I love posting links for my Lovense toys. I love having strangers control my pleasure/torment. However, I no longer add people to the app unless I have chatted with them for awhile and built trust that they will respect my boundaries.

Lately, I have had guys use the links, but when I won't give them my app username, they hound me for it and when I stick to my no, they just end the session or leave the session.

Not taking no for an answer is EXACTLY why I don't give out...

I have found that people on getDare who fail to respond or communicate very soon after accepting or starting a dare, agreement or other arrangement with me almost never lead to any successful or enjoyable interactions at any point despite my efforts to engage. Instead they simply waste my time and mental energy.

I am...

On 24 September 2023 I conducted an inspection and rating of Juliette based on provided pictures. This is the rating report of that inspection that is extremely overdue—my sincere apologies Juliette.

Images: 7.5/10
I received 5 images including face, rear bending over, and close ups of belly, pussy and breasts. Images were of good quality, well lit, and suitable for conducting a rating. Some desired details for the rating were not included.

Attitude: 4/10
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The idea is very simple, you send me a PM with a selection of below keywords and YOU get a dare created around them. Make sure I have knowledge about your list of toys and likes etc if you apply and do send a tiny report afterwards, please.

I am worried it will get out of hand if I allow males, so only females (with female body parts) may make use of the service. At least for now.

As long as this blog post doesn't say otherwise, this will remain open.

Keywords...

!!!This is currently in construction!!!

You can still send PM dares, but some things might be inaccurate or incomplete, or formatting might be weird. If you chose a WIP dare, I’ll have to unfortunately decline and ask you to choose a different one.

Welcome to my wonderful list of PM dares! I've thought long and hard about how to make these PM dares more into PM games so it is most interesting for all parties involved. There's a lot of luck involved so mutual trust is required for...

Having recently taken some time away from getDare, I've been giving some thought to what draws me back to getDare time and again over the years. I've decided it's authenticity.

I've watched plenty of porn, of nearly every kink, but regardless of the type of porn, I'm always drawn to amateur footage of people authentically displaying their true erotic selves. But porn is uni-directional: producers and consumers. I've read plenty of erotic stories, also across nearly every kink, but again...

It's been a couple of years since my last list and life has changed me a bit since then...so I thought I would create a new list.

As I am a Switch things are a little more complicated so I will split this list into the following categories:

1. A little about me
2. What I like to do as a Dom
3. What my likes/dislikes and limits are as a sub
4. List of toys

A Little about me

- In general I prefer to bet and game with women...