it is a little different than other areas. If nail polish is left on skin in med to large patches it can lead to skin cancer. Plus, nail polish removers are also semi harmful in sensitive areas. So, in short, dont do it!

I have to agree with what both of those posts. On a different thread this was also added In response to someone elses thoughts:

Quote:

No worries on nailpolish. It hurts a little (due to the solvent) but no permanent issues. Have done it & is not a problem. Kinda cool in fact.

Quote:

Originally Posted by nellybell

Anything that causes pain by simply putting it on your skin is a BAD idea. Not only that, but if you have some cuts on your skin and you apply it over it can enter your blood stream. Last time I checked benzene and formaldehyde weren't things you wanted to spread over yourself, especially not your genitals, last time I checked they were both rather toxic.

Just because something is widely accepted in use doesn't always make it safe, learn what you're putting yourself in connact with.

I went looking for articles on this, and now I don't even want to use nail polish on my finger nails... I sugest you check it out before you go puting it everywhere... I have a feeling you won't wish to anymore.

http://www.articlesbase.com/nails-ar...h-2796199.html

http://keralaclick.com/blog/2008/12/...#axzz0uxGsp8CP

After you've read those tell me they're safe. That there are no worries. Just because you didn't immedietly drop dead doesn't mean there isn't anything that happend...

The links in that quote should give you all the information you need to turn you away from the idea of using nail poilish for anything but your nails and may even stop you from that.

Now as for it being safer than toothpaste, I would have to say yes. Though tooth paste can have some icky stuff in it, the nail poilish has even worse. There is a post about tooth paste above if you're still courious, and you should be safe with it, just keep it for more or less external use and wash good after you're done.

webcamplayer · 05-03-2011, 04:49 PM

As time goes by on here the dares get more ludicrous and the sole purpose of many people's time on here is seemingly to outgross each other by saying they do things that they clearly do not. Sadly this means that the more gullible among us are likely to then the more ridiculous/gross/dangerous dares thinking they are ok. I just have this feeling that it's simply a matter of time before someone gets seriously hurt. I hope I'm wrong. The fact that there is no age restriction on the site really doesn't help.

fred&ted · 05-20-2011, 03:01 AM

Is it safe to lick a toilet with out cleaning it? Or should you clean it first.

I want to know because last time I did it, I cleaned it, I was fine but there wasn't much effect on me because it didn't taste bad so it felt like I was just licking something... So the question is, Is it safe to lick an unclean toilet?

watsonkayla2000 · 09-27-2014, 04:38 PM

Is shoving a toilet brush up your vagina and pulling it quickly half way out and back in dangerous? it causes extraordinary pain after a while. almost feels like I am being punched up there repetivly hard.

DJ-playmate · 08-13-2015, 08:42 PM

People also need to remember that ice should be applied for no more than 15 minutes or risk tissue damage. I see dares that ask for ice to be applied for much longer than that.

Fantage · 03-24-2016, 01:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nellybell

Congrats on being my first offical question :3

There was a thread pretaining to this floating around in the advise section.
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67957

Pretty much the general consenses is that is it generally safe.

However, with the above warning about vaginal health I would warn against excessive use inside of your vagina. With all the chamicals and such in toothpaste it could probably set off the pH without much issue. That leaves you open to infection and just general unpleasentness, and not the good kind. Also some brands of toothpaste I've heard use sugar and other sweetening substances. Excessive sweets stuff in your vagina can lead to nasty yeast infection.

So a light coating over an object or a small dab on your finger and rubbed around should give you the desired effect without causing too many other complications.

I feel like a similar thing should be true for use in your ass. A small amount will be more than enough to give a good burning sensation. I think that if enough is inserted your intestines will do what they are designed to do which is to absorb any nurtients and water that it can. As you're not supposed to swallow toothpaste in almost any amount other than whats left on your teeth after you rinse and maybe the occational accidental swallow, having it absorbed through your intestines probably would be a bad thing.

So I would basically say, everything in moderation. You don't need a lot of it to reach a point of burning. Don't do any of those rediculas dares where they dare you to use an entire tube of toothpaste and shit. Just not a good idea. Lastly, make sure you clean up properly down there when you're all done and you should be good to go. :3

~Happy daring!

The post was from a long time ago but I'm guessing that mods still go on here. I'm guessing that's the same for icy hot and other chemicals? That would be a embarrassing trip to the er. I have tried to look this up, however nothing useful comes up so people on here are mostly to have experience with this.

littleanalslave · 03-28-2016, 11:19 PM

Someone wants to try making yoget in my back door, so we would get full cream no preservatives milk heat it up add Greek yoget, then cool it till it's safe to put in me, then tape my bum shut it maybe tape a rag over the hole so as just the water can come out as its separated. Leave it in me for about 24 hours, probably not eating it. I'd give it a really intense clean before and after.

