Some of you may have read my blog about how butterflies are better than bears. Now, I have NOT changed my mind but one of my best friends (read frienemy) on getDare is a bear, and so I have decided to write this blog to admit that bears are A.W.E.S.O.M.E.

Let me explain ...

Bears are:

Annoying. They pester and pester, getting into things they aren't supposed to. They romp and groan and roar very loudly, even when people are trying to ignore them.
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I just needed to get a few things off my chest this morning so decided to write this (hopefully) short blog to share with all of you.

It really frustrates me when people don't realize that their actions have consequences. Most people take a second to think about the consequences that their actions will create for themselves, but it seems that a lot less people think about the way that their actions will impact others.

I know it happens in the real world, but it seems so...

Well today is a very special day …

Three months ago, I somehow convinced a very special monkey to get tangled in my net and submit to both Asslvr and I. We started with just an edge bank, but it later turned into a whole lot more.

It sure has been an adventure.

The last three months have been quite a learning experience for all three of us.

I agree,...

I want to start this blog by saying that I have nothing against bears, and this blog may or may not be directed at one picnic-basket-stealing-bear in general.

So .... why are butterflies better than bears?

1. Butterflies are colorful and beautiful. Bears are brown. Ewww, who likes the color brown?

2. Butterflies can fly! Have you ever seen a bear fly? Point made....

For the first time in a long time, Sir and I had a play session. As a lot of you know, we have taken a step back from D/s. We have done small D/s type activities together, but most of our energy has been spent working together to tease and torture our wonderful Monkey. However, this past week, I have felt incredibly subby again. I asked Sir if we could do a play session.

We originally planned the play session for Saturday night, but real life got in the way, and so I asked Sir if I could...

Happiness is something that a lot of people strive for. We all have things in daily life that make us happy: the giggle of a baby, kittens or puppies, ice cream, music ... but being a happy person and living a happy life can sometimes be difficult when one or more area(s) of your life are unbalanced or not meeting your expectations.

There have been people in my real life, as well as on getDare that have really taught me a lot about happiness over the...

As you all know, I have been with Asslvr (aka Mr. Devious) as his sub for about 7 months now. Our d/s connection is magical. Right from the beginning we had an open and honest relationship, and trust started building easily from the very first day we talked (which isn't an easy thing for me to do normally).

I love being a sub. I love to please and make somebody proud of me. I love to feel cherished and wanted and needed. I love to give up control to somebody I trust, and feel a sense...