RE: Trust
Posted 01-22-2015 at 12:16 AM by MasterDaddy02
Trust is one of the basic qualities of love. We need to know that we are safe, that others want our well being , and that they desire us to grow. We crave the knowledge that people are for us. Until we receive this message from others, we are less open to their influence and we become, in turn, concerned about their welfare.
We are forever putting people to the test to see whether they truly love us or not. We watch to see if they are thoughtful, if they give themselves freely or if they hold back, if they are listening to us with their hearts as well as their minds, if they are sharing our happiness or being threatened by it, if they are willing to stand by us when we need them or abandon us at the least sign of conflict. Once we are certain of their love, anything becomes possible. We are encouraged to grow and risk beyond our imagined limitations.
We find the strength to overcome our fears or break self-destructive habits. We see our way to giving up grudges or expressing repressed feelings or even offering a painful apology. These minor miracles all become possible when we are secure and trust in love.
This is again some of my thoughts on the word trust. To me it is a very important word, from the actions that can show either you will earn it or you will not earn it.
We are forever putting people to the test to see whether they truly love us or not. We watch to see if they are thoughtful, if they give themselves freely or if they hold back, if they are listening to us with their hearts as well as their minds, if they are sharing our happiness or being threatened by it, if they are willing to stand by us when we need them or abandon us at the least sign of conflict. Once we are certain of their love, anything becomes possible. We are encouraged to grow and risk beyond our imagined limitations.
We find the strength to overcome our fears or break self-destructive habits. We see our way to giving up grudges or expressing repressed feelings or even offering a painful apology. These minor miracles all become possible when we are secure and trust in love.
This is again some of my thoughts on the word trust. To me it is a very important word, from the actions that can show either you will earn it or you will not earn it.
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This is really good! I especially love the second paragraph. In my own experience within D/s, it's been all the little things Wardell has done, how he always comes through for me, that have enabled me to submit to him more, to become for fully his. The trust didn't just spontaneously appear; Wardell earned it, thoroughly. That kind of trust is incredibly rare and precious, and not a day goes by that I don't marvel at it
Posted 01-22-2015 at 12:22 AM by naughtylittlegirl 
