A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
Updates Loves/Likes/Limits (with explanation)
I realized today that my likes/limits etc. are a little outdated, so I thought I would update and give a bit of an explanation for each ...
❤Loves
I am more than happy to do any or all of the following:
Sensory Deprivation
I love being completely helpless. Not knowing what is coming or what to expect. Not being able to hear where he is coming from, or if he is even there.
Edging
Edging is really a kink of mine. Any time I get to play, even if I am given no instructions, I ALWAYS edge multiple times before allowing myself to cum. I love the build up, the tingling after I have stopped. It is amazing!
Bruises/Marks
I love the look of bruises and marks the next day. I love knowing that I am his and his only to do with as he wishes. It is a visible reminder that I am owned by him.
Bondage
I love feeling helpless. There is actually nothing that makes me feel safer, than to be immobile and at the total control of my Dom.
Anal plugs
I love the feeling of having a toy in my ass. I love feeling full and stretched. I love having the plug pulled out and the pushed back in slowly as I am edged using my vibe. It is soooo intense and wonderful.
Toys
I have a VERY large collection of toys. Probably over 70 now. And I love almost every single one of them. Even during normal sex, I usually use toys, because they feel sooo good. They just keep things so exciting and varied.
Nipple clamps (nipple pain)
Speaking of toys, I especially love my nipple clamps. My nipples are actually very resilient. I love having them pulled, tweaked, twisted and stretched. Biting and sucked is delicious too.
Ice
The feeling of having ice cubes inside me, the cold achiness, the fullness ... feeling the water gush out of me as my muscles contract with each edge.... it is lovely.
Flogging
I love the light tickling feeling of my flogger across my skin, or the "smack" noise of it as it hits my skin. It makes me subbier than any toy I have.
Spanking
This is only a love if it is my Dom ordering the spanking. Otherwise it is a limit. Only he can order and administer it, and only in a fun way. Never as a punishment or way to push my limits.
Likes
I really like these things, and under the right circumstances, may even love them:
Anal sex
Like I said, I love the feeling of being full and stretched. The reason anal sex isn't a love, is because it can sometimes be very intense. I can't always handle the friction of something going in and out, fucking me in the ass.
Control - all kinds
I like giving up control. I can be very bratty at times, but I do love having to ask permission for many different things. Some of my favorites are having to ask permission to pee, or to cum or touch myself.
Multiple orgasms
I like being able to cum more than once in a play session. I like it less when it is one right after the other, but sometimes when I am really horny, one just isn't enough.
Enemas
This is something that makes me incredibly blushy, but I think that is part of the appeal. I cannot feel any more exposed or vulnerable as I do when I am on my knees on the bed having the water fill me up. And feeling the water trickle in, filling me up, it is an amazing feeling.
💘Dislikes
These are things that I truly hate or very strongly dislike. They are things that would need to be combined with one of my loves or likes for them to be tolerated, or else used as a means of punishment:
Toothpaste
I like the idea of toothpaste, however the reality of it can be overpowering. It all depends on the scene. I can usually handle it, but I also found that if put directly on my clit, it distracts me from being able to cum, and that feeling of not being able to cum, is one that I do not like.
Not being allowed to cum at the end of a session
This wouldn't be a limit, but it is a strong dislike. I hate being denied. It is overwhelming and just not something I enjoy. This is something that would be an affective punishment. But be warned, I would not be pleasant to deal with under those circumstances.
Not wearing panties
This is something that I also don't enjoy. Around the house is fine, but as soon as I leave the house, even if I am wearing pants, I just feel too exposed and uncomfortable.
Stimulation after orgasm (need a break)
Like I said, I love cumming multiple times, but I need a break in between. I get so sensitive and it is very overwhelming to have constant stimulation on my private areas.
Pain
I have said that I like spanking and I love nipple pain, but pain outside of those two, or spanking taken a bit too far is not enjoyable for me.
