Hello friends and readers,

There's another problem I like to speak about: getting spammed by random people.

I don't mean getting stalked via message after message by the same person, in which case you should contact the mods if blocking that user doesn't solve it.


I think there's not one miracle solution to it. And even if, I don't have it. All I can do is offer my thoughts. People are people, or maybe trolls, especially on the internet. Let's talk...

I got a PM dare from Paladintwk, with a dice dare inspired to my PM dare list. I liked his effort and decided to make it it's own dice dare in my own list.

So if you chose my PALADIN'S DICE, here are the options. In case of videos I have to watch:
You may choose the video or else I wil search for one myself.

1. Vibe with (B) wand with attachment playing a cock hero video to the end no matter what (min 15 min).
2. Fucking with dildo while watching a video for...

I love orgasms

For any casual reader this may not seem like a blog worth writing. But most people know how much I love denial (and more recently chastity) and I may have said during my last denial that it was more fun than orgasms. I meant it at the time but, after the year without a full release passed and having very much enjoyed my freedom, my opinion has changed a little.

I still stand by the logic that “denial’s more fun than an orgasm”. An orgasm lasts a few seconds,...

Another year...another heart break...but this time something feels different inside me...

This time things ended not because of me (apparently) but because I got with a girl who hadn't gotten over her ex...who says she isn't ready for another relationship.

I am undecided whether this is the full reason, or whether I was fed a line...I believed the former at first, and nothing has really changed to invalidate this thought...but I am not taking chances and I am feeling driven...

Hello dear readers,

Another letter from a getDare user reached my office:

With the missing pretext, it's about getting responses to the most polite messages even with an avatar!

While I might have answered that before, I try to address the issue in short:


NEVER message random people!
Never request friendship without further communication.
Never...

Adventures in Chastity

Ever since getting into denial I’ve been curious about taking it one step further with a chastity device. I’ve done no touch before and rather than (somehow) managing months at a time without a proper release I struggle to control my busy little hands for anything much longer than a week (although it’s now a permanent rule for me so that’ll be put to the test). Chastity though has always been something I’ve just been able to toy with due to a badly fitting device....

After a semi-successful start to the weight loss, I managed to fall over the weekend and pick up four broken bones in my foot.

This puts a damper on the weight loss - standing on a scale is fairly impossible. Standing at all is impossible because of injuries to the other foot (no breaks at least)!

So the new plan.......I'm hoping someone has good suggestions for weight loss while less mobile.

I'm watching what I eat and drink very carefully now.
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