You could almost start your own toy store.

You're very welcome

Hey! To anyone curious about figging, I personally didn't find it too bad. I found that it was easier to handle the burning pain when I was rubbing my clit with a CLEAN hand with no ginger residue on it at all. After that I worked up to it with no stimulation and later having ginger on my clit too.

It might help if you experiment with something with a less intensity, like toothpaste. Though, remember to be careful safety wise. I'm sure you know all about that though

For me, I adore chemical play with icy hot/chilis/etc. so it makes it a bit easier, but ginger is something that does burn for a good 45 mins afterwards so you have to be aware of that and sitting does not feel so good after play.

Good luck, and have fun If you have any other questions, feel free to message me!

Mhh, i think i will write a blog about humiliation soon. It's such an interesting thing. Oh for sure. Your trust in asslvr is enough to make it work.
For me,.. I can only make it work as a punishment. And if i say punishment i mean: i must really feel that my pet made a mistake that did hurt me, i must really feel that she needs a harsh punishment, a punishment that hurts.
And at the same time, i must feel so overly happy that she does that for me, that she does that to correct her mistake.
Likewise,... It also only works if my pet truely feels she fucked up. That she feels she did hurt me, and that she wants to makeup. And that she knows it will be all ok after the punishment. That i enjoyed it, that she did it for me.

Congratulations!
And I'm happy to read you are overcoming your self-consciousness!

Figging sounds rather interesting actually, didn't even think of that. I myself really like humiliation, both verbal and otherwise and, like you, I have trouble understanding 'fear play'. I have feared a harsh punishment in the past which I ended up having to do too. That was actually fear for me and I really didn't like it.
But I myself call this a form of emotional masochism which might still work depending on the correct amount of fear being applied. It's a very delicate thing to make work I guess.

I have rules listed as a soft limit. I do like the idea of rules for the same reasons as you mentioned. But I don't like it if they get in the way of RL too much and are difficult to keep following. They can also be quite stressful to remember all the time. Still, the rules that you have now don't sure sound very manageable.

Hi,
As you know i play strictly online, and text only with my pet.
But many of the things you we tried, within above context, but i can say,.... Very intense.
Humilation, extreme, fear, pet.
In all cases,... It's extremely essential to have a deep trust. As a dom one should push, stretch the limit, but be extremely responsive, very sensitive to the smalles signals.
It goes with a lot,.. Lot,... Lot of talking, especially before and after. During the scene it's just straight.
I have done a few very extreme humiliating scenes with my pet. (She reported one in her blog). I just like to humiate her to the extreme, until crying. But i also pull her out,... Especially humiliation should be accompanied by a string pullout afterwards. A sub will only be capable to fully openup for humiation if she knows she will be pulled out safely. A dom should do it. Only if he is prepared to fully bring his sub back on earth he should dare to push her off first.

So,... Yes you can.....
But it should be a like of assvlr, only if he truely wants it will happen. I'm 100% sure he will pull you out, but he also will need to like to bring you down. If its not a like i guess he will not be capable. No blame... It's quite extreme,... It really must be a doms like to get it right.
I guess "assist" will not work. Assvlr will be the only one you will be honestly able to do this with.

Luck!

YAY! I'm sooo happy to hear that things are going so well for the two of you. Rules are kinda wonderful aren't they?

Fun, Fun, Fun. I know two will be having a blast this month.... (I hope he denies you all month) hehehehe

I have been so happy for you lately! I can see how much of a difference your friends are making and your job has been awesome. I'm so proud of you sweetie for working though the tough times. I will always be there for you.♡

I'm very glad, and grateful, for all these wonderful things in your life. You deserve them, Butterfly. I sincerely hope you get everything that you want; there is always hope, and you know we will all stand by you and support you. You are lovely and it's good to see that things in your life are matching that more and more.