Anyone blackmailed or been blackmailed?

[Curious53]

Originally Posted by Ton 68

yes have a dream that someone takes me slow in ful control and blackmail

That wouldn't be a dream, more like a nightmare

[Ton 68]

Originally Posted by Curious53

That wouldn't be a dream, more like a nightmare

why it can be exiting

[Jdelt]

Who did you blackmail?
Several users I met through getDare, one woman I met on CL.

Did they want it?
Yes. Everyone of them consented to it for a limited time, or to accomplish a specific task or goal.

What did you blackmail them with?
For most, faceless pictures with their getDare username written on them. You can see some in the link in my sig. A few have given me their real names, face pics, work and home addresses, FB passwords, etc... For one I locked down her PC and phone with parental control software.

What did you make them do?
We discussed likes and dislikes and limits very carefully before starting. For most, I made them do sexual activities and send me pics and videos. A few have had specific goals to accomplish (unpack after a move, stick to a diet, get homework done.)

Did you end up outing the blackmail material?
I've had to out a few on getDare, but those are just faceless pics with nothing to connect them in their public life.

How did you feel about it?
With the exception of the very first, who discussed the situation with me and agreed to have her pics posted, all of the others I've outed have been because the victim simply stopped responding. In each case, I reached out several times through various media, and received no response. I reluctantly posted them, because it is what we agreed on and a blackmailer who doesn't follow through has no credibility. But it was not the ending I had hoped for.

Anything else you want to share?
Yes. Blackmail, like any other consensual non-consensual play, should be entered into very carefully. I have found it extremely fun, and am friends with most of my former victims. But there are a lot of scary, cruel people out there, and ultimately you should never offer up more than you are willing to lose. For consenting, trusting adults, it is a very intense and satisfying experience. For an unwilling victim, it is a horrible nightmare and unforgivable violation.