Writing lines
This is something I find incredibly boring and that is the only reason I dislike it.
Holding an enema for a long time
On top of this being very uncomfortable, this ups the humiliation factor. I get scared that I am going to lose control and make a mess and that would be awful.
Anal only orgasms
This is something that I have not really been able to achieve and therefore, it just serves to make me feel like a failure and get me very very frustrated.
💔Limits
These are hard limits and are not to be expected or asked of me, unless you are my Dom and in which case he probably wouldn't anyways:
Extreme pain
I have a low pain tolerance on other parts of my body, and I do not like pain, so it is a limit and I will safeword if it gets to be too much.
Public
This makes me way too anxious and the thought of being caught DOES NOT turn me on at all.
Name calling
I grew up being verbally abused. I don't mind some pet names, like sweetie, honey etc. But things like slut, whore, etc. are not the way to make me melt. Even some names such as Baby make me cringe.
Not wearing a bra
This is something again I can handle at home, but being around other people, or being in public without a bra is not ok. I have a very large chest and not only is it embarrassing, but it is uncomfortable for me to not wear a bra.
Wooden spoons
Due to abuse as a child, this is a psychological trigger and I can't handle even a playful tap on my butt with a wooden spoon. For the same reason, I have a hard time using a wooden paddle, or any other wooden instruments.
Kneeling in the corner
Again, due to abuse as a child, I cannot mentally handle this.
Pictures/Video
If I know you, I am very open with sending photos and videos of my everyday life, and sometimes even of me. But it is a limit for people to demand these things from me. Pictures and videos are private and personal and they will be sent on my own terms. You may ask, but you better respect my decision if it is no, and never expect them from me. I also do not want to receive naked photos of you without asking my permission first. Dick pics are not a turn on.
Gags
I can get very claustrophobic. And having something in my mouth has proven to be a challenge for me. It is something I may want to explore more with the right person, but not something that can be expected of me.
Impact play (crop, whips, etc)
Again, this is confusing because it is something that I have listed in various areas of my likes and loves, but it is a limit for this to be explored by anybody who is not my Dom.
❤Loves
I am more than happy to do any or all of the following:
Sensory Deprivation
I love being completely helpless. Not knowing what is coming or what to expect. Not being able to hear where he is coming from, or if he is even there.
Edging
Edging is really a kink of mine. Any time I get to play, even if I am given no instructions, I ALWAYS edge multiple times before allowing myself to cum. I love the build up, the tingling after I have stopped. It is amazing!
Bruises/Marks
I love the look of bruises and marks the next day. I love knowing that I am his and his only to do with as he wishes. It is a visible reminder that I am owned by him.
Bondage
I love feeling helpless. There is actually nothing that makes me feel safer, than to be immobile and at the total control of my Dom.
Anal plugs
I love the feeling of having a toy in my ass. I love feeling full and stretched. I love having the plug pulled out and the pushed back in slowly as I am edged using my vibe. It is soooo intense and wonderful.
Toys
I have a VERY large collection of toys. Probably over 70 now. And I love almost every single one of them. Even during normal sex, I usually use toys, because they feel sooo good. They just keep things so exciting and varied.
Nipple clamps (nipple pain)
Speaking of toys, I especially love my nipple clamps. My nipples are actually very resilient. I love having them pulled, tweaked, twisted and stretched. Biting and sucked is delicious too.
Ice
The feeling of having ice cubes inside me, the cold achiness, the fullness ... feeling the water gush out of me as my muscles contract with each edge.... it is lovely.
Flogging
I love the light tickling feeling of my flogger across my skin, or the "smack" noise of it as it hits my skin. It makes me subbier than any toy I have.
Spanking
This is only a love if it is my Dom ordering the spanking. Otherwise it is a limit. Only he can order and administer it, and only in a fun way. Never as a punishment or way to push my limits.
