1- do you feel very motivated to please your Dom, like their pleasure is yours ?

2- when you fail at doing a task for your Dom, do you want to improve and keep trying until you get it, or do you simply wish they won't be mad and not ask you to do it again ?

3- have you had feelings similar to love for your Dom ?

4- when you think of replacing your Dom by another one, is that an easy thought to conceive ?

5- do you feel more compelled to push...

Target : any gender
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Tools : toothbrush, vaporub

1) give yourself an orgasm with the method of your choice and don't ease the stimulation once you have it, and start counting how long you can stand the post orgasm

2) the number you got will be how many times you will brush a toothbrush over each one of your nipples - this might sound counter intuitive but it means that you will try to stand the post orgasm longer if you desire more of this stimulation,...

PM me a keyword for a dare

Edge = I'll edge for 15 minutes, you can decide what material I edge to

Bad dog = I have to use the bathroom somewhere I shouldn't (ie. my pants, a bucket, the shower)

HEAT = I have to hump something for 5 minutes like a bitch in heat

Oral = I have to practice oral for a minute in the mirror plus one deepthroat

lightbulb = suggest a new PM dare

COMMANDO = must go commando for 24 hours...

And it hit me that what I needed was a BDSM session. I wasn't horny, I just wanted to inflict pain to my body, to forget the other pain. To be controlled so that I can let go for a moment. To have something to focus on that someone is keeping me busy with so that my mind stops drifting back to him. I pretty much knew it was an unhealthy approach but I couldn't stand myself and how I felt anymore.

I was lucky as I often have been so far in here with my encounters, to find a Dom who was...

Things have been a roller coaster of emotions in the past two weeks, two weeks of being a Sub to a wonderful Dom that has just made my year, two weeks of discovering a side of me I didn't know could bring me that much joy, two weeks that felt like I've known him for an eternity, yet, two weeks that are starting to seem way too short now.

For private reasons relating to my Dom's life we have come to a point where the continuity of our Sub-Dom dynamic is now put into question, the verdict...

1) In the BDSM test results that I posted in a previous blog entry, I had only taken the questions concerning Masochism/Submissiveness, so this is why it makes no mention of me being a Switch

2) I am like 95% imo on the M side of things so my S side barely needs a mention, even when I do get in the mood to be the dominant, I only like a bit of control and intimidation and won't really be interested in much pain oriented activities

3) My desire to dominate a Sub might appear...

This might save us some oopsies, so I will list here some not very obvious things that I like or that I don't like that sometimes people do because of lack of knowing me or understanding my list of likes and limits.

• I like to be punished for my "wrong doings" but only if it's fair
  
  
• I despise attempts at domination outside of any structure that warrants it, if you're not my long term term Dom, if we're not in session or playing in any way, don't hit me with

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