Dares for couples or specifically for men

[wdigital]

Hi everyone!

I'm in a bit of a pickle. Me and my girlfriend want to play truth or dare this weekend for a date night, but I'm having trouble of thinking of dares that will be a turn on for her.

I've gone through the forum and gathered a few dares, but I'm still looking for some dares to add to the list.

I'm specifically looking for dares directed towards me (the boyfriend) which will turn her on- hence we are looking for some inspiration.

At the moment I feel that I'm benefiting more from the dare game then she is, so I want some dares to even out the playing ground and make it a fair game.
I'm looking for dares which will cause me (the guy) to feel a bit shy or uncomfortable (in a good way) with.

So the bottom line is: What type of dares, directed towards a guy, will turn you on ?
What tasks and deeds do you think will put a guy out of his comfort zone ?
Generally what do you want your guy to do ?

We are a very open minded couple so any suggestions will be much appreciated , no matter how 'weird' or how 'boring' they are.

Toys and goodies: Massager wand, vibrator, dildo, cock ring, rope, cuffs, anal lube, anal plug, blindfold, wax strips, soy candle, massage oil, booze, whipped cream.

Limits: Outdoor tasks, public, blood, third parties (including other people), scat.

Depending on how good the feedback is on this post, we will both upload a photo of one of the dares .

Thank you !!!

[Emiy]

Well, as you say, you already got a big collection of toys and you two are very open minded, so anything what would make you feel shy or uncomfortable is something you need to figure out between you two. If you were less 'equipped' I would say, let her instruct you to use a dildo on yourself or on her but most likely you already crossed that line.
You may try to submit to her, could be that she does not know what to do with it but when you honestly try to and obey her where you normally wouldn't or at least talk back, she would probably like it.

Best of luck!

[SecretTrainer]

Here's some ideas

A great one is for you to get a cock cage, search 'chastity' on ebay for some cheap ones. use a little padlock with it and she wears it on a chain around her neck. Then the dare is to see how long you can keep it on while she teases you and you have to get her off. There's something about them that, with many women anyway, unleashes a really knky side to them when they know they are turning you on but you can't do anything about it.

Another fun one can be forced orgasms for you, you'll need to be tied down for this, trust me. Basically she wanks you off, but, once you cum, she doesn't stop, in fact she uses your cum as lube to keep going, with the intention of trying to make you cum again without any respite when you're super sensitive. You have to see if you can cope or if you give up (using safewords, as you'll be shouting 'stop' before you know it). Google 'Psycho Handjob' for some inspiration!

Another could be to make you drink your own cum. I bet you make her do it... so one version is to make you cum into a shot glass and you have to down it. The sexier version is you cum in your mouth and she then kisses you.

Two words - Strap on.

Giving you a blow job while you have to watch gay porn.

Going down on her while she watches monster cock porn.

Let me know what you think and if you have particular kinks you want to explore though this for more ideas.

James

[wdigital]

Thank you for the quick reply Emiy and SecretTrainer.

@Emiy, we have actually not had many experiences with our collection of toys, we have just moved in together and just combined both our toys at our disposal . We will include the use of the dildos in our list of dares .

@SecretTrainer you gave some epic ideas ...
Apparently she will love to tease the hell out of me, she suggested tying me up rather than the cock cage. This one is definitely going on the list.
Haha I started to clench when I read about the forced orgasm, she seems to like the idea haha , things are definitely starting to even out. Looks like a safe word will be essential for this one.
The strap on idea seems to be a hot idea for her as well, she wants to feel how it feels to be a 'man'.
She loves the gay porn idea, she admitted fantasizing about me with another man.
As for the cum and monster cock idea she feels we must exclude them out of our list, weird girl.

Will you please hit me with more ideas James, when you got the time. Appreciate all your input.

[SecretTrainer]

Oh I'm glad you liked them!

Don't discount cock cages though. There's this weird thing that women don't like the idea of them until 'click' you're in it - have a look at this on ebay together http://goo.gl/cEkgHV. It's not as effective as the expensive ones but they're only for play really.

Some more ideas.

If you're newly moved in together then there's probably secrets you don't know.

Go to a porn site with lots of categories, I think porn hub is a good one, and you have to find three videos that really turn you on and watch them together while mutually masturbating.

Have her masturbate you while she describes the best sex she's ever had with others in great detail.

These are kind of third party but I've included them anyway as some might be okay for you.

Either of you could go on chaturbate or similar and have to explore your exhibitionist streak (no need to show faces). You could also do it together.

Throw an object out of the window and the loser has to go and get it, while naked.

Again for either of you, get locked outside your door in your just your underwear, and have to go to a neighbour to ask to phone the other person (who just happens to be 'just arriving') with the key. Bonus points for topless for her, or even just a towel, a small towel.

Fuck specifically so you are overheard by neighbours.

Send a text saying 'please let me cum' to an ex or someone else embarrassing, and then text 'sorry, wrong person!!!!'

Phone a relative or friend while being brought to orgasm by the other person.

Urethral insertions... slide a cue tip down your peehole while you're hard. You did say you wanted outside your comfort zone :P

[wdigital]

Haha I will take your word for it then, seems as if you are talking from experience :P .

We have newly moved in together but have been dating for 6+ years (from a very young age) so it's very difficult to get some new secrets out of each other, we also lost our virginities to each other so it makes it even more difficult in that sense. Do you perhaps have some juicy questions/truths we can put on our list ?

We like the chaturbate idea, seems like a fun and exciting experience.
We've created a chaturbate acc - wdigital. We still need to update some of our details though. Hopefully we will get it done before the weekend when all the fun starts.

Haha oouch, the urethral insertions seems painful , but hey if she's into it we will definitely give it a go- I'm starting to stress about the game now (in a good way)

Thank you for all your replies James.

[jt1]

Both of you should fill out the human sex map.

Make sure that you are both aroused before you start to fill it in. Put a time limit (15 mins?) on it so you dont think about it too much about it.

Fill the maps out individually without the other looking.

Post the links for here after you are finished.

http://www.humansexmap.com

[wdigital]

Thank you jt1, that map is HUGE but I think 15min-20min will be fine. Need to research some of those words

[MrCharcol]

If you douse a q tip down your urethra use some Vaseline on the cotton first or it will be very painful