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Stepping into the online BDSM world Thoughts and ideas worth sharing along my online BDSM journey, sometimes they are things that someone looking into playing with me might find useful to read, a way to save time and misunderstandings by having everything laid out here.

Compiled information for future play partners

Posted 09-15-2022 at 03:02 AM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:42 AM by pluky

Age : 27 years old

Complexion : fair

Hair : black curly/wavy mid length with bangs

Height : 157 cm / 5 ft. 2

Weight : 53 kg / 116 lbs

Switch (mostly a Sub/Masochist)

BDSM test (only took the Sub/Masochist questions)

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Likes, Dislikes, Limits, Revisited

Posted 09-14-2022 at 11:56 PM by pluky
Updated 09-30-2022 at 01:14 AM by pluky

As I'm about to write this, I don't know yet if much has changed, but after 3 weeks of online BDSM I thought I needed to take a look again at my initial and clumsy list that I made on my first week.

Let's see, I'll also modify the way I chose to title them in my previous post, to go with the usual format here.

Likes

Masturbation/Vibration
Vaginal penetration
Pussy stretching (light)
Restrictions / Temporary rules
Bondage (moderate) and blindfolding
Spanking

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Things BDSM and Alcohol have in common (my personal experience)

Posted 09-10-2022 at 11:58 PM by pluky
Updated 09-11-2022 at 07:55 AM by pluky

- making me feel Submissive/Compliant

- making me feel high, like living in a dream half awake

- the "never doing this again" moments

- doing it again

- the aftermath, depressive/anxious state (chemical imbalance)

- the craving

- being a dirty little secret, worrying about what might give it away

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Things not to do when someone is showing you their body per your request

Posted 09-10-2022 at 01:28 AM by pluky

Maybe it's just me, I thought I'd compile these few from my experience with those Kik games :

- body shaming them, or suggesting they should improve this or that (if it wasn't the theme of the thread and they didn't sign up for that)

- telling someone that's a complete stranger to you they should shave

- telling them they are seeking attention, when you asked for the pics

- showing them your nudes, that they didn't request... at least...

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Spanking reference for future sessions and play partners (warning : graphic)

Posted 09-10-2022 at 12:24 AM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:42 AM by pluky

I asked about the rules and these should break none, as there's only ass cheeks and no insertions or visible asshole or any other prohibited things.

The goal of this blog post is to illustrate what kind of marks I'm left with after a specific amount of spanking, because everyone might have a different interpretation of "hard" or "as hard as you can", I thought this would give a more accurate idea of what mine is by stating exactly what has been done here and...

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My reluctance fantasies are gone

Posted 09-08-2022 at 10:12 PM by pluky

Something worth taking a note of about how my two weeks of online DS relationship have affected me, is that for as long as I can remember I have always had brutal abuse scenarios and fantasies going around and around in my head, I don't even know when it all started as I had them way before I had any understanding of sexual things or even knew BDSM existed.

Lately since I discovered the pleasure of getting pain and being controlled but with my consent, I can't even go back to that, I...

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Vent sessions report (Part II)

Posted 09-04-2022 at 07:35 PM by pluky
Updated 09-29-2022 at 06:32 AM by pluky

And it hit me that what I needed was a BDSM session. I wasn't horny, I just wanted to inflict pain to my body, to forget the other pain. To be controlled so that I can let go for a moment. To have something to focus on that someone is keeping me busy with so that my mind stops drifting back to him. I pretty much knew it was an unhealthy approach but I couldn't stand myself and how I felt anymore.

I was lucky as I often have been so far in here with my encounters, to find a Dom who was...

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Posted in Stepping into the online BDSM world, Introspection

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