New to here... And don't know how things work (24, NB Switch)

[EvelynRae]

Hi! I am Evie.

I am a NB 24 Switch and I heard about this site.

I really don't know where to start or what to do. Just looking for help

[herpderp42]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

Hi! I am Evie.

I am a NB 24 Switch and I heard about this site.

I really don't know where to start or what to do. Just looking for help

Well, what exactly are you here for? If you want to directly be involved with naughty people I reocmmend adding some basic info about your lieks etc or what you want to experience with

Try to describe what you are hobing for/ expecting from thsi site.

[Garry0993]

Welcome!! I hope you would find the fun you are looking for here.

I guess the question is back to you. What do you like to do with here?

There are lots of options. You can receive tasks and dares or you can offer to write tasks and dares to others. People can find a sub/dom or a switch partner here as well. You can have short term play session or just chat with others. The list goes on and on.

All depends on what you want to do.

So, what brought you here in the first place

[EvelynRae]

Well I am relatively new to the kinky side of things and didn't know where to find a place for expressing that.

I really like doing things and playing, but I am also looking for a switch or something as well???

I like bondage, I like not being able to cum unless allowed. I guess that is it at the moment. I don't really know what other kinks there are other than bondage.

[Kaiyo]

Just have a look around, read the Likes&Limits list to see what is there and see some of the dares being given out in the Person above section ^^


Welcome to the site!

[Dungeonmaster]

I would recommend exploring a bit then. Just browse through the forum and see what people are doing.
You might also get some inspiration by looking at the threads.

There are add threads around here, where people just add pre defined stuff by posting. However, you will also find lots of custom dares and tasks you can draw inspiration from.

This sub forum contains them, but also the "Submissive/Dominant area" has threads for tasks you can read through.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

Well I am relatively new to the kinky side of things and didn't know where to find a place for expressing that.

I really like doing things and playing, but I am also looking for a switch or something as well???

I like bondage, I like not being able to cum unless allowed. I guess that is it at the moment. I don't really know what other kinks there are other than bondage.

So you are a switch who enjoy doing tasks. Your kinks include bondage, orgasm control.

Those are both good start. For sure you can take it slow and just browsing around. I am sure there are lots of bondage thread and much more edging thread.

If you want to exlpore more, you can always do a test on things such as bdsmtest.org

This would give you a rough idea of what you can exlore with.

[EvelynRae]

How do you do that quote thing? I keep seeing it but I really don't know how it works

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

How do you do that quote thing? I keep seeing it but I really don't know how it works

If you take a look at people's reply, there's a quote underneath.

That's the easiest way to do quote.

[EvelynRae]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

If you take a look at people's reply, there's a quote underneath.

That's the easiest way to do quote.

I see it now.
This format is confusing me because of all of the [] boxes when I press something on the bar

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

I see it now.
This format is confusing me because of all of the [] boxes when I press something on the bar

It is an older format so you would have to work with that lol

Other than the forum being old it is rather good to use. It does take a while to get used to.

I see you have your basic signature set up!! That's always good. Just keep in mind that you are always entitled to say no to things. Not only what you listed in your limits but in general things that you aren't comfortable with.

Your consent is very very important in any kinky relationships.

[EvelynRae]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

It is an older format so you would have to work with that lol

Other than the forum being old it is rather good to use. It does take a while to get used to.

I see you have your basic signature set up!! That's always good. Just keep in mind that you are always entitled to say no to things. Not only what you listed in your limits but in general things that you aren't comfortable with.

Your consent is very very important in any kinky relationships.

Well that is good to know. I know it will take me some bit to get used to this

[EvelynRae]

Originally Posted by Dungeonmaster

I would recommend exploring a bit then. Just browse through the forum and see what people are doing.
You might also get some inspiration by looking at the threads.

There are add threads around here, where people just add pre defined stuff by posting. However, you will also find lots of custom dares and tasks you can draw inspiration from.

This sub forum contains them, but also the "Submissive/Dominant area" has threads for tasks you can read through.

I am kinda confused about add threads and how they work

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

I am kinda confused about add threads and how they work

The idea is that the original poster (OP) would have set a thing in their thread, either one thing or several key words. People would post their replies. OP need to do next is to count how many each option is picked and do that pre-determined tasks x times.

It is basic but would get out of hand pretty quickly. It can be overwhelming before you realized what is happening.

[buttinup]

Originally Posted by EvelynRae

Well that is good to know. I know it will take me some bit to get used to this

Let me give you some information that is golden!

1) The top bar has a lot of quick links, the one that is orangish red. The far left one has "User CP". This is the Control Panel.
2) You can edit your signature by clicking User CP, then on the left side clicking "Edit Signature". Put your likes and limits there, that lets people see what they need to know on every single post you make!
3) In a thread, you can choose to "subscribe" to it by clicking the link in the dark blue bar called "Thread Tools". This makes the thread show up in your Control Panel when you click on it.
4) explore around the forums! Person Above is great for starting to meet people with less pressure, Truths is great for that too. There's also story sections, and this forum is great for getting tasks specially formulated to you - it's a nice dose of attention
5) At the top right below the orange bar you will see your username. The Unread Posts link takes you to a list of Every Single Post that has been made since you last looked at the forum (the last time you logged in). Underneath that, you will see a link called Private Messages (if you haven't received a Private Message, or PM). Private messages are pretty big as a staple on the forum.

But hi! I bet you will have a lot of fun here!

I request that you do something kind for yourself that you normally have skipped doing today.