Didnt fit

Appletizer · 04-06-2011, 01:12 PM

treid to have sex with my gf for the first time. but when i did my penis didnt fit into her :/ is it cos im like too big?

Link1 · 04-06-2011, 08:19 PM

yep. and now you can never have sex EVER!

if you are actually serious and not being a complete jack ass.. then you were probably not hitting the right spot. get accustomed to her with your fingers if she'll let you. feel for the hole.. and that's where it goes. No one has a penis that's too big for sex. >_>

softeyes · 04-07-2011, 04:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Link1

No one has a penis that's too big for sex. >_>

Some have.. Some have..

Appletizer might be one of them.

God forbid trying foreplay.

CollaredBlondie · 04-07-2011, 04:33 AM

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Originally Posted by softeyes

God forbid trying foreplay.

Here here...

For god's sake, you gotta be gentle with her if you're apparently "big" - girls need a lot of warming up before having stuff put in there. A five minute fumble won't do!

sweetsong · 04-07-2011, 07:39 AM

Definitely try other things and not just go straight for penetration. :0 But maybe you did and just had a small post.

I guess I would need more details to fully advise.

princessjessie · 04-07-2011, 07:42 AM

is this a seriouse question? if it is use your hands 1st to find it

Star Shadows · 04-07-2011, 08:40 AM

Ya try foreplay and fingers first not only does this relax the muscles widening the opening but it also encourages natural lubricant to be produced making it easier

dragonlooking · 04-07-2011, 08:47 AM

hey if she is a virgin just take is slow it will happen in its on time don't rush or push her

things that might help
a full body massage to relax her
extenuated foreplay
any maybe some extra lube

mistress ct · 04-07-2011, 11:11 AM

There is nothing you can do I'm afraid. Penis size reduction perhaps?

^ Foreplay, lots of it.

Jamie101 · 04-07-2011, 12:43 PM

I found finding people older than 8 helps, because I had the same problem of being too big for them as well, caused allot of problems when the drugs worse off and I still had not had my fun.

and yes the above is sarcasm for those with broken detectors

Appletizer · 04-07-2011, 05:31 PM

Well it was my first time. and im about 7-8 inches and i dont know about 1.5 inches thick. and my gf is a vergin too i coudlnt even find the hole... i really had no clue what to do. i guess i didnt make her horny enough then.

Vela · 04-07-2011, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Appletizer

Well it was my first time. and im about 7-8 inches and i dont know about 1.5 inches thick. and my gf is a vergin too i coudlnt even find the hole... i really had no clue what to do. i guess i didnt make her horny enough then.

Maybe you two should back up a little and just try playing with fingers until you figure out where everything is and what feels good to her.

courtezan · 04-07-2011, 06:13 PM

It's hard to make yourselves slow down when it's your first time, but the longer you can take and the slower you go the easier it will be for both of you.
Try slowly stroking and touching her, explore her with your fingers if she isn't too nervous to let you, also use some kind of lubricant on her and yourself. You probably won't need it for very long, but to begin with it can really help.
You said your g/f is a virgin, that will make her small and tight, if you use your fingers first that will relax and open her, making it easier to get your penis in later. If you can make her orgasm by rubbing her (I am assuming that you know about clitoral stimulation) and using your fingers inside her that will make it even easier, as her internal muscles will relax and she will be producing lubricant of her own.

Guide yourself in with your fingers, and move very slowly. Above all be gentle and don't rush it, you want her to want you to do this again, often, so try your best to make it good for her, and she will.

04-06-2011, 01:12 PM	#1
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sweetsong getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ♥ In your dreams ♥ Posts: 1,733 Blog Entries: 98	Definitely try other things and not just go straight for penetration. :0 But maybe you did and just had a small post. I guess I would need more details to fully advise. __________________ . siggy made by stellz [03:54:06 PM] jamness: ‹@G.J.› She... kisses and stuff... shes weird. [03:54:39 PM] G.J.: ‹@jamness› That seems like normal Sweets to me XD

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04-06-2011, 08:19 PM	#2
Link1 Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA, NJ Posts: 172 Blog Entries: 2	yep. and now you can never have sex EVER! if you are actually serious and not being a complete jack ass.. then you were probably not hitting the right spot. get accustomed to her with your fingers if she'll let you. feel for the hole.. and that's where it goes. No one has a penis that's too big for sex. >_>

04-07-2011, 08:47 AM	#8
dragonlooking Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 26	hey if she is a virgin just take is slow it will happen in its on time don't rush or push her things that might help a full body massage to relax her extenuated foreplay any maybe some extra lube

04-07-2011, 11:11 AM	#9
mistress ct Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 122	There is nothing you can do I'm afraid. Penis size reduction perhaps? ^ Foreplay, lots of it.

04-07-2011, 05:31 PM	#11
Appletizer Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 11 Blog Entries: 3	Well it was my first time. and im about 7-8 inches and i dont know about 1.5 inches thick. and my gf is a vergin too i coudlnt even find the hole... i really had no clue what to do. i guess i didnt make her horny enough then.

04-07-2011, 06:13 PM	#13
courtezan Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Slow dancing somewhere just to the left of the rest of the world. Posts: 39	It's hard to make yourselves slow down when it's your first time, but the longer you can take and the slower you go the easier it will be for both of you. Try slowly stroking and touching her, explore her with your fingers if she isn't too nervous to let you, also use some kind of lubricant on her and yourself. You probably won't need it for very long, but to begin with it can really help. You said your g/f is a virgin, that will make her small and tight, if you use your fingers first that will relax and open her, making it easier to get your penis in later. If you can make her orgasm by rubbing her (I am assuming that you know about clitoral stimulation) and using your fingers inside her that will make it even easier, as her internal muscles will relax and she will be producing lubricant of her own. Guide yourself in with your fingers, and move very slowly. Above all be gentle and don't rush it, you want her to want you to do this again, often, so try your best to make it good for her, and she will.