Over the past few years I have really grown into my Domme role. My first relationship as a Domme was with Colosubguy. It just kind of happened spontaneously in chat one day. He was a great sub and a lot of fun, but after a few months, we just weren't able to meet each others needs. We ended things amicably and went our seperate ways. He is now in an amazing relationship with a new Domme who is perfect for him.

After that experience, I really didn't embrace my Domme side much at all. Instead...

I have been on the search for a Dom partner for a long while now. I have had some success but nothing that has lasted too long. I have found that my patience has worn thing for certain things. Let's call it my "Searching for a Dom Pet Peeves"

1. Grammar/Spelling
I think I am a Grammar/Spelling snob. For some reason I just can't take somebody seriously who can't take the time to spell out "you" instead of "u". Of course I am not completely unreasonable....

So i’ve found myself intrigued by the idea of inserting a banana into ones anus. I kept wondering how it would feel and how it would work. While chatting with a guy on a sex chat, he asked why I didn’t try it myself, and in effect dared me to do it…so I did…twice. After much discussion with the person, the dare was to insert an entire banana up my ass and leave it in with the aid of a butt plug for a period of 1 hour. So here’s a dare that might interest any of you who are into anal and some mild elements...

Updated 22/10/2022
Any kinks in purple are done with/for my Dominant or with his approval first only.

Loves:
Spanking, Ice/wax play, restraints, Blogging/written reports/Creative writing assignments, toys, humiliation, verbal name calling and degradation mild/moderate/heavy pain, bruises/abrasions (hidden) body writing, chance games (such as dice games etc), being collared, male superiority play, interrogation, denial, humping, objectification, rough sex,rimming, used as...

I'm here mostly for research purposes and just general interest and curiosity. I am not looking for a Master/Mistress, nor am I after a sub. I will post an advertisement if I am after either.

I like intelligent conversation, and loathe text speak. I am a Creative Writing student after all. I dare you to stop screwing with the English language, thank you very much.

I got sick and tired of people asking me, without reading my profile, “a/s/l?” so it’s in my signature. On that...

Due to a pm dare, I have to ask Sam or Lucy for permission every time I want to pee.... In this blog I will report on how this goes...

In addition to asking permission, I have to follow the following rules, just to make it that much more difficult... -:

1.Drink a glass of water every time you get up in the morning

2. Drink a glass of water before bed

3. Drink at least 6 glasses (8oz.) of water a day

4. Listen to a waterfall (video/actual...

So, this was inspired from Tink's posts which you can find

Here and Here

Let's start with the first one. I used to post a lot on the forums before I started sticking to just chat and private messages.

And even so, I get messages from so many people who have seen me in chat yet never spoken to me, or people who don't even go in chat (or at least haven't been there when I am) so fuck knows why they decide to PM me.

Yes, I may be a switch..or...