I'm Jinxi, a full-time, live-in service slave of almost 2 years. AMA

[SlaveJinxi]

Hey everyone!

Like the title says, my name is Jinxi. I am a full-time live-in service slave and have been living this lifestyle for almost 2 full years now.

I did write a very brief overview about myself (here) but I wanted to open up a thread where you all in the getDare community could ask any questions you wanted.

Thanks for reading, and thank you in advance for any questions! I look forward to being able to answer them.

[LPV]

How did you meet your master?

Are you from the US?

How much education do you have?

What is your height and weight?

How often did you cum last year?

What are some if your rules?

[LPV]

How will you earn your orgasm?

Do you have limits?

Do you have a safe word?

Are you allowed out of the house?

Do you drive?

Are there other members of the household?

Do your relatives know you are a slave?

Do you get paid?

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by LPV

How will you earn your orgasm?

Do you have limits?

Do you have a safe word?

Are you allowed out of the house?

Do you drive?

Are there other members of the household?

Do your relatives know you are a slave?

Do you get paid?

More very good questions! Thank you!

- I do have limits yes, and they have been outlined in the contract Sir and I have. Also something that is probably deserving of it's own blog post, but again a brief overview of limits would be: beastiality, scat play, illegal activities (kind of broad here, but things like no nudity around non-consenting bystanders, no spontaneous play sessions in the grocery store, that type of thing). We recently changed the "no blood" limit to "no excessive blood", No intentional hospital trips (basically like no breaking bones or doing something that would lead to a hospital trip on purpose- accidents can happen, but I have been fortunate enough to stay out of the hospital to this point, and plan to keep it that way)

- I do also have a safe word. We just use the traditional color system (red is the safeword), or three grunts in a row if I can't speak. I haven't used it to this point either (Sir is a very observant and caring Master)

- I am not allowed out of the house on my own, however Sir does bring me with him to a lot of places. Grocery shopping, dinner dates, movies, work events, vacations, that type of thing.

- I am not allowed to drive. I do technically still have a drivers license (it hasn't expired), but I haven't driven even once since moving in with Sir.

- The household is just me, Sir, and misha (Sir's cat).

- I don't actually know my family members. I grew up in a foster home and never met my birth parents. But my foster family does not know.

- I do get paid, yes. When we first started our dynamic together, I had gone to school and earned a bachelor's degree in public health. So long story short, all of my expenses are paid for while living with Sir, plus money equal to the amount I could be making in the field I went to school for is put away into a savings account for me for if or when our relationship ends.

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by LPV

How will you earn your orgasm?

Do you have limits?

Do you have a safe word?

Are you allowed out of the house?

Do you drive?

Are there other members of the household?

Do your relatives know you are a slave?

Do you get paid?

I missed one question.

How I will earn my orgasm. There is a link to a thread on that in my signature, but basically by doing (or having them done to me) set punishments that the getDare community gives to me before a certain deadline (March 11th)

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by LPV

How did you meet your master?

Are you from the US?

How much education do you have?

What is your height and weight?

How often did you cum last year?

What are some if your rules?

Thank you for the questions!!!!

-I am indeed from the US, however I am of Irish and Russian decent.

-I am 5'4" tall and at my last weigh-in I was 128 pounds

-I haven't had an orgasm at all since March 12th, 2019, so I didn't cum very often at all last year, lol. Before March 12th though, I was on a "1 orgasm a month" program, so I did have 3 for the entire year of 2019.

-The rules is a very good question, and I will make a point to make a blog-post going over all of them (there is quite a few). But some of the big ones are I am not allowed to touch my pussy at all, I am not allowed to put on clothing (anytime I get to wear clothing at all, Sir dresses me), and every night I sleep with my wrists cuffed and a neoprene gag. There are several more, which I will put in a blog post, but those are some of the bigger ones

[luckee101]

How did you get into the lifestyle?
What is your favorite fetish?
What is your master's favorite fetish?
In a typical week, do you usually get more rewards or punishments?
What was the best reward you've ever received? The most disappointing?
What was the worst punishment you've ever received? How did you earn it?

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by luckee101

How did you get into the lifestyle?
What is your favorite fetish?
What is your master's favorite fetish?
In a typical week, do you usually get more rewards or punishments?
What was the best reward you've ever received? The most disappointing?
What was the worst punishment you've ever received? How did you earn it?

Thank you for the questions!!! I love it!!

