Today is Valentine's Day. I don't buy into the hallmark version of the holiday. I don't need expensive jewelry or gifts, I don't even need flowers or candy. (Chocolate and stuffies on the other hand are a daily necessity, not just today). But I think that Valentine's Day can be special. It is a reminder to vocalize your love for those that are important to you.

I am so lucky and blessed. I have...

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I had my 4th session the day before yesterday.

I managed to learn some tricks to help over issues when the laser sometimes doesn't want to fire despite trying a lot and everything seeming fine. Also, I am way more confident about using it at all. I also think I am faster and more efficient, having figured out when to turn it how, how to make sure to cover all the area and not overlap, and also get better with complicated area like...

Clamp - I will clamp my nipples for X minutes (max 15 minutes)
Edge - I will edge X times before I can cum (max 10 cumulative)
Cum - I will get permission from X people to cum (max 5 people)
Snap - I will snap my nipples X amount of times (max 10 times)
Add - I will add a pm dare of your choice
Jump - I will jump X times naked with clamps on (max 10 times)
Torture- I will place my vibrator on my clit for X minutes you choose the speed (max 15 minutes)
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There are a lot of reasons that I might not be appealing to potential partners:

I am fat
I am ugly
I am a mod
I am a switch
I am 30
I am married
I am busy
I am poly
I know what I want and need
I am needy
I am a brat
I don't have (vaginal sex) with my partners
I don't send videos or go on cam
I am a scaredy cat
I am a little
I have emotional baggage
I am a proud carrier of craft

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