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Why you miss what you are looking for - and how to easily find it

Posted 06-21-2019 at 08:19 AM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)

So you took together everything it needed, created an account, and just posted what you like to get by us other users here. But, nobody replies. So much nobody, that you start to bump your thread. Once. Twice. Maybe even a dozen times. Still, nobody replies, or at least you don't get the answer you are looking for.

Here's why, just to help you out.
There seems to be no gate...
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A little appreciation blog for some getdare users i met

Posted 04-20-2019 at 05:45 AM by SecretGhost

hey, i dont know how to start this blog
but ill go straight to the point.

when i was at work i.. just wanted to thank everyone i met through getdare with a personal touch.

i will soon start but.. just know if youre not on this list DONT WORRY!! im really forgetfull and i will make a part 2 for the people i missed.
heck i will even make more if i have to because sometimes this community doesnt know how awesome they are and i just want to show it

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Cass' advice: Very few posts in my thread

Posted 10-16-2018 at 04:21 AM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 10-16-2018 at 06:48 AM by Cassandra

Hello everyone,

Since sometimes I am in the mood of a constructive, friendly reply to a random PM, I thought I could also share it for others:

I am not getting much posts on my... thread.
Hi new getDare member,

Here is my advice: "those who want respect, give respect". Same is true for thread replies, adds, dares, AMAs, PM dares, blog comments, attention at all.
Give it some time. Join other threads. Comment. Be active. Contribute....
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Posted 10-07-2018 at 12:39 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)

Hi everyone,

At certain times, I have been horny as fuck, especially when in chastity for longer, but also in general it just happens every once in a while. That's great. But, life isn't just sex, or kink, or giving up a certain amount of control, self-degration for the pleasure of others, or waste of time alone. There's also breathing, drinking, sleeping, eating, social life, being sick, being not in the mood at all, or oblegations, ooooooooor ... vacation.

Since I am...
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A Rant About Limits

Posted 07-11-2018 at 11:35 AM by BastyTheKitty
Updated 07-22-2018 at 08:59 PM by BastyTheKitty
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So, I've seen some shit on this site that absolutely should not stand, and even worse is I don't see people fighting against it. The GD community is, technically, part of the BDSM community and as such should be upholding the standards that come with this title. The biggest issue I've seen is how limits are being handled, and it's absolutely appalling. You can't just fucking decide that because you don't like someone's limits you can make them break the limits, they're there for a reason! I get it, you...
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"Add to my" thread advice Part 2

Posted 02-22-2018 at 06:17 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 02-23-2018 at 03:29 AM by Cassandra

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15. Your rules guide the players and the game

Whoever designs the rules, determines the behaviors which are rewarded, and the behaviors which are punished. Guess which behaviors people prefer. Do the prefer rewards or punishment (not to mistake for funishments)? So yes, by rewarding what you want them to do, they do it. It's in your hands when you set up the rules.

What do you want your players to do? Do you want your friends to join or others...
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"Add to my" thread advice Part 1

Posted 02-22-2018 at 06:14 PM by Cassandra (Mad prophecies from ancient greece)
Updated 02-23-2018 at 03:25 AM by Cassandra

Disclaimer: I am just a human being without any clue, but I felt inspired to answer to NoLimitz call how to create or make a popular "Add ..." thread.

I had to create my own Loser thread by losing a vote to ChubbyShySissy, still working it off, and started some more Add-threads for other users like for lop747, for Gonzalez, for Buttaholic, for my precious pet astro alias oddjobber, and for spankmeohio. I think my first experiene posting and thereby adding in such threads was
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