Why Do You Crossdress?

SissySlutSamantha · 01-30-2021, 01:56 PM

I dont know if something like this has been posted before, id it has i would love the link, still:

Ive been recently doing a lot of research into why people, specifically men, like to crossdress. For some its a kink thing, others it seems to be a tool to unwind and de-stress.
But I wanna know...

Why Do YOU Crossdress?

HarlyStorm · 01-30-2021, 02:11 PM

I used to do it for kink. But after I found my gf and we talked a lot i found out I am gender fluid and I now dress whenever I feel girly.

SissySlutSamantha · 01-30-2021, 04:20 PM

Awesome Harly, glad its helped you discover yourself

I suppose i should probably answer my own question to set an example,

For me it also started as a kink, but has evolved into so much more. Its now an escape from the stresses in my life. home stuff, work life, all stressful on there own way, now i use crossdressing to get away from it all. I also have just grown incredibly fond of my female side and being dressed up, its like my 2nd personality.

Beginnersh · 01-30-2021, 04:26 PM

Yeah I think it's just a bit of an escape for me too. It's just so great to feel soft and cute and vulnerable every once in a while.

SexyJade · 01-30-2021, 06:32 PM

when i first started it was abit of wonder what it would be like to wear that.
now its a way for me to de stress and feel cute and light there is nothing better after having a bad day than dressing up and just relaxing in the feeling of the clothes and the way it makes you feel

Kisune Karnon · 01-31-2021, 02:41 AM

No particular reason why. It's a different clothing set and type. Curiosity is more of my thing.

LockMeSub · 01-31-2021, 09:48 AM

When I first started in my teenage years I think curiosity was the biggest part of it what does it feel like to wear a bra type thing. As I grew older though I became more aware of my feminine side and ended up getting all decked out as a women with my wife's help which led to a divorce. I got out of it for many years. Now that I am older I find myself wearing ladies panties and bra's under my cloths most days for more of a sexual reason to experience what its like to be a women satisfying men's needs orally.

rhl · 02-01-2021, 12:40 AM

Why do girls cross dress? Why is it acceptable for girls to cross dress and guys not to? Why did Old Navy use to sell, what they advertised as, gender neutral under pants and under shirts?
In my state the law is, if if it is acceptable for one gender to wear an item of clothing, the other gender can. The state doesn't have any rules against ladies going topless but local towns do.
New York City allows for either gender to be topless in their parks,
On federal land, their are no rules against being nude, so we do have a local nude beach.

So why do I wear gender bending clothing, sometimes for comfort, sometimes to make a statement, sometimes to push myself, and because I can.
I've even had conversations while wearing a mini skirt and my outfit never came up.

sissybill · 02-01-2021, 01:17 AM

ive been cross dressing since 1989 but it went very slowly from wearing pantys too now dressing from neck down filly n going out driving around hoping to be seen or caught its more of a feeling sexy as a woman thing for me its a huge turn on going out dressed n driving around n being seen by truckers etc

01-30-2021, 01:56 PM	#1
SissySlutSamantha Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: London, England Posts: 164 Blog Entries: 9	Why Do You Crossdress? I dont know if something like this has been posted before, id it has i would love the link, still: Ive been recently doing a lot of research into why people, specifically men, like to crossdress. For some its a kink thing, others it seems to be a tool to unwind and de-stress. But I wanna know... Why Do YOU Crossdress? __________________ An out crossdresser looking to do some fun dares UK/male/crossdresser My reddit: u/CD-Steph Follow my blog to see my real life crossdressing stories Likes: crossdressing, bondage, messy, pee, anal, feminzation, humiliation Limits: scat, face pics, nudes, public, illigal, involving friends or family, blood, scaring Kik - Darer7

01-30-2021, 02:11 PM	#2
HarlyStorm Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2020 Location: The interwebs Posts: 146 Blog Entries: 2	I used to do it for kink. But after I found my gf and we talked a lot i found out I am gender fluid and I now dress whenever I feel girly. __________________ Genderfluid(M)/Switch/kik: harlystorm Likes: Teasing, A bit of pain, chastity, petplay, bondage, crossdressing, light anal. Limits: permanent, illegal, friends/family, cbt, sounding, face, nude pics, video, pee/scat. If something isn't in my likes or limits. Just ask, I bite( but not that hard). My Collection My PM dares Fill my PM Dares list

