It has been a pretty bumpy ride through 2022 but things are really looking up over the last few months. Lots of excitement happening here, and that is keeping me super busy. A few updates:

6 years with Jaro
Jaro and I are celebrating 6 years together this weekend. We are currently in the middle of 24 hours of TPE (of course with timezones and being online only, we really just did the best we could). I still can't believe I have owned my worm for 6 years. This really has been an...

Can you like... not send your naked videos to someone who never requested ? Not tell someone who also never asked that you came in your cage ? Not try forcing someone to make a choice for you like they are your human dice, because you can't find a person to dominate you the way you'd like ?

I'm a female and I even don't do that, even if I know that some if not most males would welcome such behavior, I still don't do it, you know why ? Because it's not nice, it's disrespectful, it's selfish,...

A couple of weeks ago i decided to try the good old “swimsuit came off by accident” dare at a public pool. I had been dared to go skinny dipping before, or to undress in the pool and toss my clothes out of the pool etc. These I have done and while the risk of being see was relatively low (it was a pool in my apartment building), I still got a thrill from them.

This time, I wanted to be seen. I couldn’t figure out how to get completely naked at the pool as that would be too apparent, so...

Hey GetDare community,
I recently completed a dare provided by zephyrnem that involved dice rolls and dares. Below is the dare provided:

A) Roll a die for what you will wear:
1. Underwear
2. Swimsuit
3. Shirt only
4. Coat Only
5. Towel
6. Naked
B)Now roll a die for how many times you roll and do a dare from the following list:
1. Roll a room number
2. Elevator (roll die again for how many buttons you push)...

Ownership

• 01) Fully accept that you are consensually owned by your Master.
  But show your Mistress the same respect, even in disagreement or distress, as you would show to your Master.
• 02) Remember that you are a well trained pet (Dog).
  Good dogs are obedient. Obey all rules, tasks, and instructions, within established hard limits (which are always respected). If there are any concerns about limits, bring them up respectfully for discussion. Otherwise, don’t think, don’t worry,

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Ad Status: Closed
Not expecting to be looking again in the forseeable future.

After mostly lurking on getDare for many years, and dabbling around the edges mostly due to lack of time (now no longer an issue), at the start of this year I started actively seeking a ongoing online-only D/s relationship. After a few false starts and wonderful experiences I am actively seeking again. Hopefully you are the person I am seeking.

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Prompted by a friend, I recently spent some time considering what exactly I desire with regards to humiliation. I found it a useful exercise to reflect on this as the process of putting my thoughts into words aids in clarifying them, and I thought I would share it here on my blog.

I've never quite got clear in my head if there is a difference between humiliation and degradation. There is an interesting discussion thread about this here on GD, but it feels to me that people tend to make...