I like to participate in threads, people asking for dares, tasks, rules, other contributions, possibly PM dares. I like to be creative and supportive. Recently I noticed that despite others I didn't contribute to a few threads with a certain shared attribute. I feel that I need to tell you why.
I am a sexist. Admitted. Guilty. But I still hate it. I am not sure if I am in support of certain gender quotas in real life. If at all, they should be for both...

My pet recently suggested that I post a blog on my views and feelings surrounding punishments, both giving and receiving.


First of all, I want to stress that there is a huge different between a punishment and a funishment.


Punishment
I believe that punishments are something that should be avoided. A punishment should be something that is a consequence for breaking a rule, or being “bad”. It should consist of something that the punishee doesn’t like,...

On Cyber Monday, Sammie and I had decided to splash in on some of the deals on the internet. We felt like we could use a few new toys... and new, excitings toys are what we bought! I stumbled across the Lelo website while searching for deals on sex toys and that was the only website we needed! We had wanted to enhance and experiment more with BDSM so we ordered a Lelo purple silk Intima blindfold and matching Lelo purple BOA ties. As for toys, we settled on purchasing two vibrators, the Mia 2.0 and the...

As I contemplate this blog, wondering if I have anything to say and how to go about, I'm refraining from grabbing my purse and indulging in my not-so-secret love.

Romance novels.

Tortured men, glamorous women, and an undeniable connection that makes them irresistibly attracted to one another. Dashing pirates, feisty damsels, and a prolonged fight for control, where of course the woman gives. How on earth could I resist?

I adore books. I will read any genre...

Figging is always something I have wanted to try, but it is something that has always scared the crap out of me! Which I think also turned me on more ….


After reading a blog by Sub Lucy about figging, I wanted to try it even more. Asslvr and I haven’t had much time to play lately, so I decided I would use my sub as a guinea pig.


I had Jaroface purchase some ginger on his way home and then we had a play session with the ginger. I will let him share further...

As I explained here, I love PM dares. I also love games, more for the love of playing. But if you love games for the thrill of a stake, here are some PM dares for you. Feel free to link to this list, copy all of them or parts into your own PM dare list, modify them however you like or just let them inspire you. PM or comment with any change or new PM dare proposals.

I DON'T do these PM dares myself (until you find them in the lists in my signature ):

PM me "BATTLESHIP...

I mentioned recently I wanted to blog but didn't know what to write about and this resulted in first Sophie and then Aimee telling me to write about them and then agreeing I should write about both of them.

So here we are.

I love them both because they make me giggle with the things they say. Half of the time they say what I am about to or have me laughing so much I end up spitting my drink everywhere and choking.

I love them both because they are both beautiful...