For those that knew me when I first joined getDare, you might remember that I used to be super blushy. It wouldn't take much for me to hide my face with my blanket or hands, or the move that my roomates coined as "turtling" (putting my head inside my shirt).

Just talking on the phone with Mr. Devious would make my voice go high and squeaky. Knowing that somebody...

Today I needed some major cheering up. I got some sad news while I was chatting away in chat. Not only was everybody super supportive, but things turned very silly and it really helped me stop focusing on being overwhelmingly sad. With their help, I was able to get through the rest of my work day.

I wanted to share some of the life lessons that I learned today:

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Life pro tip, be careful what you insert into holes in your body you may not be able to easily remove.

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There are a lot of new faces around here these days, so not even sure if there will be many who remember who I am. I feel like I am not very relevant on getDare anymore, but maybe that is a good thing.

It has been a few months since Jaro visited and thus I thought it would be time for a quick update.

After Jaro left, I ended up in the hospital with signs of a stroke. It was terrifying but thankfully it was not a stroke. Instead, I was diagnosed with Bells Palsy. This is...

I love to try new things and push my boundaries. I have been working hard over the last few years to try things that are out of my comfort zone, but this year I am wanting to be pushed a little further.

Some of the things on this list are just NOT going to happen until I have developed a dynamic or at least a significant amount of trust with somebody, but if something catches your eye, please feel free to reach out to me. I would love to discuss it with you.

I will add...

I worked up the courage (with some gentle persuasion from Miss Lucy and Goddess Sam...) to go lingerie shopping in person on Friday... I was soooo nervous about going! Did not sleep much the night before worrying about it...

First thing I had to do, was work out what store I would go to, after a bit of googling, I decided to go to a store a little way away from where I live, did not want to risk bumping into anyone I knew!

I drove there and parked nearby, then walked towards...

Over the past few years I have really grown into my Domme role. My first relationship as a Domme was with Colosubguy. It just kind of happened spontaneously in chat one day. He was a great sub and a lot of fun, but after a few months, we just weren't able to meet each others needs. We ended things amicably and went our seperate ways. He is now in an amazing relationship with a new Domme who is perfect for him.

After that experience, I really didn't embrace my Domme side much at all. Instead...

I have been on the search for a Dom partner for a long while now. I have had some success but nothing that has lasted too long. I have found that my patience has worn thing for certain things. Let's call it my "Searching for a Dom Pet Peeves"

1. Grammar/Spelling
I think I am a Grammar/Spelling snob. For some reason I just can't take somebody seriously who can't take the time to spell out "you" instead of "u". Of course I am not completely unreasonable....