Midnight Train Goin' Anywhere

Yes that's "Don't Stop Believin'" by Journey. So here's a bit about my journey into kink.... get it? Don't worry the rest of this blog won't be as bad as that was...

So the earliest point i ever found something kink related, i was 15. It was at school in a computer lab, i was working on something (or more likely passing time on Facebook) and overheard a conversation. No i can't remember exactly how it was going but someone mentioned kink.com, the bondage porn site.

And thus i fell far far far far far far far down the rabbit hole.

Instantly i was searching more about bondage. Initially it was definately just a teenage interest in something new and sexy. But the more i looked the more i found a whole community around the subject that took it in a more realistic fashion.

Reading erotica was a big part of this and i started looking up sites with bondage and other kinky stories. This eventually brought me to GetDare. I just read some of the stories and really got into the TorD aspect, the games and challenges beyond just simple bondage.

When i was 18 i got drunk one night (well many nights, but this one night was different) and told my then GF i was into bondage. This was the first time i'd ever told anyone, online or off, about this side of me.
Luckily she was ok with the idea. So we started playing a few bondage games and things and messing around. It really awoke that entire side of me to a new level. I was all-in on this...

We broke up when i was at Uni and having lurked reading GetDare for a couple of years i now deicded to sign-up and embrase this side of myself.
I started off subbing, because that was i had enjoyed more irl. But after some failed atempts i found out that i can't sub online. The reasons would make another blog at some point.

So i moved over to being a Dom and here i am another few years down the line. I've had a coule of Subs. Done and given many dares and challenges. Fully immersed into the kink world not just on GetDare but other places as well.

And i wouldn't go back or change it, even when times are tough and i'm not making progress or people are being jerks.

Hope you enjoyed this little insight into me and how i came to kink and GetDare. Because i'm not leaving!