LikesI really like these things, and under the right circumstances, may even love them:
Anal sex
Like I said, I love the feeling of being full and stretched. The reason anal sex isn't a love, is because it can sometimes be very intense. I can't always handle the friction of something going in and out, fucking me in the ass.
Control - all kinds
I like giving up control. I can be very bratty at times, but I do love having to ask permission for many different things. Some of my favorites are having to ask permission to pee, or to cum or touch myself.
Multiple orgasms
I like being able to cum more than once in a play session. I like it less when it is one right after the other, but sometimes when I am really horny, one just isn't enough.
Enemas
This is something that makes me incredibly blushy, but I think that is part of the appeal. I cannot feel any more exposed or vulnerable as I do when I am on my knees on the bed having the water fill me up. And feeling the water trickle in, filling me up, it is an amazing feeling.
💘Dislikes
These are things that I truly hate or very strongly dislike. They are things that would need to be combined with one of my loves or likes for them to be tolerated, or else used as a means of punishment:
Toothpaste
I like the idea of toothpaste, however the reality of it can be overpowering. It all depends on the scene. I can usually handle it, but I also found that if put directly on my clit, it distracts me from being able to cum, and that feeling of not being able to cum, is one that I do not like.
Not being allowed to cum at the end of a session
This wouldn't be a limit, but it is a strong dislike. I hate being denied. It is overwhelming and just not something I enjoy. This is something that would be an affective punishment. But be warned, I would not be pleasant to deal with under those circumstances.
Not wearing panties
This is something that I also don't enjoy. Around the house is fine, but as soon as I leave the house, even if I am wearing pants, I just feel too exposed and uncomfortable.
Stimulation after orgasm (need a break)
Like I said, I love cumming multiple times, but I need a break in between. I get so sensitive and it is very overwhelming to have constant stimulation on my private areas.
Pain
I have said that I like spanking and I love nipple pain, but pain outside of those two, or spanking taken a bit too far is not enjoyable for me.
Writing lines
This is something I find incredibly boring and that is the only reason I dislike it.
Holding an enema for a long time
On top of this being very uncomfortable, this ups the humiliation factor. I get scared that I am going to lose control and make a mess and that would be awful.
Anal only orgasms
This is something that I have not really been able to achieve and therefore, it just serves to make me feel like a failure and get me very very frustrated.
💔Limits
These are hard limits and are not to be expected or asked of me, unless you are my Dom and in which case he probably wouldn't anyways:
Extreme pain
I have a low pain tolerance on other parts of my body, and I do not like pain, so it is a limit and I will safeword if it gets to be too much.
Public
This makes me way too anxious and the thought of being caught DOES NOT turn me on at all.
Name calling
I grew up being verbally abused. I don't mind some pet names, like sweetie, honey etc. But things like slut, whore, etc. are not the way to make me melt. Even some names such as Baby make me cringe.
Not wearing a bra
This is something again I can handle at home, but being around other people, or being in public without a bra is not ok. I have a very large chest and not only is it embarrassing, but it is uncomfortable for me to not wear a bra.
Wooden spoons
Due to abuse as a child, this is a psychological trigger and I can't handle even a playful tap on my butt with a wooden spoon. For the same reason, I have a hard time using a wooden paddle, or any other wooden instruments.
Kneeling in the corner
Again, due to abuse as a child, I cannot mentally handle this.
Pictures/Video
If I know you, I am very open with sending photos and videos of my everyday life, and sometimes even of me. But it is a limit for people to demand these things from me. Pictures and videos are private and personal and they will be sent on my own terms. You may ask, but you better respect my decision if it is no, and never expect them from me. I also do not want to receive naked photos of you without asking my permission first. Dick pics are not a turn on.
Gags
I can get very claustrophobic. And having something in my mouth has proven to be a challenge for me. It is something I may want to explore more with the right person, but not something that can be expected of me.
Impact play (crop, whips, etc)
Again, this is confusing because it is something that I have listed in various areas of my likes and loves, but it is a limit for this to be explored by anybody who is not my Dom.
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