So you say you are a dom, but are you really? Or are you really a dumbinant? If you find yourself doing any of the below you are not a dominant but a dumbinant.

But it's okay, you can amend your ways! I will help you out by telling you what not to do and hopefully help you turn from a dumbinant into a dominant!

#1 Don't call all subs/slaves whores, bitches, sluts etc. Not every sub likes that. Not every sub gets turned on by that. Not every sub enjoys name calling...

Today is a very important day ... it is work pride day! It also happens to be a worm's birthday!

Our worm makes us proud every single day, but I don't know if we really get the opportunity to tell him just HOW proud he makes us.

We make sure to tell him after each session and when he pushes himself for us, but that is simply not enough to...

Updated 21/10/2022

Stolen idea from Lola ♡

Q: How old are you?
A: 34.

Q: Are you female?
A: Indeed.

Q: Will you send me pictures?
A: Nope.

Q: Are you looking for a Dom?
A: Nope. I'm very happily taken.

Q: Are you looking for a sub?
A: Nope.

Q: What do you look like?
A: I have long dark hair almost down to my bottom, blue eyes I am tiny at 5'1 (and 3/4),...

Once upon a time there was a beautiful young princess. Let's call her Icy. Icy was a very popular girl, and all the princes of the kingdoms of Getdaria wanted her for their own.

Unfortunately, most of the princes of Getdaria were... faulty. Some of them were as wet as a mermaids bosoms. Others were as thick as an elephant's socks, and still others were as mentally stable as a one wheeled carriage. Poor princess Icy tried to make it work with so many of the princes - but no matter how...

I brat a lot.
I call AM names a lot.
I look for loopholes all the time in the things he asks of me.
I respond sarcastically and find myself hilarious.
I find myself even MORE hilarious, if he doesn't.
I drive him crazy often. I know it. I do it on purpose.

But....

I love him.
I respect him.
I trust him.
I want him.
I need him.
He means so much more than he knows to me.
I want our relationship to...

What seems like a very long time ago now, I started messaging someone on GetDare chat. We had spoken in main chat, a few exchanged comments. I think one of the first exchanges we had, she was threatening to set her dogs on me if I hurt someone. Or possibly it was where I was telling her how I had slept with her mother, providing... unsavoury details and vivid mental images that may well have scarred her for life.

We got on well enough, we liked one another, and – through trolling blogs...

Today is a very important day. Today marks three whole years since AM stole me and claimed me as his.

We've had our ups and our downs over the years and I wouldn't change a single thing about any of them! Over the last three years AM has helped show me how much I can do if I set my mind to it, how amazing I am and how I am worthy of being loved and treated like a princess. Also being...