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eg) When somone doesnt pass the exam (so to speak) they instantly go and make a seperate account, and try again when next possible. Therefore i can't see this hapening, however i AGREE that there are a lot of people who have never read the rules and plenty that couldn't even find them if asked Quote:
But in chat it could work in the box you open to whisper to the user etc Therefore always there, even if marked as away. Probably not do the coloured dot, as this may effect the way some people chat to someone, and may get complicated etc. JUST MY PERSONAL VIEWS AT ALMOST MIDNIGHT Appologies late - may be poorly written Love Rachie x x x
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07-19-2011, 10:22 PM | #17 |
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It seems to me that this is largely an intractable problem. The core of the problem is that there is no way of verifying the age of people on GD. I'm not even sure if ages are required to set up an account, but I do know that they don't have to be displayed - I think this would be an improvement.
This is a problem not just for underage people getting "hit on" by older people. It is also a problem for older people not being able to tell the age of the people they are interracting with. Hence, why I think making the displaying of the age compulsory would be a step forward. The other thing I have noted is that the site does not have a landing page the comes up before you enter. On adult sites you generally have something that says "This site contains adult content..." and you have the choice to enter or not. Whilst this would not be appropriate for GD because it is open to all, it would create a place where you could put some of the rules. Finally, the mods do a fantastic job but I know they must get inundated with requests. People who hit up underagers need to be dealt with swiftly and decisively. Some way of electronically triaging these reports as a priority would be an advantage too. That's my two cents worth.
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Problem number two, they aren't being corrupted soley by the site. At this point, if they are looking for s/m related things, they were corrupted pre-site. The only way that is different is if they found this place for tord and fiddled around with s/m. To be honest, I would rather they fool around on here then on some other s/m sites. Places like collarme are INSANE. The creepy messages girls get on here are not one tenth as horrible or in the same amount recievd as there. Amazingly, I view s/m as much safer and more beginer orientated on here than there. So, while underage s/m will never go away, I think that taking away the option to hide your age on your profile will really cut down on mistaken come-ons. That also takes away ANY excuse that someone might have for asking for underage s/m. That makes it much easier to have no pity for under 18 chasers, and can punish harder for it. Also makes it easier to identify and report rule breaking of all sorts. It isn't a very complex thing to change, I don't think and there is just too much reason why not to change it at this point.
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I personally don't like the fact that under 18's can still view the s/m section even though they can't post. If the reason they can't post is because it's illegal and improper for anyone under 18 to engage in that material, why are they allowed to look at it? If you ask me, that's just begging for them to find a way around the rules. You don't want anything worse than when you can't have it. I really like the idea of having color codes in the chat. It's a quick, easy way to identify who is and isn't to be contacted regarding s/m. I think the only way to truly rid this site of underage s/m is to move that whole section to Kink Talk. That's a much more appropriate outlet for that topic, and while underagers can still lie and register there, at least the people that are over 18 and genuinely want to find a dom/sub who is also over 18 have a better chance of getting it there. There's no way I can see to completely prevent the overage/underage problem on any site. As long as there are rules, there are going to be people who want to break them. The bottom line is you can be anyone you want to on the Internet, so just take caution. Ultimate responsibility lies on the shoulders of the individuals, not the website.
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07-19-2011, 11:06 PM | #22 |
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Thanks but I'd prefer to see the issues canvassed more broadly so I'd suggest you don't try to moderate the discussion. There may be some good ideas that come from a broader discussion such as making ages compulsory to list.
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07-19-2011, 11:09 PM | #23 |
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fine, BUT if you think the age verifacation is a good idea how are you meant to prove it? you cant show someone your passport on anything
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07-19-2011, 11:10 PM | #24 |
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Agree. This is a complicated issue, there's more to it than just underage s/m. I think age verification, or lack thereof, has a lot to do with underage s/m on sites like these and is very relevant to the topic.
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07-19-2011, 11:13 PM | #25 |
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On a different adult website I am on, there is the option to verify your account. To do so, you e-mail the moderator a scanned picture of your drivers license, as well as a picture of yourself holding a sign that says "verify me (name of website)." Neither of these get posted anywhere on the site, it's just for the moderator. You then get a title that says "verified" next to your username.
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As much as age verification would be great, there isn't a whole lot of way that I know of. I think I heard of doing it with credit cards but that would also screw members that don't have a credit card out of being able to join/stay. I personally don't have one nor do I ever want to. I'm 18, but still can't join? Not terribly fair.
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It is directed at a few people to be honest, in both aspects of U18s and U18 chasers. So yes those who have been here can assume who I am talking about, proving that I am not the only one that has seen it. If you have guesses then okay, but I not saying names because I have no authority to. This also can be broadened to members who have been here for awhile that are 18+ and are starting relations with those U18. Quote:
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On a side note, there should be some form of way for users to plead their case if they are banned, lets say a 18+ get banned for doing things with those under 18, but the user had their age blocked, is there currently a way to point this out to mods without having to make a new account?
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To clarify, not to sound rude, although you are not interested in it, many many U18s are, and resort to lying about age, or just doing it. Not sure if you realized that, if you did than okay. I do understand to topic was originally about U18s that don't want it but U18s are at just as much fault for it as 18+, we should just have more common sense to not get into it.
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