new vibrator- new here

[fyfy]

just got a new 6 in vibrator. What should I do with it? Im home alone and have access to household items. Im new to this and want to try new things. I normally just play around with clit stimulation, but want to explore penetration. I like to be told what to do!

[Garry0993]

Hi! welcome and hopefully you have most fun out of your experience here.

Since not knowing what are your kinks and limits, one suggestion I would have is to get used to your toy. I assume it got different speeds. Turn it on and press it against your clit for 5 minutes with each settings. See which one gives you the most pleasure.

Edging is my personal favourite, so I would suggest you don't cum until you have tried all 6 settings but edge only. Once you have tried all the speed level, feel free to cum up to 6 times if you can with you favourite setting.


Hopefully it would be a good start.

[fyfy]

sorry, I meant it is 6 inches, it has 3 speeds

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by fyfy

sorry, I meant it is 6 inches, it has 3 speeds

I did realize that after I read your post again. Sorry about that. But the idea stands. Try the 3 speed and see which one you like most.

And if you do enjoy penetration more, since it is 6in, you may try to fuck yourself with the toy as well with 3 settings. Still 5 minute each speed level.

[fyfy]

done! I enjoyed the medium setting the most, but I only came once. I have a hard time coming more than one time, but want to work on that.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by fyfy

done! I enjoyed the medium setting the most, but I only came once. I have a hard time coming more than one time, but want to work on that.

Glad you enjoyed it. Cum more then once is really a personal thing. If you physically cannot do it, then don't worry about it. I think I have had girls both cum once or multiples all had great fun at the end.

One thing that does help, if you can cum more then once, is to edge more. Because edging and denial does naturally make you more horny and more sensitive, maybe it will reduce the refectory period since once is not enough.

And give it a short break is also okay. You do not have to do force orgasm like in porn where its 20 in a role. That's just not realistic.


Since you have updated your likes and you just cum, I think a good idea would be use an ice cube to rub around your hot pussy to cool it off. Then use the medium, press against your clit again when you think you are ready to try again. this time 10 minutes each, press on your clit and us it to penetrate yourself. Still not allowed to cum but edge until the 20 minutes is up. If you are ready , feel free to cum again