This is a report for a few pet play tasks I received from an amazing Master on Kik.


Report:
I adjusted this slightly as I do live with several family...

Prompted by a friend, I recently spent some time considering what exactly I desire with regards to humiliation. I found it a useful exercise to reflect on this as the process of putting my thoughts into words aids in clarifying them, and I thought I would share it here on my blog.

I've never quite got clear in my head if there is a difference between humiliation and degradation. There is an interesting discussion thread about this here on GD, but it feels to me that people tend to make...

Gags turn me on so much. It is just another loss of control. When I watch porn, I love seeing different types of gags being used.

However, I have had gags listed in my limits for a long time. This is for a few reasons:

1. I am claustrophobic
2. I don't like drool/being messy
3. It feels humiliating (makes me look and sound funny).

I have wanted to find the right person to explore this with. I have had a few Dom's come into my life and try, but it hasn't worked.

I...

I am a 46 year old, straight male Dom or Master.

I play casually on getDare as a dare and task giver, and generally participate in kink discussion and learning. I rarely (never) accept dares or tasks, but I love giving them out so my likes and limits here are as a Dom, Master, Top, or general Dare Giver.

I have experience with many forms of BDSM kink but my primary kink is submission and control. This means that I am generally willing to take account of your personal kinks and...

Toys:
Remote Controlled WeVib (Internal and External)
Pocket Rocket Mini Vib (Single Speed)
Standard Hard Smooth Vib Purple (With Dial)
Mini Cordless Wand

Bondage Gear:

Chest Harness
Leather Wrist Cuffs (Lockable)
Leather Ankle Cuffs (Lockable)
Leather Thigh Cuffs
Collar (Lockable)
Nipple Clamps with Chain
-Bed with Hard Points
-Chair with Hard Points
-Access to other Equipment...

likes:

orgasm control
toys
masturbation control
creative bondage
light public
light pain
clothing control
exercise control
just plain fun and creative dares [drinking games/dares]
General banter.


limits:

messy
pee
poo
gross
anal
permanent
illegal
extreme pain
family/friends/work
animals
photos
written reports
future dares...

I am poly and have multiple partners. I currently have four poly relationships.

1. Mr. Devious: I would consider this my primary relationship. We are married. We met here on getDare about 9 years ago. He began as my Dom and we fell in love. I moved across the country to live with him. Once we settled in to live together, we realized that a power exchange dynamic just didn't work between us. However, we are still kinky together in the bedroom.
2. Jaro: Jaro and I have been together for 6 years. We have

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