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Old 01-23-2024, 07:27 PM   #1
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Female 26/female/slave seeks 30+/male/master in any place (sassy)

26/female/slave seeks 30+/male/master in any place (sassy)


Female/26/Western Canada [Im (PST) GMT-8]
Normally go by S or Purple online

○Bullet Point○
• I’m looking for a 27+ MALE Master interested in psychological aspects of BDSM
• A connection/click is a must
• I’m open to time zones depending on when have free time as I enjoy a decent amount of contact (daily) with said Master.

○ME IN GENERAL○
•••••CHILDFREE ALWAYS••••••
• Single
• I am a fan of almost all music but find comfort in country music
• I am a huge family person. (Contradiction, I know)
• Sassy, sarcastic, playful, and serious type of person. (Depends on how I feel and who I am conversing with)
• On disability for knee issues
• I live in a house by myself
• Extroverted Introvert
• Read a lot/watch series/movies
• Love swimming/have bonfires/read/AITA on reddit.
•••••Regarding pictures/I will verify. After that it's case by case but don't expect them••••▪︎


Yes, I’m a boring person but I like to avoid drama. Been there, done that.

○KINKY ME○
● I WONT CONSIDER THOSE NOT INTERESTED IN CONTROL ASPECT ●
• Communication comes first as need to like someone's personality to feel submissive
• I enjoy the control aspect a lot but I haven’t found the perfect combination
• The more I like someone, the more will go out of way to please
• Can't say if I am a brat or not as I tend to respond based on personalities
• Im not a pushover by any means. If I dont think something is safe I will say so.

○KINKS AND SUCH○
My safeword is the light system!
(GREEN, YELLOW, RED)
Ex = Example
Exp = Explanation

My kinks and such are changing a lot as Im getting more curious. I want someone I can explore this with.

○LIKES○
• Giving control
Ex. Could be as simple as what nail color
• Humiliation
Ex. I'm prideful, so, having to suck up my pride is hard
• Body writing
Ex. I'm a.....?
• Degrading
Ex. Name calling
• Secretive public.
Ex. Toys under clothing
• Some pain
Ex. Perhaps some nipple clamps
• Bruises
Exp. I get super subby with the reminder.
• Anal
Ex. Plugs
• Mental foreplay (suspense)
Ex. Teasing or hinting about what's to come
• Impossible choices
Exp. It's nice to have the option!

○UNSURE IF CAN TURN INTO LIKE○
• Denial
Exp. I've been more and more curious. To get to the point where I'd care more about my dominants pleasure than my own.
• Prolonged anal
Exp. I think it'd be kinky as I truly do like anal. So this would likely need training

○DISLIKES/PUNISHMENTS○
• Writing Lines
Exp. I feel like it's a waste of time so I get huffy about it
• GAGS
Exp. I dont like feeling silenced AT ALL
• Begging
Exp. Terrible at it and my pride doesn't appreciate it
• Corner Time
Exp. The time wasting gets to me
• Bedtime
Exp. Unsure if this would work for me as insomnia but *glare*
• Wax
Exp. The anticipation kills me a little
• Enemas
Exp. I get needing to clean out but the fullness annoys me
• Scolding
Exp. If I truly feel submissive to someone, guilt works

○LIMITS○
Video, scat, piss, public, self-harm, blood, permanent, illegal, family/friends, foot fetish, age play, catheters, fisting, fire, Hair removal(head/eyebrows), ass to mouth, impregnation, water sports, insects, messy, involving others, or general social suicide, vomit, extreme pain, personal information
My likes/dislikes/limits do change and vary a lot.

○TOYS○

• 8 inch dildo (Pink)
• 7 inch suction cup dildo (Light Purple)
• Enema/douche kit (It's blue)
•Purple wand
• Kegel balls (Light purple)
• Kegel balls (Pink)
• Dildo/plug 6.25 inches (15.75 cm) (Green)
• Dildo/plug 4.75 inches (12 cm) (Orange)
• Dildo/plug 3.5 inches (9 cm) (Red)
Green, Orange, and red have 1.4" girth (3.6 cm).
• Nipple chain (piercing used) (Have to get nipples repierced for this one)
• Breathable ball gag (black)
• Bit/ball/soft interchangeable gags
• Breathable ball gag (purple)
• O ring gag (silver?)
• Three way clamps
• Regular clamps (don't know name)
• Hogtie bondage thing
• Arousal gel (tingle, warm, intensify)
• Studded paddle
• Flogger (Pathetic purple one)
• Flogger (Bigger black one)
• Riding crop (too long)
• Ben wa balls
• 8ish inch dildo (blue)
• Rabbit vibe (pink)
• Remote controlled corded bullet (black)
• C shaped vibe thing (purple)
• 7 inch vibe? (Purple)
• Wrist cuffs and ankle as well as matching collar. (Purple)
• Large anal bead (black)
• 3 black dildos that I will never use
• 2 jeweled buttplugs (small, medium)
• What may be a violet wand
• Purple 3 beaded plug
• Twisted Love 3 Piece Plug Set (S/5.5"L, M/7.25"L, L/8.25"L, S/1"W, M/1.25"W, L/1.5"W)
• Infinitt Suction Massager Three Vibe
• Renegade The Rattler Plug
• Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Stimulator
• Timed lock box

