100% Brat
78% Submissive
76% Daddy/Mommy
76% Degradation receiver
60% Pet
59% Switch
58% Experimentalist
55% Dominant
53% girl/boy
47% Primal (Prey)
46% Vanilla
44% Bondage giver
41% Owner
41% Master/Mistress
38% Non-monogamist
37% Brat tamer
35% Bondage receiver
30% Masochist
25% Slave
25% Ageplayer
23% Degradation giver
21% Exhibitionist...

Now, some people will say, "Dominants have all the power in a scene. They are the dominant for a reason. *Cue eye roll*"

Some people will say, "Dominants only have power because the submissive gives it to them. *Cue condescending laugh*"

Reasons can be made for both sides of the argument. The sub can end the scene with a word (because safe words are important!) but then again, so can the dom.

The sub is the one giving control to the dom,...

Limits are the things you will not do. Ever.

Some categorize their limits as Soft Limits and hard limits. Soft limits are things they strongly dislike, but can be persuaded to try or push or even do as a punishment in the right scenario.

Hard limits are things you will not do ever, under any circumstances. Hard limits are where you draw the line.

Now, I personally don't categorize my limits in these two categories, but maybe I should. My 'hates' group would...

Keep in mind, these are my thoughts, my own opinions. Take what you will from it, disagree, agree, doesn't matter. These are the rambles of me, not you.

So, BDSM can stand for different things, but I have only heard two variations.

Bondage Discipline Sadomasochism

Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism

There are probably more variations, but I'm going to stick with the first one. I read somewhere this great analogy that I've always really liked, but...

So, asslvr's Butterfly gave me a dice dare because she is supermegafoxyawesomehot and because I'm amazing at bothering people. I just had to give her three things I'd like to do to earn my orgasm and three things I wouldn't like to do. For my likes, I told her using my vibrator and wedgies, but I couldn't really think of a third except for humiliation. My dislikes were anal (just because it was kind of time consuming) edging, and humping objects.

She is such a babe, that she made the dare...

In my vast, worldly travels, I've realized that there are different types of verbal humiliation. There are more than I'm going to talk about, but I've only dealt with these two.

Degrading Humiliation: Slut*, whore, bitch, not good enough, pathetic, worthless, ect.
"Is this really turning you on you disgusting cunt? God, you're not even worth my time."

Condescending Humiliation: Sweetie, sweetheart, adorable, so cute, honey, ect.
"Aw, is something...

If I hurry, I can finish this before IceMaiden posts her version. Take that!

Now, I talk about this in my How to be a Brat post, but this is more advice on how to dominate a brat, from a brat's perspective.

For simplicity, I won't write my advice as vague, in my opinion sorta things. I'm going to essentially talk about how I like being dominated and you can use that as a comparison for how you dominate others.

So, disclaimer: These are my opinions and are...