Telling her I like anal plugs...

yermawsface · 01-04-2011, 06:13 PM

So, just a little question... Should I tell her I have an anal plug? Should I tell her i like my anal plug?...
A while ago i mentioned i had tried a little anal with my fingers, she seamed disgusted...

Maybe I shouldnt tell her, and just keep it WELL hidden from her lol

lilysmaster · 01-04-2011, 06:17 PM

I personally think it is better to be open about it, if she doesn't like the idea then you can simply no longer talk about. Then again she could be intrigued and want to experiment.

diapered slave · 01-04-2011, 07:25 PM

i have the same problem, except i havent told her at all, it is really up to you because you know her better then anyone on here, personally im going to keep it to myself forever i think

sweetsong · 01-04-2011, 08:40 PM

I've actually met more men that were opposed to anal play than women. >.>

If she's never thought about it before that could explain the initial disgust. Give her some time.

snup · 01-05-2011, 12:39 AM

suggest anal on her .. when she mentioned "how would you like it" say ... well try it on me then.

then have the toy as something you bought after that

yermawsface · 01-07-2011, 06:45 PM

Might tell her sometime when both of us are tipsy lol... Might be a ltitle easier on us both XD

321tt · 02-07-2011, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by yermawsface

Might tell her sometime when both of us are tipsy lol... Might be a ltitle easier on us both XD

Well, this is not a good idea. You might have a bit of alcohol so it's easier to talk for you. But if you want to drink so you "push her limits", it can lead to serious problems in the relationship, she might get mad, you both say some rough words and will seriously regret them. And you'll never want to open that topic again.

I suggest to be open and honest, and show that you'll respect her opinion whatever the opinion is.

01-04-2011, 06:13 PM	#1
yermawsface Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 86	Telling her I like anal plugs... So, just a little question... Should I tell her I have an anal plug? Should I tell her i like my anal plug?... A while ago i mentioned i had tried a little anal with my fingers, she seamed disgusted... Maybe I shouldnt tell her, and just keep it WELL hidden from her lol __________________ Keep Your Underwear Dare Keep Your Underwear AGAIN Dare ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Limits: No Messy, No Public Likes: Anal, bondage, tease and denial Owns: Butt plug, cock ring, ball gag

01-04-2011, 06:17 PM	#2
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01-04-2011, 07:25 PM	#3
diapered slave Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 515	i have the same problem, except i havent told her at all, it is really up to you because you know her better then anyone on here, personally im going to keep it to myself forever i think __________________ Sorry to get serious but I don't use this site anymore I only lurk occasionally thanks to people at work finding out I don't do a lot of anything anymore, I'm not a bad person, I'm way past kinky but I'm not a bad person and now thanxs to some nameless people I hate myself and I have a collection of scares, please don't p.m me or reply to my threads thank you

01-04-2011, 08:40 PM	#4
sweetsong getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ♥ In your dreams ♥ Posts: 1,733 Blog Entries: 98	I've actually met more men that were opposed to anal play than women. >.> If she's never thought about it before that could explain the initial disgust. Give her some time. __________________ . siggy made by stellz [03:54:06 PM] jamness: ‹@G.J.› She... kisses and stuff... shes weird. [03:54:39 PM] G.J.: ‹@jamness› That seems like normal Sweets to me XD

01-05-2011, 12:39 AM	#5
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01-07-2011, 06:45 PM	#6
yermawsface Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 86	Might tell her sometime when both of us are tipsy lol... Might be a ltitle easier on us both XD __________________ Keep Your Underwear Dare Keep Your Underwear AGAIN Dare ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Limits: No Messy, No Public Likes: Anal, bondage, tease and denial Owns: Butt plug, cock ring, ball gag