○Tips for contacting me○
• I won't answer anything that is less than a paragraph
• Get to know my personality before trying to control me

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Old 01-24-2024, 03:06 AM   #2
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Fantastic ad. And quite the toy collection!
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Old 01-25-2024, 03:40 PM   #3
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Very nice ad ... best of luck with the search.
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Old 02-03-2024, 12:04 PM   #4
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26/female/slave seeks 30+/male/master in any place (sassy)


Female/26/Western Canada [Im (PST) GMT-8]
Normally go by S or Purple online

○Bullet Point○
• I’m looking for a 27+ MALE Master interested in psychological aspects of BDSM
• A connection/click is a must
• I’m open to time zones depending on when have free time as I enjoy a decent amount of contact (daily) with said Master.

○ME IN GENERAL○
•••••CHILDFREE ALWAYS••••••
• Single
• I am a fan of almost all music but find comfort in country music
• I am a huge family person. (Contradiction, I know)
• Sassy, sarcastic, playful, and serious type of person. (Depends on how I feel and who I am conversing with)
• On disability for knee issues
• I live in a house by myself
• Extroverted Introvert
• Read a lot/watch series/movies
• Love swimming/have bonfires/read/AITA on reddit.
•••••Regarding pictures/I will verify. After that it's case by case but don't expect them••••▪︎


Yes, I’m a boring person but I like to avoid drama. Been there, done that.

○KINKY ME○
● I WONT CONSIDER THOSE NOT INTERESTED IN CONTROL ASPECT ●
• Communication comes first as need to like someone's personality to feel submissive
• I enjoy the control aspect a lot but I haven’t found the perfect combination
• The more I like someone, the more will go out of way to please
• Can't say if I am a brat or not as I tend to respond based on personalities
• Im not a pushover by any means. If I dont think something is safe I will say so.

○KINKS AND SUCH○
My safeword is the light system!
(GREEN, YELLOW, RED)
Ex = Example
Exp = Explanation

My kinks and such are changing a lot as Im getting more curious. I want someone I can explore this with.

○LIKES○
• Giving control
Ex. Could be as simple as what nail color
• Humiliation
Ex. I'm prideful, so, having to suck up my pride is hard
• Body writing
Ex. I'm a.....?
• Degrading
Ex. Name calling
• Secretive public.
Ex. Toys under clothing
• Some pain
Ex. Perhaps some nipple clamps
• Bruises
Exp. I get super subby with the reminder.
• Anal
Ex. Plugs
• Mental foreplay (suspense)
Ex. Teasing or hinting about what's to come
• Impossible choices
Exp. It's nice to have the option!

○UNSURE IF CAN TURN INTO LIKE○
• Denial
Exp. I've been more and more curious. To get to the point where I'd care more about my dominants pleasure than my own.
• Prolonged anal
Exp. I think it'd be kinky as I truly do like anal. So this would likely need training

○DISLIKES/PUNISHMENTS○
• Writing Lines
Exp. I feel like it's a waste of time so I get huffy about it
• GAGS
Exp. I dont like feeling silenced AT ALL
• Begging
Exp. Terrible at it and my pride doesn't appreciate it
• Corner Time
Exp. The time wasting gets to me
• Bedtime
Exp. Unsure if this would work for me as insomnia but *glare*
• Wax
Exp. The anticipation kills me a little
• Enemas
Exp. I get needing to clean out but the fullness annoys me
• Scolding
Exp. If I truly feel submissive to someone, guilt works

○LIMITS○
Video, scat, piss, public, self-harm, blood, permanent, illegal, family/friends, foot fetish, age play, catheters, fisting, fire, Hair removal(head/eyebrows), ass to mouth, impregnation, water sports, insects, messy, involving others, or general social suicide, vomit, extreme pain, personal information
My likes/dislikes/limits do change and vary a lot.