01-30-2021, 04:20 PM	#3
SissySlutSamantha Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: London, England Posts: 164 Blog Entries: 9	Awesome Harly, glad its helped you discover yourself I suppose i should probably answer my own question to set an example, For me it also started as a kink, but has evolved into so much more. Its now an escape from the stresses in my life. home stuff, work life, all stressful on there own way, now i use crossdressing to get away from it all. I also have just grown incredibly fond of my female side and being dressed up, its like my 2nd personality. __________________ An out crossdresser looking to do some fun dares UK/male/crossdresser My reddit: u/CD-Steph Follow my blog to see my real life crossdressing stories Likes: crossdressing, bondage, messy, pee, anal, feminzation, humiliation Limits: scat, face pics, nudes, public, illigal, involving friends or family, blood, scaring Kik - Darer7

01-30-2021, 04:26 PM	#4
Beginnersh Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2018 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 5	Yeah I think it's just a bit of an escape for me too. It's just so great to feel soft and cute and vulnerable every once in a while. __________________ 30/m/straight-ish/switch Likes, dislikes, limits Clothes & accessories

01-30-2021, 06:32 PM	#5
SexyJade Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: Australia Posts: 144 Blog Entries: 1	when i first started it was abit of wonder what it would be like to wear that. now its a way for me to de stress and feel cute and light there is nothing better after having a bad day than dressing up and just relaxing in the feeling of the clothes and the way it makes you feel __________________ KIK: SexyJade113 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/1123209/featured tumblr: sexyjadeaus.tumblr.com Likes: X-Dressing, spanking, roleplay, diapers, hidden public Limits: illegal, permanent, family/friends, vomit, scat, ice, toothpaste, much pain, messy, public Albums: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/album.php?albumid=16163 https://www.getdare.com/bbs/album.php?albumid=10976

01-31-2021, 02:41 AM	#6
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,287 Blog Entries: 7	No particular reason why. It's a different clothing set and type. Curiosity is more of my thing. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

01-31-2021, 09:48 AM	#7
LockMeSub Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: Denver Colorado Posts: 107 Blog Entries: 3	When I first started in my teenage years I think curiosity was the biggest part of it what does it feel like to wear a bra type thing. As I grew older though I became more aware of my feminine side and ended up getting all decked out as a women with my wife's help which led to a divorce. I got out of it for many years. Now that I am older I find myself wearing ladies panties and bra's under my cloths most days for more of a sexual reason to experience what its like to be a women satisfying men's needs orally. __________________ 60/Male/Bi My Kik is HowSmall Likes: Exposure, Chastity, SPH Limits: Family, Permanent, messy, Illegal, friends, social suicide, body changes, Scat PM and Kik Dares

02-01-2021, 12:40 AM	#8
rhl getDare Succubus Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The Planet Earth Posts: 1,699 Blog Entries: 7	Why do girls cross dress? Why is it acceptable for girls to cross dress and guys not to? Why did Old Navy use to sell, what they advertised as, gender neutral under pants and under shirts? In my state the law is, if if it is acceptable for one gender to wear an item of clothing, the other gender can. The state doesn't have any rules against ladies going topless but local towns do. New York City allows for either gender to be topless in their parks, On federal land, their are no rules against being nude, so we do have a local nude beach. So why do I wear gender bending clothing, sometimes for comfort, sometimes to make a statement, sometimes to push myself, and because I can. I've even had conversations while wearing a mini skirt and my outfit never came up. __________________ My PM Dares and Likes my Kik to give or ask for a dare. I might not respond for a day or 2

02-01-2021, 01:17 AM	#9
sissybill Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2019 Location: pa Posts: 885 Blog Entries: 1	ive been cross dressing since 1989 but it went very slowly from wearing pantys too now dressing from neck down filly n going out driving around hoping to be seen or caught its more of a feeling sexy as a woman thing for me its a huge turn on going out dressed n driving around n being seen by truckers etc __________________ Like: Humiliation, orgasm control, panties, cum play, ruined orgasms, pics and videos. Anal, Pain. piss humiliation. hot wax. branding. body writing. bullied. .cross dressing .public humiliation .public dares n tasks / i love to be exposed forced gay-sex with pic/videos/indoors/outdoors my kik is sissycandy2464 Dislikes: scat n cbt my lovense app name is sissybill if yu hav the app send a friend request