Sometimes kinks can be soooooo confusing. It is bad enough that we get turned on by things that most people would find weird at best, and repulsive at worst. Who the hell knows why we get turned on by being peed on? or wearing diapers? or feet?

There are a few specific things that really leave my mind confuzled!

Denial
So, Denial is in my limits. It makes me so incredibly miserable if it is implemented for a few days, that I can barely function as a human being....

I love dogs. If I had the room/money I would have them ALLLLL. I was extremely sad when I had to rehome my german shepard about two years ago after she suddenly tried to bite my child for no reason.

Since then I have been on the search for a dog that is house trained, good with kids and still relatively young. For two years I have had no luck. All the ones I was interested in on social media sites either were no good with children or weren't the type of dog I wanted. The ones I volunteer...

Now that i had 2 weeks holiday
i kinda feel lost

i havent really done anything but make and destroy stuff again

i havent done stuff on GD either
but also just everything felt off

i dont know whats up with me
but i just .... dont know whats up

I needed to share this with people because it was fucking me up

but i guess the biggest thing is i feel lonely again

after such a long time of being not...

The Search Begins

My search for my next dominant has “officially” begun. After splitting from Sexyred I decided to take my time I properly decide what I wanted before setting off on my search. I’ve replied to a few ads but to no avail so set about writing my ad, although I think my nerves about opening myself up again ooze through Opening yourself up to a world of rejection is a scary position to put yourself into; especially for me when my self-confidence is pretty brittle to begin...

If I am asked what my top 3 skills are, I would say a) creativity, b) organization and c) communication. I really love to communicate. I am good at it. Most of my friends and coworkers come to me in order to get advice on how or what to say in different situations. When something needs to be said, people ask me to draft the way it should be done. I have a knack for saying things in a tactful, clear and concise manor.

I know others don't all share my skill level when it comes to communication,...

Over Easter AM set me a task that involved orgasms and chocolate but then naturally my period started and so we had to wait to complete it. We completed it earlier this week and it was fun and silly and I giggled a lot.

The task was to get a handful of chocolates, put on a blindfold and scatter the chocolates around the room. I would crawl until I found one, eat it (no hands allowed) and then orgasm and repeat until either I had found all the chocolates or I couldn't do any more. (I am...

Awhile ago, somebody asked me to write a blog about what marriage was like compared to what I thought it would be like. I thought that today, our second wedding anniversary, might be a good day to write about this.

Mr. Devious and I met right here, on getDare, almost 5 years ago. At the time we lived on opposite ends of the country. It didn't take us long to realize that we needed to be closer to each other. So I took the plunge and one year to the day of meeting online, we started our...