○TOYS○

• 8 inch dildo (Pink)
• 7 inch suction cup dildo (Light Purple)
• Enema/douche kit (It's blue)
•Purple wand
• Kegel balls (Light purple)
• Kegel balls (Pink)
• Dildo/plug 6.25 inches (15.75 cm) (Green)
• Dildo/plug 4.75 inches (12 cm) (Orange)
• Dildo/plug 3.5 inches (9 cm) (Red)
Green, Orange, and red have 1.4" girth (3.6 cm).
• Nipple chain (piercing used) (Have to get nipples repierced for this one)
• Breathable ball gag (black)
• Bit/ball/soft interchangeable gags
• Breathable ball gag (purple)
• O ring gag (silver?)
• Three way clamps
• Regular clamps (don't know name)
• Hogtie bondage thing
• Arousal gel (tingle, warm, intensify)
• Studded paddle
• Flogger (Pathetic purple one)
• Flogger (Bigger black one)
• Riding crop (too long)
• Ben wa balls
• 8ish inch dildo (blue)
• Rabbit vibe (pink)
• Remote controlled corded bullet (black)
• C shaped vibe thing (purple)
• 7 inch vibe? (Purple)
• Wrist cuffs and ankle as well as matching collar. (Purple)
• Large anal bead (black)
• 3 black dildos that I will never use
• 2 jeweled buttplugs (small, medium)
• What may be a violet wand
• Purple 3 beaded plug
• Twisted Love 3 Piece Plug Set (S/5.5"L, M/7.25"L, L/8.25"L, S/1"W, M/1.25"W, L/1.5"W)
• Infinitt Suction Massager Three Vibe
• Renegade The Rattler Plug
• Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Stimulator
• Timed lock box

○Tips for contacting me○
• I won't answer anything that is less than a paragraph
• Get to know my personality before trying to control me
Hi, my name is John. I found your words most captivating. I agree with you that communication is very important. I'm from south Africa. I'm 28 years old, 6ft Caucasian brown hair green eyes medium built. I'm a naturally a quiet man who enjoys reading and thought provoking movies. I enjoy a wide variety of different genres of music aswell. I find that walks in the wilderness is most relaxing with no interaction with to the outside world. Anyway to the matter at hand, I've always been fascinated with the pshycology of bdsm. What is the sub thinking and feeling when the dom has given and order or issued a reward or punishment. Reading your post looked to good to be true. I do believe that we will have some kind of sparks and a lot of fun.

Awaiting your reply
John
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Old 02-15-2024, 07:49 AM   #5
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Hi, my name is John. I found your words most captivating. I agree with you that communication is very important. I'm from south Africa. I'm 28 years old, 6ft Caucasian brown hair green eyes medium built. I'm a naturally a quiet man who enjoys reading and thought provoking movies. I enjoy a wide variety of different genres of music aswell. I find that walks in the wilderness is most relaxing with no interaction with to the outside world. Anyway to the matter at hand, I've always been fascinated with the pshycology of bdsm. What is the sub thinking and feeling when the dom has given and order or issued a reward or punishment. Reading your post looked to good to be true. I do believe that we will have some kind of sparks and a lot of fun.

Awaiting your reply
John
Hi PurpleS, I like your ADD,do you will relocate out of Canada for the right Dom ?
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Old 02-15-2024, 06:53 PM   #6
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Hi PurpleS, I like your ADD,do you will relocate out of Canada for the right Dom ?
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Rayanme, might wanna consider this bit, whilst asking someone to relocate.
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Rayanme, might wanna consider this bit, whilst asking someone to relocate.
Very very good point!
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Old 02-23-2024, 01:03 PM   #8
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Very very good point!
I'd say you should add in there that the Dominant applying should be literate and able to read and understand what you're looking for...but of course most wouldn't bother reading that part so it might be pointless.

Sorry, couldn't resist!

Hope your search is going well.
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Old 03-02-2024, 07:28 PM   #9
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I'd say you should add in there that the Dominant applying should be literate and able to read and understand what you're looking for...but of course most wouldn't bother reading that part so it might be pointless.

Sorry, couldn't resist!

Hope your search is going well.
Lol that wouldn't help. Nothing will. Some just don't read. Wanna get their dicks metaphorically wet
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Old 03-21-2024, 05:33 AM   #11
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I don't know if she's found anyone, but she's very good when it comes to bumping others posts, so I'm going to give this another bump.
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Old 03-25-2024, 09:57 PM   #12
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Update.

Seems I'm going to have family living with me for about a month. Will still have my big ass room and doubt they'd be here too much.

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