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Vent sessions report (Part II)

Posted 09-04-2022 at 07:35 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:32 AM by pluky

And it hit me that what I needed was a BDSM session. I wasn't horny, I just wanted to inflict pain to my body, to forget the other pain. To be controlled so that I can let go for a moment. To have something to focus on that someone is keeping me busy with so that my mind stops drifting back to him. I pretty much knew it was an unhealthy approach but I couldn't stand myself and how I felt anymore.

I was lucky as I often have been so far in here with my encounters, to find a Dom who was
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Vent sessions report (Part I)

Posted 09-04-2022 at 06:48 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:32 AM by pluky

Things have been a roller coaster of emotions in the past two weeks, two weeks of being a Sub to a wonderful Dom that has just made my year, two weeks of discovering a side of me I didn't know could bring me that much joy, two weeks that felt like I've known him for an eternity, yet, two weeks that are starting to seem way too short now.

For private reasons relating to my Dom's life we have come to a point where the continuity of our Sub-Dom dynamic is now put into question, the verdict
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About my Switch tendencies (clarifications)

Posted 09-04-2022 at 06:14 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:42 AM by pluky

1) In the BDSM test results that I posted in a previous blog entry, I had only taken the questions concerning Masochism/Submissiveness, so this is why it makes no mention of me being a Switch

2) I am like 95% imo on the M side of things so my S side barely needs a mention, even when I do get in the mood to be the dominant, I only like a bit of control and intimidation and won't really be interested in much pain oriented activities

3) My desire to dominate a Sub might appear...
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Simple quick things to know for curious future play partners

Posted 09-03-2022 at 08:55 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:42 AM by pluky

This might save us some oopsies, so I will list here some not very obvious things that I like or that I don't like that sometimes people do because of lack of knowing me or understanding my list of likes and limits.
  • I like to be punished for my "wrong doings" but only if it's fair

  • I despise attempts at domination outside of any structure that warrants it, if you're not my long term term Dom, if we're not in session or playing in any way, don't hit me with
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Sessions with random people : disclaimers and rules

Posted 09-01-2022 at 01:06 AM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:43 AM by pluky

Introduction :

So I currently have an Owner but I'm still open to experimenting with other different people from time to time. In this case it has to be organized in the shape of a session with the passive presence of my Owner sometimes (as an observer, unless something requires his intervention).

These sessions may start when you get invited to a Kik group and end when you leave it.

The following will be a few rules I made for keeping this comfortable for
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BDSM test result

Posted 08-25-2022 at 09:46 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:41 AM by pluky

Results from bdsmtest.org


100% Masochist
91% Brat
90% Submissive

69% Rope bunny
61% Exhibitionist
58% Experimentalist

54% Switch
45% Primal (Prey)
38% Non-monogamist

29% Vanilla
21% Voyeur
17% Slave
10% Degradee

6% Pet
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
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Likes and limits color coded

Posted 08-22-2022 at 07:13 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:41 AM by pluky

Comfort zone
Masturbation/Vibration
Vaginal penetration
Restrictions / Temporary rules
Bondage (moderate) and blindfolding
Spanking (bottom)


Comfort zone +1
Orgasm control (moderate)
Anal penetration (small)
Breath play (no pressing on the throat)
Chemical burn
CNC
Clothpins (not clit)
Punishment


Close to limits
Orgasm control (intense) / multiorgasm / post orgasm torture
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