- My personal favorite fetish is bondage. No doubt about it. I love the feel of the rope on me, and I love the feeling of helplessness.

- I would say my Master's favorite fetish is micro-management (that's a little bit of my bratty side coming out there). But he would tell you that he has two favorite fetishes. Impact play and "anything that causes discomfort." Needless to say, I do spend a lot of time in predicament bondage, have all sorts of things clamped on me, or things poking me, or spanking me. I sleep every night with my hands cuffed and a neoprene gag so even when I am sleeping, I am just slightly uncomfortable. Or even just simple things like Sir will put heels on me, but fill them with rice. So yeah, causing discomfort.

- This has changed dramatically over the last 2 years. I originally got punished WAY more than I got rewarded, but over time I've learned what Sir wants and expects, and now I'd say it's about 50/50 on them honestly. I do feel like I "earn" more rewards now than punishments, but Sir has caught on to that, and now a reward might simply be not being punished.

- The best reward I ever received was a full week spa vacation with very few rules during the week. It was after the first time that Sir decided he wanted to have a house party with his friends, and I was of course the cook, greeter, server, and later entertainment, and even later the maid to clean everything up. All of Sir's friends gave me glowing reviews and they loved their time, so Sir took me for the spa trip and gave me a bit more freedom than I usually have.

The most disappointing reward I have ever gotten was the first time that my "reward" was hearing Sir say "I guess you won't be getting punished after all." To be honest, I don't remember exactly what was going on before, but I remember that I was feeling super proud of myself and felt like I had exceeded all expectations on whatever it was, then finding out that the reward was just not being punished.... I'm more used to that one now, but it was incredibly disappointing the first time.

- The worst punishment I've ever had was after we were at a business party and Sir heard me call his colleague by his first name instead of Mr. so-and-so. Not by any means the worst offense I've ever committed, but for some reason, in the moment, I thought I would argue with Sir about it, and that's where it went south really quickly.

The punishment itself was pretty brutal, that now is referred to as "a weekend in the dungeon." which is pretty much exactly what it sounds like. I spent the entire weekend (friday night from when we got home from the business party, until monday morning when Sir went to work) in the dungeon (the dungeon is a room in the basement filled with lot of BDSM furniture and bondage points and whatnot). There were several different positions, but I was bound for the entire weekend, and although they moved around, I had at least 2 clamps somewhere on my body the entire weekend, lots of whipping, caning, suspension, electric play, basically all of the painful and uncomfortable things and none of the good feeling things like tickling or edging.

[LPV]

Are you ticklish?


Have you been tickled?


Do you work out?

Have you had to do forced workouts?

Have you had to do tasks where you went without sleep for long periods?

[just.for.fun01]

How did you find your sir?

Was this something you thought you would do or did the opportunity just present itself?

How much older is your sir?

Do you miss any part of your pre slave life?

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by just.for.fun01

How did you find your sir?

Was this something you thought you would do or did the opportunity just present itself?

How much older is your sir?

Do you miss any part of your pre slave life?

- I met Sir at a BDSM workshop actually. Just about 5 years ago now. He had a little booth set-up at the event and was selling his home-made kinky toys. We talked a lot that night, felt a connection and then set up a coffee date later that week. The coffee date turned into more coffee dates, which turned into going to munches and other kinky workshops together, which turned into having a Dom/sub dynamic which we had for almost 2 years before it evolved into the full-time live-in situation we have now. So a lot of time and negotiating and planning went into it to say the least.

- 5 years ago, it wasn't even on my radar. I knew I liked BDSM and kinky things, but that was about it. By the time Sir proposed that I move in with him, my mind was already there and I was planning on it (we had talked a lot about it leading up to the offer to move in, it wasn't a spur of the moment decision, nor should it be for anyone honestly. It's a big commitment).

- Well, I am 25 years old, and Sir is in his mid 30's. So I'll let you do the math there

- I don't really miss it honestly. At the risk of typing something that you may have already read, I grew up in a foster home, so I don't really have any family so to speak of. I went to college, but wasn't really excited at the prospect of spending the next 40 years of my life at a desk working away in a traditional sense. I didn't really have any ties to anything, or any motivation for moving forward (I should clarify here that I wasn't like depressed or anything, I was in a good state of mind, but just wasn't excited if that makes sense). The last 2 years have been exciting, and fun, and more than I had ever imagined I would be doing at any point in my life prior to it. Obviously it's not for everyone, but that's the beauty of life right? We get to make our own way, and I am very pleased with mine so far.

