19/female/sub seeks 18-21/any sex/dom in US (abuse me)

[HollyHound]

19/female/sub seeks 18-21/any sex/dom in US (abuse me)

Hello 🥺
I have been a very naughty girl who needs to be put in her place. My boyfriend thinks I enjoy hurting others too much and since I have no real experience as a slave I have no right being dominant to others. My BF is a pussy and won't abuse me properly so I am doing this behind his back. Please go easy on me but be strict.

My limits include anything illegal. I can try semi public but not full public. No family or friends. Nothing that can risk me getting fired I am a lawyer and need to do my job.

My likes include edging
I don't know what else since I never really done this before.

My kik is HallowHound and I look forward to hearing from you.

Oh and since I am a slave now I will try anything you demand as long as it's not a limit. I have to learn respect. So I guess really don't be gentle be rough.
Thanks 🙈
Ps I love stuffing my holes

[Garry0993]

Not trying to be too nitpicking here.

But what happened in summer/fall that turned you from a lesbian mistress into a female sub that need this behind your boyfriend's back?

I am just very curious.



Also no experience doesn't mean you can't dominant others. No experience just means you need to be extra careful, do more reading and much more research when you start trying to "dominate" others. Take every step slow and don't over do it.

Everyone start with no experience. Nobody is born with domination experience.

[pluky]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

Not trying to be too nitpicking here.

But what happened in summer/fall that turned you from a lesbian mistress into a female sub that need this behind your boyfriend's back?

I am just very curious.



Also no experience doesn't mean you can't dominant others. No experience just means you need to be extra careful, do more reading and much more research when you start trying to "dominate" others. Take every step slow and don't over do it.

Everyone start with no experience. Nobody is born with domination experience.

Sir's toy looked at the old ad, to be fair OP doesn't say she is a lesbian in it, only that she was looking for female only at that point in time.

As a bisexual female herself, Sir's doll sometimes has those moments where she feels like "all men can fuck off" (in OP's words) at times. The fairest assumption to make is that OP is simply bisexual not lesbian since she didn't use those words to describe herself in the old ad.

Bisexuality can fluctuate and be a very strange thing.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by pluky

Sir's toy looked at the old ad, to be fair OP doesn't say she is a lesbian in it, only that she was looking for female only at that point in time.

As a bisexual female herself, Sir's doll sometimes has those moments where she feels like "all men can fuck off" (in OP's words) at times. The fairest assumption to make is that OP is simply bisexual not lesbian since she didn't use those words to describe herself in the old ad.

Bisexuality can fluctuate and be a very strange thing.

Here is this person's first ever post on GetDare.
https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...98#post5154198
To quote it:

Originally Posted by HollyHound

Hi I'm Holly and new to this
I am lesbian and interested in any dares.

That is why I am curious.

[pluky]

Sir's toy didn't see that post and is sorry for replying without paying attention to all the information.

[pranjal]

Just curious about something, the OP mentioned she a dentist's assistant as her occupation in her Bio but now she is saying that she is a lawyer.

Not that it's not possible but they are still extremely different kind of professions. How did you end up from a dentist's assistant to a lawyer. I am curious about this story ?

[HollyHound]

Im not gonna put my real occupation. And as for me and my boyfriend that is no one's business about our relationship

[Dark_eyed_Devil]

You all need to leave her alone. It's borderline bullying. Who cares if she's not being entirely truthful about her personal life. As long as she is of age, she is free to say whatever she wants.

[Masterwants]

Originally Posted by Dark_eyed_Devil

You all need to leave her alone. It's borderline bullying. Who cares if she's not being entirely truthful about her personal life. As long as she is of age, she is free to say whatever she wants.

You’re right she’s free to say whatever she likes. But, calling someone out on their inconsistencies or lies isn’t borderline bullying. Weirdly some people do actually care about the truth here, which is also their right.

[MeisterRebus]

I fully agree with Masterwants. You can lie from the moment you open your eyes in the morning to the late night shows. Who cares? But if you are looking for someone who shares/controls/runs your life you better be honest. Because truth, respect and trust are the major pillars of bdsm and any good d/s relationship.

[Dark_eyed_Devil]

Originally Posted by Masterwants

You’re right she’s free to say whatever she likes. But, calling someone out on their inconsistencies or lies isn’t borderline bullying. Weirdly some people do actually care about the truth here, which is also their right.

There’s nothing weird about telling the truth, and I ageee with you. It is important that we all remain transparent, especially with this type of engagement. What I’m saying is that calling her out in the open and giving her a reputation of a lier on an open form is a bit over the top… and yes, call me crazy but I think non-consensual humiliation is in fact bullying.

Perhaps she does have some things in her personal life that she doesn’t care to share. She has the right to her privacy. Should she had said what she had said knowing it wasn’t true? Okay, probably not. But if we know she is not telling the truth, that’s something that should be discussed in a more personal setting.

Thats all I’m saying.

[Garry0993]

Originally Posted by Dark_eyed_Devil

You all need to leave her alone. It's borderline bullying. Who cares if she's not being entirely truthful about her personal life. As long as she is of age, she is free to say whatever she wants.

Of course she is free to say whatever she wants with her age, of course her relationship with her boyfriend is her own business.

But do keep in mind that we are at a kinky forum.. It is important to keepat least two things truthful in my mind. What you like in a kinky relationship and what is your sexual orientation/sexual identification.

The ad boils down to finding someone you would find sexual attraction to in my opinion. I don’t see the need of lying of those two aspects at all, especially here.

If you don’t wish to disclose everything that’s fine. Neither did I. Basic internet safety.

But at least make sure everything is consistent. “She” could just said she’s found out that she’s actually bi and a switch and I won’t have a word.

Going from lesbian mistress who calls guys to fuck off to submissive girl with a boyfriend want to submit behind her boyfriend back is a bit too far. That should be minimal truth you say about yourself here. Otherwise how can people give you good dare's you enjoy?

Anyway those are my thoughts when I wrote my initial reply.

[RandomPersin]

Originally Posted by Garry0993

Going from lesbian mistress who calls guys to fuck off to submissive girl with a boyfriend want to submit behind her boyfriend back is a bit too far.

As a pan man who has literally said "I am gay and don't want women" because of situations in my life it is just weird to be nitpicky about someone having to always say "Hi I am bi but recently had a rough relationship with a man so I just date women and that is all I am looking for." more often than not when you fully breakdown that instead of just saying "I'm gay" or "I'm a lesbian" the people you are not looking for will go "Oh well I am not what you are looking for but I can change your mind."

That has happened so many times to me and guys have it way easier.