What is some guidance or advise you wish you had when you joined GD?

Bloxo · 10-10-2023, 05:23 AM

Joining GetDare is quite a milestone for most members, this site exposes you to a new world, with all kinds of fun opportunities to interact with people, to learn and to grow...it really is a very specific experience and everyone faces something a little different depending on what they look out for!

Though I wonder, from new and old members alike, what is some advise you would like to have been given when you started out?

Did you have any problems because of not knowing what this place is like?

Is there a section you only discovered now and wish you had known about earlier?

Did a post of yours go badly because of the way you set it out?

How would you advise new people on how to make the most of this place, stay safe and enjoy GD?

Sex Speed Runner · 10-10-2023, 07:02 AM

Maybe having a bit more patience on the site.

Especially when i first joined id be looking for dares to complete asap, however it doesn't really work like that.

Also helps to be involved in the community, answering truths, asking questions etc... That way you get to know a few people and i find they usually look to help when you seek dares yourself.

Final thing would be to not expect anything, and not be annoying if no one quite gives you the dare you are looking for. I see a lot of people bumping their threads even though they're a definite lost cause.

Be patient, Be active in the community, Dont be annoying

Bloxo · 10-10-2023, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sex Speed Runner

Maybe having a bit more patience on the site.

Especially when i first joined id be looking for dares to complete asap, however it doesn't really work like that.

Also helps to be involved in the community, answering truths, asking questions etc... That way you get to know a few people and i find they usually look to help when you seek dares yourself.

Final thing would be to not expect anything, and not be annoying if no one quite gives you the dare you are looking for. I see a lot of people bumping their threads even though they're a definite lost cause.

Be patient, Be active in the community, Dont be annoying

I agree completely, patience is a must on this site. Not everyone will respond to a message, not every thread you create will get attention, likely your PM dares will not be touched very often - of course most of the above is for the guys...as let's face it we are in a high majority here!

Good points about being a part of the community, it's always good when people make a positive contribution, not just by creating threads but by building on what others have started

LitDarkness · 10-16-2023, 01:49 PM

This is more of a guidance for females, but don't get overwhelmed with the males pming you.

Many will ask for Kik/line etc. Or try to violate limits first hand or just be a general butt. It is okay to ignore them and pretend they don't exists.

This applies to everyone. The ignore list is there for a reason. There's no shame in using it.

10-10-2023, 05:23 AM	#1
Bloxo getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: UK/Poland Posts: 1,464 Blog Entries: 69	What is some guidance or advise you wish you had when you joined GD? Joining GetDare is quite a milestone for most members, this site exposes you to a new world, with all kinds of fun opportunities to interact with people, to learn and to grow...it really is a very specific experience and everyone faces something a little different depending on what they look out for! Though I wonder, from new and old members alike, what is some advise you would like to have been given when you started out? Did you have any problems because of not knowing what this place is like? Is there a section you only discovered now and wish you had known about earlier? Did a post of yours go badly because of the way you set it out? How would you advise new people on how to make the most of this place, stay safe and enjoy GD? __________________ 40/m/UK/PL/switch - more dominant Likes/Dislikes/Limits/Toys PM DARES! I'm straight and will only take Dares from Girls, please bear this in mind when writing to me. Please be genuine, be fun and have a good heart...with a sadistic streak hehe...6 inches Curious about me or Poland? check out my Youtube!

10-10-2023, 07:02 AM	#2
Sex Speed Runner Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2022 Location: England Posts: 477 Blog Entries: 11	Maybe having a bit more patience on the site. Especially when i first joined id be looking for dares to complete asap, however it doesn't really work like that. Also helps to be involved in the community, answering truths, asking questions etc... That way you get to know a few people and i find they usually look to help when you seek dares yourself. Final thing would be to not expect anything, and not be annoying if no one quite gives you the dare you are looking for. I see a lot of people bumping their threads even though they're a definite lost cause. Be patient, Be active in the community, Dont be annoying __________________ 20/Male/UK Interested in a casual Domme PM Dares Likes- Porn watching, Edging, JOI, Humiliation, Ice, Semi/Hidden Public, Driving, Gaming Dislikes- Piss, Cum eating, Anal, Photos, Moderate Pain Limits- Face, Illegal, Family, Friends, Social Suicide, Shit, Messy, Permanent, Harsh Pain 'In liquid raptures I dissolve all o’er, Melt into sperm, and spend at every pore. A touch from any part of her had done’t, Her hand, her foot, her very look’s a cunt.'

10-16-2023, 01:49 PM	#4
LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	This is more of a guidance for females, but don't get overwhelmed with the males pming you. Many will ask for Kik/line etc. Or try to violate limits first hand or just be a general butt. It is okay to ignore them and pretend they don't exists. This applies to everyone. The ignore list is there for a reason. There's no shame in using it. __________________ M/Novisexual/24/sub Do have female parts. 30/1,603 edges+ 2 more days of denial after edges Make My Denial Harder Denial Diary 6,000th post tasks and reports Likes + Limits Stuff I Can Use for Dares BDSM Test Results PM DARES Stories & Poems Spelling or Grammar Mistake: Let Me Know Help Break My Cursing Habit Live with people and do not own toys. Keep in mind when daring me please. Not your bitch and calling me names or trying to Dom me is probitted. Violators will be declared as idiots.