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by LPV

Are you ticklish?


Have you been tickled?


Do you work out?

Have you had to do forced workouts?

Have you had to do tasks where you went without sleep for long periods?

- I am indeed ticklish yes!

- I have been tickled as well. A lot. Sir tickles me almost every day from just quick tickles throughout the day, to occasionally a full out bondage tickling session.

- I do work out yes. It's part of my rules, but I workout every day.

- I'm not entirely positive what a forced workout is. But I am "forced" to workout every day because of my rules. And I have done some sessions that working out is incorporated.

- Sir has never made me miss more than 1 night of sleep in a row. But there have been occasions where I am put into a predicament and "allowed" to sleep, but simply cant because of the predicament.

[MasterDaddy02]

So how many times does Sir fuck you a day?
Does it happened more times if he is horny after having play session?
So do you get a shot every few months to keep you from getting pregnant?
Do you sleep with Sir in the same bed?
What type of clothing does Sir dress you in when going out in public?
What happens when you are on your period?
Does Sir family think of you as his girlfriend?
Or Sir have told them that you are his personal slave?
Was it hard to give up control of yourself at first to Sir?
Was it hard to give up that clothing control as well to Sir?
Or do you see this as a paid job?

[SlaveJinxi]

Just wanted to say that I see the three posts here that I haven't answered yet, and I promise that I will get them answered before bed tonight! It's just been a busy day so far for me. I'm not ignoring them!!!

Thanks for understanding!!!

[SlaveJinxi]

Originally Posted by MasterDaddy02

So how many times does Sir fuck you a day?
Does it happened more times if he is horny after having play session?
So do you get a shot every few months to keep you from getting pregnant?
Do you sleep with Sir in the same bed?
What type of clothing does Sir dress you in when going out in public?
What happens when you are on your period?
Does Sir family think of you as his girlfriend?
Or Sir have told them that you are his personal slave?
Was it hard to give up control of yourself at first to Sir?
Was it hard to give up that clothing control as well to Sir?
Or do you see this as a paid job?

- There's not really a standard I guess to that. Sometimes it might be 5+ times in a day, but there are some days he doesn't fuck me at all. I guess if you average it all out, maybe 1-2 times a day? I do give Sir a blowjob at minimum of 2 times a day, but I don't know if that counts as him fucking me.

- Sir very rarely fucks me after a play session. At least right away. Depending on the sessions intensity, once it's over, Sir's first priority is aftercare for me. But he also will fuck me during sessions as well depending on what he's feeling at the time.

- I have an IUD for birth control, so no shots needed. Obviously no birth control is 100% effective, but it has worked for the last 2 years without any issues.

- I do sleep in the same bed as Sir, yes. Sir enjoys it (as do I), and because I do sleep with my hands bound and a gag, Sir doesn't want me to be alone.

- Sir tends to dress me in clothing that's appropriate for the environment we will be in. So generic errands, I usually end up wearing like jeans and a button up blouse, or business dinners a nice dress. A date night between the two of us, something on the sexier side (but not inappropriate). And sometimes it's just jeans and a hoodie. The only thing that might be different than what you would expect to see is that for the last few months, Sir has really been favoring heels for almost every occasion (different types of heels of course, but heels).

- Because of my IUD, while I do technically get a period still, it is very much not what you imagine when you think of periods. In two years, I have never used a tampon or pad, and there has only been 1 instance where we had to clean up blood. So it's basically a non-issue.

- Sir's family think's I am his girlfriend. So whenever they visit (or we visit them), things get a lot more discrete (but they don't stop).

- So giving up the control would definitely be hard if it happened all at once. Sir and I have been working on and building the dynamic and rules we have over 4+ years and we definitely did not have as many protocols (rules) even 2 years ago, when I moved in, as we do now. It's was a slow process, introducing things one at a time and seeing what worked for us. The list of rules I follow today, is indeed long, but the list of rules that we tried and just didn't work for us is probably just as long, and it is still changing (the new computer rules and online kinky communities). So I know it's kind of a non-answer, but because of the way we got the point we are now, it wasn't hard to give up the control. But if you had come to me 2, 3, 4+ years ago with the list I have today and asked me to do it, I would have ran away as fast as I could.

- I do see this as a paid job for sure. However, the connection that I have made with Sir over the years is also more in line with what you might think of as a relationship. I don't expect that this will last forever, however, I also can see the very real possibility that this will continue forever (of course changing to fit the circumstances along the way).