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Swan Song

Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:07 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

getDare has always held such a special place in my heart. This is where I met my husband, and my little worm. It is where I found myself. I learned to be a Domme. This is where I have grown into the person that I am today.

I have been here pretty steadily for the last 10+ years. When I am not writing blogs or hanging out in the chat, I am always in the background responding to reports, putting out fires, listening to people whine and complain. It is tiring at times, discouraging at others.
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Early Butterfly gets the Worm

Posted 04-05-2023 at 03:56 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Right now my Worm, Jaro, is sleeping. Tomorrow morning he is going to get up, at the butt crack of dawn as always, and he is going to be heading to the airport. After a 9 hour flight, he will land in Canada!

It has been over three years since he was here last. I cannot wait to see him again. I have lots of things planned for us. Kinky things like arranging for somebody to fuck him in the ass, attempting to fist him, peeing on him, having him sleep in a cage, be my human furniture and
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Switchy Switch

Posted 04-02-2023 at 05:47 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)
Updated 04-02-2023 at 06:17 PM by Butterfly

As most of you know, I am a switch. However, for the longest time I was reluctant to consider myself a switch. The reason being, I struggled to switch with the same partner. Instead, I liked to call myself a sub who switches. I know, I know ... that really isn't much different, but I felt like it got my point across better.

Early on in my relationship with Mr. Devious, I tried to switch with him. I was given a week to give him rules and play with him. I was so excited, but it went horribly.
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Doctor Slothy

Posted 03-31-2023 at 06:42 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have never been somebody who enjoys roleplaying. It just feels cringey and cheesy to me. I don't have a poker face and so pretending to be in character just makes me laugh and feel awkward.

However, a few years ago, we did an interogation roleplay that was super hot. It felt less like a roleplay because we were just ourselves, but essentially we played without limits. If I wanted something to stop, I gave the code. It made it feel less like pretend.

Throughout my porn
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Intro to Breathplay

Posted 03-29-2023 at 05:22 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Breathplay has been a theme that I have been drawn to in porn for quiet a while. I get so wet when I am watching somebody gasp for air through a gas mask, or with a bag on their head. My clit tingles when a bound woman is dunked underwater.

As much as the thought of it has turned me on, and led me to many edges and orgasms, breathplay is a kink that has always resided outside of my risk profile.

So many things could go wrong, despite any safeguards that you put in place.
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Subby Vulnerability

Posted 03-01-2023 at 11:50 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed with life lately. I started a new job in January, two new dynamics within the last 6 months, some family drama and its just been a lot of adulting and stuff. You know, life!

One tactic that I have always been able to use to help me decompress when life gets overwhelming, is to submit. For a long time, I did this with Mr. Devious. However, as life has changed over the years and we have grown in our kinks, we have come to the realization that we just
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Life happens!

Posted 02-28-2023 at 11:41 PM by Butterfly (The Butterfly Effect)

Whether you are a casual kinkster or you live a kinky lifestyle, it is so important to remember that LIFE HAPPENS! Kink and sex should not be the most important thing ever. So many things take precedence: relationships, careers, mental health, family etc. However, it continues to be something that I see people fretting and stressing over around here ...

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