Jaro · 07-11-2016, 07:12 AM

Is it actually safe to put ice cubes up your ass? A lot of people here apparently do it. I tried, but merely holding it against my butt hole felt torturous. And when it gets inside I would expect it to seriously numb my hole. So I'm not doing it because of the pain but it doesn't seem very healthy to me either. Especially not when putting multiple in there.

Same question for balls in ice water for several minutes. I tried but it seemed a very unwise thing to do.

bleonav06 · 07-11-2016, 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaroface

Is it actually safe to put ice cubes up your ass? A lot of people here apparently do it. I tried, but merely holding it against my butt hole felt torturous. And when it gets inside I would expect it to seriously numb my hole. So I'm not doing it because of the pain but it doesn't seem very healthy to me either. Especially not when putting multiple in there.

Same question for balls in ice water for several minutes. I tried but it seemed a very unwise thing to do.

Not sure about the anal part but your balls are safe for a little while, I wouldnt keep them in there for more than 10-15 minutes because that can cause tissue damage and that is certainly not an area you want to have damage in lol

Jaro · 07-23-2016, 07:16 AM

And aside from the ice in ass, I also wonder if it's safe to put toothpaste in your ass? Or anything else that doesn't belong there actually. I'm thinking anything you put in there would enter the blood stream and for a lot of products, that just doesn't seem like a good idea I think.

I know there probably aren't any medical professionals here, but at least I can ask: what is your experience on putting this kind of stuff up your ass? Any ill effects?

03-30-2011, 06:00 PM	#1
nellybell Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: In front of the computer, staring vacantly. Posts: 2,812 Blog Entries: 14	Toothypaste- Okiidokii Congrats on being my first offical question :3 There was a thread pretaining to this floating around in the advise section. http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67957 Pretty much the general consenses is that is it generally safe. However, with the above warning about vaginal health I would warn against excessive use inside of your vagina. With all the chamicals and such in toothpaste it could probably set off the pH without much issue. That leaves you open to infection and just general unpleasentness, and not the good kind. Also some brands of toothpaste I've heard use sugar and other sweetening substances. Excessive sweets stuff in your vagina can lead to nasty yeast infection. So a light coating over an object or a small dab on your finger and rubbed around should give you the desired effect without causing too many other complications. I feel like a similar thing should be true for use in your ass. A small amount will be more than enough to give a good burning sensation. I think that if enough is inserted your intestines will do what they are designed to do which is to absorb any nurtients and water that it can. As you're not supposed to swallow toothpaste in almost any amount other than whats left on your teeth after you rinse and maybe the occational accidental swallow, having it absorbed through your intestines probably would be a bad thing. So I would basically say, everything in moderation. You don't need a lot of it to reach a point of burning. Don't do any of those rediculas dares where they dare you to use an entire tube of toothpaste and shit. Just not a good idea. Lastly, make sure you clean up properly down there when you're all done and you should be good to go. :3 ~Happy daring! __________________ There was a nelly, a very smelly enchanted nelly sweet as vegemite could be ahaha just kidding, but still loved just the same <3

04-02-2011, 08:19 PM	#2
YoungPantyBoy Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 93	What are some safe lubes? Do you think lotion would be a safe anal lube? __________________ Loves: Nipple play (a lot), pain, humiliation, panties, orgasm control Likes: Feminization, CBT, Cum eating Dislikes: Anal, Piss Limits: Poo, Public, Illegal, Family, Messy Generally open to trying anything that isn't into my limits once.

