25/M - Looking for advice + AMA

[Josh.white97]

As I mentioned up top, TorD / experimentation with a straight guy, hits the best haha but other than that I’m really into touching guys whether it be massages, groping, tickling, edging and milking, those would be my top

[JimmyKarlo]

What was your first sexual experience?

Any feeling when and what lead to the discovery of your fetishes?

If it would be without any consequences, what would you like to do with your bf or other people? What would your bf think of it in your opinion?

What’s your favorite dish?

[Josh.white97]

What was your first sexual experience?

I mean what do you define as sexual? One of my friends showed me their dick when we were 12 and I showed him mine. I started fingering girls when I was about 16. And then I hooked up with a guy for the first time when I was 18, and that’s probably what I’d consider truly my first time having sex. He gave me head and I blew in his mouth.

Any feeling when and what lead to the discovery of your fetishes?

Hmm I’m not sure where tickling came from. The TorD stuff I’m sure came from playing with my friends and me being gay, wanting it to go further, but they were straight and not interested. So that craving never really got satisfied. The muscle worship, groping, massaging etc. started earlier but definitely was further developed by my experience groping my friend at 19 which I talk about a few comments earlier. Not sure where underwear, cum control or any of those came from.

If it would be without any consequences, what would you like to do with your bf or other people? What would your bf think of it in your opinion?

I think like I’ve been saying since the beginning of this thread, I’d probably re-enact this idea of having a group of guys hangout and daring each other to do sexual things to each other (and I would include my bf in that group). I don’t think my bf would be cool with it at first since he is very happy with just the two of us and wouldn’t want to include other guys in our bedroom at this point in time.

Another thing I would like to do is tie up my bf and tickle him but unfortunately he doesn’t love being tickled so I don’t think he’d be open to that type of play.

What’s your favorite dish?

Hmm not sure if I have a dish specifically, but top cuisines are Italian, Mexican, Japanese.

[JimmyKarlo]

Have you ever watched porn together with someone else, like your bf?

What are the kinks / fetishes of your bf?

Did you talk about your prev. partners at some point especially in a sexual way? (This might bring up some ideas)

Spontanious idea: Maybe you can write little stories like this with your bf. Maybe even together, like Each adds a sentence or so?

[Josh.white97]

Have you ever watched porn together with someone else, like your bf?

Yea, I watched porn with some friends when I was 12 or 13, no one did anything since we were all just learning about it but we watched it for a while.

I did again with my bf a couple years ago since we thought it would be a fun thing to do together

What are the kinks / fetishes of your bf?

I’m not really sure, he likes being a sub. He likes when I’m a bit degrading toward him or I choke him in bed. Not sure what else beyond that, I’m trying to get him to open up more

Did you talk about your prev. partners at some point especially in a sexual way? (This might bring up some ideas)

We have shared stories, but again nothing out of ordinary sex really. It’s also not something I necessarily want to bring up to him that I did all these things with other guys.

Spontanious idea: Maybe you can write little stories like this with your bf. Maybe even together, like Each adds a sentence or so?

This is a cute idea! I sent him a kinkier story the other day and he seemed to like it, so maybe writing one together could be fun! Any other ideas you have, keep ‘em coming!

[Josh.white97]

Bumping if anyone has any additional advice or questions

[JimmyKarlo]

Did you use or have any toys? Which one is missing and next on your list? Would you like to use toys with your bf, if yes, which ones?

What was one of the special sexual experiences that you had? Funny, embarrassing or exciting?


Did you ever performed anything sexual in public? Would you like to at some point — simply the risk of getting caught?

[Josh.white97]

Did you use or have any toys? Which one is missing and next on your list? Would you like to use toys with your bf, if yes, which ones?

We have a dildo and my bf has sometimes used it to warm up but we haven’t used it in our play, maybe we should! I would probably into trying some sort of fleshjack or other stimulating machine. More so than toys, I’d love to get more male lingerie. My bf has a jockstrap but I’d want to get him some bottomless underwear and other things to wear

What was one of the special sexual experiences that you had? Funny, embarrassing or exciting?

One time I hooked up with this guy who was very kinky, not the type of guy I’d see again, but in the moment, it was an exciting experience. He was down for really anything, and he asked me to piss on him in the shower so I did and he let me tie him up, tickle him and pound him quite aggressively. It was a pretty fun experience being with someone who essentially had no limits

Did you ever performed anything sexual in public? Would you like to at some point — simply the risk of getting caught?

Hmm not really, I got a bj in a park at night once but that was more out of necessity of not having a place to host when I was younger. I’m not really into the public thing, I generally think I’m a kinky person but public just isn’t one of my kinks, not sure why

[JimmyKarlo]

If you have some nice lingerie or toys, maybe one could come up with some nice role play too, right? Anything that comes to your mind there?

What about other toys: plugs, chastity cages, clamps, etc... Would something be worth looking into?

Would you be interested in a threesome or even an other coulple (or more?)?

[Josh.white97]

If you have some nice lingerie or toys, maybe one could come up with some nice role play too, right? Anything that comes to your mind there?

Ya you’re right, especially with clothing we could definitely do some kind of jock / sports role play, even some kind of sub / dom play would be better if we got some bondage equipment

What about other toys: plugs, chastity cages, clamps, etc... Would something be worth looking into?

Maybe a vibrator or something pleasuring to use on my bf would be a good idea, and as I mentioned above maybe some type of restraints would be a good idea


Would you be interested in a threesome or even an other coulple (or more?)

Yes definitely! I think group play is so hot, as I’ve talked about in many posts before haha, probably a threesome to start, but open to a couple as well. I’d have to either be all male, or if a female is present would want a “straight” guy to play with