As I contemplate this blog, wondering if I have anything to say and how to go about, I'm refraining from grabbing my purse and indulging in my not-so-secret love.

Romance novels.

Tortured men, glamorous women, and an undeniable connection that makes them irresistibly attracted to one another. Dashing pirates, feisty damsels, and a prolonged fight for control, where of course the woman gives. How on earth could I resist?

I adore books. I will read any genre...

Figging is always something I have wanted to try, but it is something that has always scared the crap out of me! Which I think also turned me on more ….


After reading a blog by Sub Lucy about figging, I wanted to try it even more. Asslvr and I haven’t had much time to play lately, so I decided I would use my sub as a guinea pig.


I had Jaroface purchase some ginger on his way home and then we had a play session with the ginger. I will let him share further...

As I explained here, I love PM dares. I also love games, more for the love of playing. But if you love games for the thrill of a stake, here are some PM dares for you. Feel free to link to this list, copy all of them or parts into your own PM dare list, modify them however you like or just let them inspire you. PM or comment with any change or new PM dare proposals.

I DON'T do these PM dares myself (until you find them in the lists in my signature ):

PM me "BATTLESHIP...

I mentioned recently I wanted to blog but didn't know what to write about and this resulted in first Sophie and then Aimee telling me to write about them and then agreeing I should write about both of them.

So here we are.

I love them both because they make me giggle with the things they say. Half of the time they say what I am about to or have me laughing so much I end up spitting my drink everywhere and choking.

I love them both because they are both beautiful...

Somebody recently asked me how I balance our D/s relationship with being in love. It really got me thinking, and I thought I would try to write about it a bit.


When Asslvr and I first met, we met on getDare and started to play online. We seemed to have a strong connection and a great D/s dynamic. We had daily rules, weekly routines and regular playtime, as well as lots of time to just be in contact with each other and talking about kinky and non kinky things. We talked a lot!...

Likes: Masturbation Instructions, Porn Control, Pictures(No Face), Light Pain, Femdom, Bets/Games

Will Do: Light Anal, Very Light CBT

Dislikes: Moderate Pain, Light CBT, Moderate-Heavy Anal, Heavy Nipple Torture

Soft Limits: Piss Play, Scat, Heavy Pain

Hard Limits: Shaving, Clothing Control, Public, Face Pictures, Buying Things, Other, People, Vomit, Extreme Pain, Illegal, Blood, Family, Animals

Toys: Clothespins, Makeshift Dildo,...

Yep, if you haven't checked your calendar its that time of year again.

Its the the day where you can experience the awkward family get together that we like to call.

Sunday.










In other news Its Christmas.





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