Come all you children, gather around,
I'll tell you the story of what I have found.
Christmas is over, the season of cheer,
in six days time we'll be in a new year.
The one we are leaving carried a spark,
so a few snippets that left their mark.

I met with my Icy, that can't be ignored,
we had lots of fun, and never were bored.
I hope in the new year to meet her again,
but will wait to write about it till then.
In other news,...

What is consent?

"Consent:
noun: consent; plural noun: consents
1. permission for something to happen or agreement to do something."

Consent is important. Especially in the kink world. It is so important it is mentioned in both SSC and RACK:

SSC: Safe, sane, consensual.
RACK: Risk aware consensual kink.

So why do I see so many people not bothering to get consent in a d/s setting? 'Doms' who think that because someone...

A lot of people here are looking for play partners and I wish them luck with this. It can be frustrating when there are so many males and so few females and it takes a while to find someone, or when you think you have found someone only to later realize you don't really click, your needs don't match or they vanish on you.

But just because you are frustrated in your search doesn't make it okay to pester someone who has already politely declined your advances.

If you were...

I have managed to mostly control my anxiety for the last few years or at least work through it and handle it relatively well the majority of the time. That changed just before Christmas last year when I was laying in bed one night and quite by accident found a small lump in my right boob. All sorts of scenarios ran through my head that night. Because it was around Christmas time I couldn't see my doctor immediately and had to wait for a week before I was able to go into the surgery and have him check...

My past mirror:

I think I am ugly. Unintelligent. Not worth it. Broken beyond repair. I think that I'm too fat. That my hair isn't pretty enough. That I'm not helpful, not kind, not funny, not a good friend or sub or domme or parent. That I don't deserve good things. That I don't deserve love or happiness.

His past mirror:

He thinks I am beautiful. Smart. Worth it. That my body is perfect. That my hair is gorgeous. That my face is delicious. That I'm kind,...

Over Easter AM set me a task that involved orgasms and chocolate but then naturally my period started and so we had to wait to complete it. We completed it earlier this week and it was fun and silly and I giggled a lot.

The task was to get a handful of chocolates, put on a blindfold and scatter the chocolates around the room. I would crawl until I found one, eat it (no hands allowed) and then orgasm and repeat until either I had found all the chocolates or I couldn't do any more. (I am...

What It's Doing!

I know that I have not written nothing for over a month. And a lot has changed here in my part of the United States in that period of time. Like other parts of the United States and yes the world as well from the effects of "COVID - 19."

I will just say that it has turned into that worst nightmare and it is not going to stop. Yes, it will not stop until we see and really see the damage that is still to come from it. But the effects are working...