My pet has been very open with the fact that he is not very good at edging. He will be edging along nicely and all of a sudden ... a ruin! It is something that he has become a little better at controlling since we started practicing, but it is still pretty frequent.

It has never really bothered me, because I know it is something that he can't really prevent from happening. I know he isn't deliberately breaking a rule or finding a loop hole around the rule. It just happens.
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I can't believe that yesterday marked two months since Jaro and I started a D/s relationship. At first I was shocked to think that it has already been two months. It doesn't seem like that much time has passed, but when I started to reflect on everything we have done, it is surprising that it has ONLY been 2 months!

I first contacted Jaro because I saw that he was interested in exploring his submissive side. He had a list of curiosities that worked well with my likes and interests and...

I want to preface this to say that this is how I do things as a Domme. It may not work for you and that is fine, but maybe it can help somebody just starting to figure out a way that works for them. A lot of this was learned through trial and error but for the most part, I have found a system that works for me and so I wanted to share it.

Being in a D/s relationship is more than just assigning or completing tasks. There is a lot of information that is involved and keeping it organized...

My pet recently suggested that I post a blog on my views and feelings surrounding punishments, both giving and receiving.


First of all, I want to stress that there is a huge different between a punishment and a funishment.


Punishment
I believe that punishments are something that should be avoided. A punishment should be something that is a consequence for breaking a rule, or being “bad”. It should consist of something that the punishee doesn’t like,...

As some of you may know, Asslvr and I had posted an ad this past summer looking for somebody to join our dynamic. However, after going through 70 applications, and speaking with a few people, nobody ended up being quite the right fit for us. I had kinda given up, but the longing to Domme again continued to grow.

I found that over the past few months, I have been very bossy with Asslvr. I pinch his nipples, and tease and torture him all the time. I have even beaten him up a few times (he...