Jaro recently asked Butterfly and I why we both like to deny him so much. Butterfly already posted a lovely blog here in response.

My reasons are pretty similiar. Why do I enjoy it?
Because it is fun to watch him squirm. To see/hear him beg to be allowed release, only to be told a big fat no. It amuses me when he offers us things of his own accord in the hope we will trade that in exchange for allowing him to touch/orgasm.

Of course, we can and do often order him...

This was written by myself and AM, I am pink and he is black.

I have quite a bit of experience as both a sub and domme and have engaged in many play times over the years along with being very willing to try out any new fantasy or curiosity that pops into my head, even when I am nervous scared or anxious. I have a couple of play partners AM has approved of me playing with in person until we can physically be together. Sometimes I will have a scene with them alone and other times AM will...

On the first day of Christmas, my Sir did give to me:
One orgasm for loving him.

Yay, orgasms! Orgasms are fun. I wasn't restricted from porn at the time of this orgasm so I got myself nice and horny with my wand while watching some of my favourite kink videos before I allowed myself an orgasm. The bad news is my wand is on its last legs and I have to hold the wire in a specific position for the wand to work. I really hope it lasts until after Christmas when I can get a new one!...

Dare - I had to check my mail while just wearing bra, panties, dressing gown and heels.....)


Well I just completed this dare..... It was the 1st time I have ever worn heels outside my apartment! I put on my matching yellow bra & panties and dressing gown. Then put on my heels (the heel is 11cm or a little over 4 inch's..) Then I got ready to go out my door. It was really scary! Took me a while before I went out the door, I kept hearing sounds of people moving about, doors opening......

I don't really make new year resolutions because I have learned over the years I give up on most of them by the end of January, despite my best efforts and intentions to follow them. I also started to question why I needed to make them as new year resloutions, why couldn't I better myself at any time throughout the year?

So for this coming year I do have goals and hopes but I have deliberately left them vauge enough to allow some leniency with them, whether that be because I am tired and...

The night before Christmas.

'Twas the night before christmas, when all through the dungeon,
Icy was being fucked with a truncheon.
The stockings were covered in semen and ladders,
and some of them stained from overstrained bladders.
The subbies were nestled all snug in their beds,
while visions of butt plugs danced in their heads.
And Mamma in her kerchief, and I in my cap,
had looked at this line and thought is was crap.
When out...

So this is the fourth time I have said Happy Birthday to my IceMaiden. I knew her before, but first off she wasn't MY IceMaiden, and second off, I was much too rude to wish her one before she was.

By the first Happy Birthday, I had told her I loved her.
By the second, we had met, and more.
By the third time I told her Happy Birthday I had made her cry.
And now the fourth is here. Four birthdays for the little girl who is three and a half (maths never was her strongest...