Dominant or Dominated?

Mr.RainbowBanana · 06-26-2010, 12:27 AM

Are you more interested in being dominant in getting people to do your dares all for your pleasure, or dominated in being a slave allowing others to take control? And why?

Jaime · 06-26-2010, 07:47 AM

I'm submissive - I prefer being dominated and made to do humiliating, kinky things.

Because? It's fun.

Star Shadows · 06-26-2010, 09:28 AM

I am a submissive. I am absolutely atrocious at thinking of dares and such. I think I have a lot of the knowledge I would need theory wise, its just the rest of it.

Antiperson · 06-26-2010, 09:56 AM

Dominant. I much prefer being in control - it's just the way I'm wired, I get pleasure from being in control rather than giving it up.

bank · 06-26-2010, 11:39 AM

i like to be dominate in bed an arund the house its fun but im not a jerk abyusing people like sum so its ok all god fun my gf luvs to b nacked for me

glasssbottle174 · 06-26-2010, 04:43 PM

i like to be submissive and made to do anything humiliating, sexual, painfull as i have no controll

sexy staci · 06-26-2010, 04:49 PM

i definitely prefer to be dominated, it gives me such a thrill

BettyBoop · 06-26-2010, 04:51 PM

How about neither?
I know for a fact I'm not submissive, I have a dominant personality but I've never really had any want to dominate anyone in an s/M relationship kind of way.

SandK · 06-26-2010, 05:04 PM

I am a submissive, and am under my dom's control
I enjoy being sub

sweetsong · 06-26-2010, 05:14 PM

I like both because it's fun and different. (: Nothing 24/7 though.

Stix · 06-26-2010, 05:22 PM

I've got absolutely no idea...I'd like to find out some day...but I duno

scotsman · 06-26-2010, 05:51 PM

i prefer doing it especially nude humilation

micromatt8 · 06-26-2010, 08:13 PM

I personally like to be dominated. It makes me feel wanted. In a strange kind of way.

curdares · 06-26-2010, 11:36 PM

Dominant. I really enjoy giving my sub the pleasure they crave by serving.

Teeks · 06-27-2010, 06:49 AM

I'm a submissive. I've dominated only one guy at some point, and I enjoyed doing it, because it was someone I liked a lot and we shared a lot. But I don't feel like being on top with anyone else ever.

I just want, and need to be dominated; I'm a submissive, it's my nature, I just don't know how to explain this. It makes me feel safe, secure. Like I know what I do; I don't need to think about it, take decisions; I just have to listen to someone and do as I'm told.
Maybe it's because while being a submissive in every sense of the word, sexually, but in day-to-day life, I still have quite some responsabilities, and often in the place of the leader.

06-26-2010, 12:27 AM	#1
Mr.RainbowBanana getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Under your bed ;) Posts: 288	Dominant or Dominated? Are you more interested in being dominant in getting people to do your dares all for your pleasure, or dominated in being a slave allowing others to take control? And why? __________________ He is now named "Mr. Rainbow Tentacruel", he had dreams of having multi-coloured tentacles, and now, thanks to zyxwxyz, his dreams have been acheived! Luuurve: Forced masturbation. Very mild pain. Toothpaste. Slight cold. Semi/risky public (Depending on what it is). Webcam (Depends on who it is). Pictures (Depends on who it is). Forced nudity. Home made toy play. Risky gambling. Inspirational & creative tasks/dares. Dice. Cfnm. Bdsm. Note: -Anything not mentioned, I wont do.

06-26-2010, 07:47 AM	#2
Jaime Account Banned Join Date: May 2010 Location: The House of Fun. Welcome. Posts: 86	I'm submissive - I prefer being dominated and made to do humiliating, kinky things. Because? It's fun. __________________ No, I will not be your mistress, or cam4cam or pic/vids with you, so don't ask Likes: Pee; Poo; Anal; Mild-Moderate Pain; Embarassing/Self-Humiliation; Trying out new fetishes and ideas; Kinky dirty pervy slutty stuff , anything else not mentioned! Limits: Extreme Pain; Family finding out; Public

06-26-2010, 09:28 AM	#3
Star Shadows Prodigy Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 4,707 Blog Entries: 13	I am a submissive. I am absolutely atrocious at thinking of dares and such. I think I have a lot of the knowledge I would need theory wise, its just the rest of it. __________________ Do not ask me for to be your slave, your mistress, or to give you truths or dares. You're wasting your time. Informative threads: Anonymous S/M advice service Threads of note PM MEGET S/M ADVICE WORSHIPS RACHIE**

06-26-2010, 11:39 AM	#5
bank Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: in a kinky box Posts: 53	i like to be dominate in bed an arund the house its fun but im not a jerk abyusing people like sum so its ok all god fun my gf luvs to b nacked for me __________________ im bank, master of love slave's. if you dont dig it Dont get it. Remember my name you will be screaming it later.

06-26-2010, 04:49 PM	#7
sexy staci Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: I chill with Alice in Wonderland Posts: 32	i definitely prefer to be dominated, it gives me such a thrill __________________ i don't do anything public, with family members, or pee or poo

06-26-2010, 09:56 AM	#4
Antiperson Account Banned Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 159	Dominant. I much prefer being in control - it's just the way I'm wired, I get pleasure from being in control rather than giving it up.

06-26-2010, 04:43 PM	#6
glasssbottle174 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 263	i like to be submissive and made to do anything humiliating, sexual, painfull as i have no controll

06-26-2010, 04:51 PM	#8
BettyBoop Angel of Dare Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: England. Posts: 8,249 Blog Entries: 105	How about neither? I know for a fact I'm not submissive, I have a dominant personality but I've never really had any want to dominate anyone in an s/M relationship kind of way. __________________ ★Boop Boop de Boop.★ female, engurrland. Ask me anything, click. My tumblr. 18+ ▼

06-26-2010, 05:04 PM	#9
SandK Junior Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 3	I am a submissive, and am under my dom's control I enjoy being sub __________________ Owned

06-26-2010, 05:14 PM	#10
sweetsong getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ♥ In your dreams ♥ Posts: 1,733 Blog Entries: 98	I like both because it's fun and different. (: Nothing 24/7 though. __________________ . siggy made by stellz [03:54:06 PM] jamness: ‹@G.J.› She... kisses and stuff... shes weird. [03:54:39 PM] G.J.: ‹@jamness› That seems like normal Sweets to me XD

06-26-2010, 05:22 PM	#11
Stix getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,018	I've got absolutely no idea...I'd like to find out some day...but I duno

06-26-2010, 05:51 PM	#12
scotsman getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: scotland Posts: 270	i prefer doing it especially nude humilation

06-26-2010, 08:13 PM	#13
micromatt8 Junior Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: England Posts: 3	I personally like to be dominated. It makes me feel wanted. In a strange kind of way.

06-27-2010, 06:49 AM	#15
Teeks Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: France Posts: 756	I'm a submissive. I've dominated only one guy at some point, and I enjoyed doing it, because it was someone I liked a lot and we shared a lot. But I don't feel like being on top with anyone else ever. I just want, and need to be dominated; I'm a submissive, it's my nature, I just don't know how to explain this. It makes me feel safe, secure. Like I know what I do; I don't need to think about it, take decisions; I just have to listen to someone and do as I'm told. Maybe it's because while being a submissive in every sense of the word, sexually, but in day-to-day life, I still have quite some responsabilities, and often in the place of the leader. __________________ Anything you've ever wondered about Teeks? Ask there please 29 y.o \| Female \| Straight \| France (GMT+1)