04-03-2011, 06:22 PM	#4
nellybell Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: In front of the computer, staring vacantly. Posts: 2,812 Blog Entries: 14	Lubes and lotion So, I would have posted my answer last night buuuut I sort of hit the point where english turns into gibberish. With everything that can be included with this I was trying not to screw it up. So, to start off with, the safest option will always be to just go to a store and buy some. Many stores carry it, you don't have to ask anyone for it, and with self checkouts you don't even have to have the cashier see it. It is also usually inexpensive. Water based is generally viewed as safest and favorite. If that is the road you're interested in taking, this site has a lot of good just basic information about what kind of lubes can be used with what. Also what ingredients in certain lubes can cause irritaion or yest infections in women. http://www.babeland.com/shoppingadvice/lubeadvice So I've been looking A LOT for correct information for what is or isn't safe to use as lube. I have to say that for almost everything there are two sides for each. Unless store bought everything has it's ups and downs, and even some of the store bought ones have little things you have to watch out for too. Those however can be found in the above link. So I can't garuntee everything is spot on. So here goess the list of what I've found that can be used and the ups and downs of them: Lotion: So, I had an earlier discussion about this with Leopard and we pretty much figured out that some that are more ok to use than others. All lotions have chemicals in them that half of us couldn't even come close to pronouncing. After looking some of them up I've found that while some of them are relitively safe there are some that aren't as much. I would suggest that you go with the simpliest you can find if you feel you must use it. No pretty smells, no extra additives that make it absorb better. Also don't go for really cheep stuff either, they could be full of filler chemicals that could be much more harmful. If the words "For external use only" appear on it doesn't use for anal lube. So, not suggested, but if you have truely nothing else for anal lube than I suppose it is better than nothing. For guys, it should be ok for regular masterbating to avoid chafing and such as long as you avoid getting it into your urethra. That wouldn't be too pleasent feeling. Girls, this could also screw with vaginal pH so I would avoid it for non-anal playing. Cooking oils: Something that I found while looking was that people were mentioning Things such as vegetable, olive, and coconut oil. These things can be found in most homes and have usually no chemicals, plus they are things that usually pass through your digestive system anyway. Things such as butter and crisco where also mentioned. Make sure that the oils are pure and with no extra stuff added in. While these can provide good lubrication it was also pointed out that these are less likely to disssipate quickly and could hang around and allow bateria to grow. I think this may be on the lower chance side of happening, but it couldn't hurt to take a little extra time in the shower to make sure you're clean in that area after playing :3 A few warnings though. This shouldn't be used in or around the vaginal area. They can cause an imbalance in pH as well and give bacteria a nice place to grow too. See one of the above post for vaginal health for more information. The oils can also cause damage to latex so keep that in mind if you're thinking of using it in combination with condoms. Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly: I'm Not so sure about using this as lube, but I would say no for the sake of lack of knowledge and clean up. Vaseline has a melting point above the bodies normal temperature so it could easily build up in clumps and just be a mess. I would keep it for outside of the body only. Baby oil: I didn't find much on this either, but as it is meant for use on very sensitive baby's skin it should be more on the safe side? This is another substance where all I got was that they said it was ok to use. Nothing else. So it is a tenitive yes. Spit: While this is very commonly used, it may not really be as great as some people think. This can be found on the link earlier in the post. "While spit is cheap, and you may have seen non-stop spit-fests in porn movies, the reality is that spit dries out pretty quickly and can leave genitals feeling even drier afterwards. If someone has oral herpes, using spit as lube poses a threat of infection to your partner." Not suggested but will work in a pinch I suppose but becareful and relube often. So, this is pretty much all I can think of, I'm very sorry it took so long and is such a long post but there was a lot of information. PM me for anything that might need to be changed or if anything should be added and I will edit it. __________________ There was a nelly, a very smelly enchanted nelly sweet as vegemite could be ahaha just kidding, but still loved just the same <3 Last edited by nellybell; 04-04-2011 at 10:41 AM. Reason: changing some colors around so they stand out a bit more

05-02-2011, 03:00 AM	#5
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05-20-2011, 03:01 AM	#8
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05-03-2011, 04:49 PM	#7
webcamplayer Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 113	As time goes by on here the dares get more ludicrous and the sole purpose of many people's time on here is seemingly to outgross each other by saying they do things that they clearly do not. Sadly this means that the more gullible among us are likely to then the more ridiculous/gross/dangerous dares thinking they are ok. I just have this feeling that it's simply a matter of time before someone gets seriously hurt. I hope I'm wrong. The fact that there is no age restriction on the site really doesn't help.

09-27-2014, 04:38 PM	#9
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08-13-2015, 08:42 PM	#10
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03-28-2016, 11:19 PM	#12
littleanalslave getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 324	Someone wants to try making yoget in my back door, so we would get full cream no preservatives milk heat it up add Greek yoget, then cool it till it's safe to put in me, then tape my bum shut it maybe tape a rag over the hole so as just the water can come out as its separated. Leave it in me for about 24 hours, probably not eating it. I'd give it a really intense clean before and after. __________________ the changlanege is to find something to revolting for me to attempt to put in my back door, I have swan a oath to accept any disgusting Kik: littleanalslave2 Likes: having my disgusting back door used as a scraps bin and test dummy for anyones, being larthed at by other girls on here, cus of what i do to my back door... Disslikes: playing with my pussey i have never cum Limits: anything at work, full on public, pics, anything that might get me in truble with cops

07-11-2016, 07:12 AM	#13
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,498 Blog Entries: 299	Is it actually safe to put ice cubes up your ass? A lot of people here apparently do it. I tried, but merely holding it against my butt hole felt torturous. And when it gets inside I would expect it to seriously numb my hole. So I'm not doing it because of the pain but it doesn't seem very healthy to me either. Especially not when putting multiple in there. Same question for balls in ice water for several minutes. I tried but it seemed a very unwise thing to do. __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here

07-23-2016, 07:16 AM	#15
Jaro The toe sucking anal slut Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,498 Blog Entries: 299	And aside from the ice in ass, I also wonder if it's safe to put toothpaste in your ass? Or anything else that doesn't belong there actually. I'm thinking anything you put in there would enter the blood stream and for a lot of products, that just doesn't seem like a good idea I think. I know there probably aren't any medical professionals here, but at least I can ask: what is your experience on putting this kind of stuff up your ass? Any ill effects? __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys Check out my truths and dares here Last edited by Jaro; 07-23-2016 at 07:56 AM.