Should I save up for a chastity device

[pixie.dust]

I am sure that everyone is capable of reading my signature and viewing my blogs to learn a little more about me. To put it simply, I am a Little sissy who is also a little kitten and a little maid... guess it kind of depends on my owners desires. Though I am not currently owned by anyone and am free to make decision(s) on my own. hehe

I really don't like labels as I don't really fit in one of them, but they have their uses.

I have tried to use a device in the past, they are all too small or too large for me. I am here to ask if y'all think it would be good for a little like myself to spend the money for a custom made device (it will be lots of money...)?

I don't even know if I will like the experience or not as I have heard it can be painful, but I do like the appeal to it as a show of submission.

My next question, do you all think that sissies should be locked in chastity?
What if they don't have an owner, is it required then?

I know that I am not a sissy slut, I am kinky... but not like that. I also don't like to be humiliated and I don't even see myself as a man at times, so I don't even know if the term sissy is appropriate for me. Though, I do like the idea of being dressed by my owner and servicing them and their house as a cute little maid. I love the gentle, loving type....

Please let me know if you have any advice, if you do believe in a chastity device... please feel free to post the one you use and/or recommend.

Thanks,

-little alexis

[Iamnotsure]

Having the body of a man should getting a device easy. No need to get a expensive custom made. As long as it locked your sex and don't hurt it is okay. Even a little wiggling room should be okay.

I've locked men in the past and there where never someone that couldn't fit in a cage.

[pixie.dust]

i have tried 2 different ones and both hurt. maybe... I am not looking at the right ones.

do you all know of a good website for purchasing one that ships without giving away..that it is a chastity device?

[Dman1212]

I have had good luck getting chastity cage off of ebay. Sure they may not be the best quality but they are good enough to try chastity out. Be sure to research how to measure for the right size and to get the correct size and material that you want. I personally have been too much of a wuss to be caged for too long. I wimp out

[pixie.dust]

my length is 2.5" and width is 1.5"... most cages i am able to find are smaller in width.

-little alexis

[Ninjota]

What about your previous devices hurt you? The most important part I would say is making sure you get a base ring that fits properly, that is not too tight but also not too loose. Amazon is a great way to get them; they ship discretely.

[pixie.dust]

It was bunching up on the shaft area, at the bottom side and getting caught when i would get hard. It would literally take an hour to get on. But anyways, the pain was generally in the sack area and the skin that would get caught.

When I got soft, it would literally slip right off on it's own while my pants were on. Imagine trying to explain that, if it was in public. Turns out that most cages are 1.375" in width. I am 1.5" in width. I will admit tha TV i was cold as all get out. Which is a little common.

I don't know if i have ever measured around the area where the ring goes, just went with one of the 3 rings that in it came with.

Is this normal, or would the width explain it.

-little alexis

[pixie.dust]

I found this device, http://lockedinlust.com/product/the-vice-standard/ which is pricey. I obviously won't be able to purchase it for a while as I need a job. But, I could work towards it.

The device is 1.4" wide and 2.65" long

I am 1.5" wide and 2.5" long when flaccid. Do y'all think this device would work?

-little alexis

[ebsia]

Probably not, it goes 1,3 with the internal shape.

[pixie.dust]

Hmm, guess I will have to continue to search..



thanks

-little alexis

[Scrap]

I have had fairly good success with the CB-X series (~$150US www dot cb-x dot com). While the cages come in a only two standard sizes, the rings come in five, and the ring-to-cage pins are also multi-sized. The combinations of sizing should be able to fit you comfortably until you can afford to get something professionally done (around $500US last time I looked)

[fiume]

my current device is this one and it is by far the best I have I can have it on for weeks at the time
https://www.ebay.com/itm/Clear-Men-M...kgajIb1gCLabQw
there are 2 sizes small and normal a have small one hope it helps

for the second part yes you should use one if you don't have key holder simply put keys in mali and send them to your self trust mi it is lots of fun

[pixie.dust]

I don't think I would trust my mail service that much as they dont get it right all of the time.

That would suck... 2 months later... though I guess you could use bolt cutters on it... though I could miss


Thanks y'all. I will look into them.

-little alexis

[AgentGreen]

If you are looking for comfort, I highly recommend this Chinese knock-off of a 3D printed belt:
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/3D-M...843790637.html
It's $16 and is more comfortable than any other device I own. It's about as secure as any other trapped-ball device.



If security is important I've had good luck with the Holy Trainer Nano + Guardian anti-pullout (largest pointy one). I think that's about as secure a trapped-ball device can get.



The best belt around is the Neosteel Fun... BUT some people make knock-offs. I have this Chinese knock-off and it's actually pretty good for $95. Just make sure you get the measurements correct and are ready to make some minor modifications (I had to disassemble and modify the screws on the butt opening for it to be in the correct place).

[Simi]

Chastity can be fun to play with, eventually you will find one which fits you properly, I will point my pup towards this thread and see if he has any advice on sizing. what size are you when entirely flaccid as that is the required minimum size (then obviously depending on how strict the device needs to be you can go for a little bigger so its in the gap between both)
birdlocked style devices are ones i've had success with as the devices are softer they have a little bit more give and in some case can be more comfortable, metal bar ones can be more practical for longer term use (aka my puppy :P) even on him i currently have to left him out occassionally