A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
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I got a puppy!!!
Pets bring so much joy into our lives and it's always such great fun deciding what name to give a new pet, definitely chance for some creativity.
Completely true about the training as well, pets need to be house trained or they end up peeing everywhere and making a mess! Hopefully you manage to train him quickly.
Really like you've dressed up your new pet in different outfits (as well as naked with just a collar, that's a great idea.Posted 05-22-2022 at 01:13 PM by Tease 
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Posted 05-22-2022 at 09:26 AM by Butterfly
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Heartbreak
I am so sorry you are going through something similar. If you need to talk, you know where to find me. Big hugs to you my friend xoxo.Quote:Originally Posted by Foxy Rose
Hey friend,
Not been online much lately, slowly coming back but still not sure. I'm going through something similar, I think. But, I know how you feel. My heart aches for you. Thank you for your vulnerability. I needed to see this message today.
Thinking of you
xxPosted 05-22-2022 at 09:25 AM by Butterfly
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Posted 05-22-2022 at 05:50 AM by owlart
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Heartbreak
I wish you strength, I wish you a quick turnaround... And in the meanwhile I'm sending you an armful of good thoughts that you can comfort munch on.
Hugzzzz!Posted 05-22-2022 at 04:42 AM by Cstelle 
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Heartbreak
I'm so sorry to hear this today. Hugs, prayers, and thoughts are with you as go through the healing process. It's OK to be vulnerable and lean on friends/family. SorryPosted 05-22-2022 at 03:54 AM by b69
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Heartbreak
Although I know this hit you very, very hard ... this is the kind of connection that all D/s relationships should have ... yes ... power exchanges are great ... but the exchange of such a deep love and emotional support is so much more than anything BDSM can provide ... and that is a connection worth investing in.
I have only been there a few times ... and it is heart-breaking to watch a connection that your love had built over time, crumble down. I hope your heart and soul recover soon.Posted 05-22-2022 at 03:04 AM by FrostbittenSoul
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Heartbreak
I'm wishing you lot of strength in getting over this Miss. I know it's hard, but I also know you are strong and you will be okay.
Sending many hugs.Posted 05-22-2022 at 01:50 AM by Jaro
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Heartbreak
Hey friend,
Not been online much lately, slowly coming back but still not sure. I'm going through something similar, I think. But, I know how you feel. My heart aches for you. Thank you for your vulnerability. I needed to see this message today.
Thinking of you
xxPosted 05-21-2022 at 11:54 PM by Foxy Rose
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Heartbreak
Good luck in your healing process, you went through something very hard and painful but is amazing how you're trying to see the best of it and I'm sure you'll get even stronger once you'll be completely healed.Posted 05-21-2022 at 04:55 PM by Andrew 25:17
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Heartbreak
I can't do too much for you, not being close to you, but I wish you all the best in managing this Butterfly! Stay strong!Posted 05-21-2022 at 01:32 PM by bluedieblub
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Release
I'm wishing you lots of strength and sending you lots of hugs my Princess! I know its hard. I am always here for you and thinking of you!Posted 05-09-2022 at 08:36 PM by Jaro
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Release
Thank you, I appreciate it.Quote:Originally Posted by zephyrnem
I hope you get what you need! Pulling for you!Posted 05-09-2022 at 04:28 PM by Butterfly
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Posted 05-09-2022 at 05:06 AM by zephyrnem
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Posted 03-28-2022 at 09:14 PM by Jaro
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A Fun Play Session: Edging
Good gosh, what a lovely blog entry! Delighted to hear you both had such a good session.
Thank you.Posted 03-26-2022 at 12:38 PM by StrawDog
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
Reading your blog is always thought-provoking. A big killer of relationships is one or both parties being unable or unwilling to handle change, despite the fact that every life is marked by distinct periods of change, regardless of choices taken. Having that flexible strength with each other is an beautiful thing.
You've also been through incredibly much these past few years, which is scary to deal with, and bear, and find a right way forward... It's a testament to the strength of you both.
To see what you go through, then hurt you, even if a part of you needs it, is no easy thing.
Thank you, and love to ye both.Posted 02-21-2022 at 08:28 AM by StrawDog
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
It's good to know we aren't alone. You're welcome, as always.Quote:Originally Posted by b69
Sounds similar to us. While my wife is changing and trying to Dom me, she loves me too much to hurt me. Thanks for sharing my friend.Posted 01-29-2022 at 02:03 PM by Butterfly
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
That's very true. When he is my safe zone, it's hard to feel unsafe ...Quote:Originally Posted by Cstelle
May I suggest another thing? The whole concept of "the comfort zone" becomes ... well, muddley-uppy... when you are a couple in the "one flesh" kind of sense. (As Biblical sentiments go, that one is a surprisingly deep one! Gen 2:24, if you want to go to the source.) In a deep relationship the comfort zone is where you are together - wherever you happen to be... So pushing someone out of the comfort zone is surprisingly difficult for many reasons! (You don't want to - and when you try to do it, you do it so nicely and lovingly that you don't do it... [My ex wanted me to use bad language - and I just couldn't say anything unkind to her!]... and if you manage to take a step further into the unknown... well, you are there together, safe... which sort of makes a mockery of the whole thing!)
[ugh. let me be clear: I am not of the religious persuasion, but that concept of one flesh has depth.]Posted 01-29-2022 at 02:03 PM by Butterfly
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
Isn't that the truth? Really the reasoning shouldn't matter as much as the fact that we are doing what works for our relationship. But I get this question a lot so I figured I would write about it.Quote:Originally Posted by Erikaeriksen
that last line .... is everything.
Plus, I know that a lot of IRL kinky couples feel very similarly to us.Posted 01-29-2022 at 02:02 PM by Butterfly
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
Sounds similar to us. While my wife is changing and trying to Dom me, she loves me too much to hurt me. Thanks for sharing my friend.Posted 01-25-2022 at 05:59 AM by b69
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Why doesn't my husband Dom me?
May I suggest another thing? The whole concept of "the comfort zone" becomes ... well, muddley-uppy... when you are a couple in the "one flesh" kind of sense. (As Biblical sentiments go, that one is a surprisingly deep one! Gen 2:24, if you want to go to the source.) In a deep relationship the comfort zone is where you are together - wherever you happen to be... So pushing someone out of the comfort zone is surprisingly difficult for many reasons! (You don't want to - and when you try to do it, you do it so nicely and lovingly that you don't do it... [My ex wanted me to use bad language - and I just couldn't say anything unkind to her!]... and if you manage to take a step further into the unknown... well, you are there together, safe... which sort of makes a mockery of the whole thing!)
[ugh. let me be clear: I am not of the religious persuasion, but that concept of one flesh has depth.]Posted 01-24-2022 at 12:35 PM by Cstelle
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Posted 01-24-2022 at 11:31 AM by Erikaeriksen
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Posted 12-02-2021 at 03:36 PM by Blue Fox
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New tats!
Those are lovely tattoos, and suit you well. Also, it would be remiss of me to not comment on those GORGEOUS panties. So... I have...
It is deeply wrong that something seen as weakness takes such unbelievable amounts of strength, its hard to know where it comes from. Fight on. There will be people fighting at your side whether you see them or not.Posted 12-02-2021 at 01:24 PM by StrawDog
