A few questions about fantasies

Simi · 03-17-2024, 04:37 AM

Hey Gd, I just wanted to ask a few questions about kinks/fantasies of yours you haven’t been able to explore fully. Potentially looking for inspirations for writings some tasks/fantasy explorations but i just wanted to see what was out there. I am going to leave the questions very open ended and you are very welcome to dig into a very particular kink of yours, several or or be more general. More in depth answers are very welcome, but don't feel like you have to write a bunch for everything.

Is there a kink which you are interested in/fantasised about exploring but never braved doing?

Was there a kink which you used gd as a way of helping push you into testing first? What was it that helped push you?

Is there a kink which you have but even if you do it online/solo that you haven’t yet dared do with someone? Why if so?

Is there a fantasy which you find yourself imagining but could/would not be able to do in real life? What is the fantasy and how would it go in a setting when all safety concerns would be eased (aka through magic of sci fi/magic/safety teams at the ready)

What is the closest to that fantasy you have been able to go?

What is the closest to it that you think you would go currently? Or what modifiers would be needed for you? (I have had many play sessions where things had to be adapted around chronic health issues etc and it can be humanising to share)

When you are craving this fantasy what do you do? Do you just spend time imagining it, do you read/watch porn/listen to hypnosis/guided fantasies?Do you indulge in a milder variant to scratch those itches?

Simi · 03-17-2024, 06:05 AM

This is a message I received in a DM from a shy person

I asked them if they wanted me to post it anonymously and they liked the idea of that so here we go:

"Is there a kink which you are interested in/fantasised about exploring but never braved doing?

God, literally dozens. I've always fantasized about like being a subject of a voyeur, like someone having hidden cameras to watch me do the mundane, and the not so mundane. I've toyed with the idea of being a sex slave sub for an extended session before. Like I love the idea of just being forced to do anything and everything for a master or even better masters. And not like an hour or two either, my biggest fantasy is like a couple masters and a weekend or longer of just total submission to their kinks, which ideally might include some of mine, but it's kinda hot having to do things that aren't just for me too.

The exhibition threads as well as some of the like risk dice games are really fun, but some of the harsher stuff I get so nervous I don't think I could really play. I've done stuff like the roulette of doom, but I'd like to try even harsher in my head, I just don't think I could actually follow through.

Was there a kink which you used gd as a way of helping push you into testing first? What was it that helped push you?

Oh, well, I mean, most of them haha. First games were just the standard nudes, risked privately, then maybe higher risk, videos, all that just grew with time. If you told me when I joined I'd be naked in front of 5 people watching on webcam, ruining an orgasm as a punishment, with everything visible, I'd have died, that was a fantasy never attainable, but through a hundred smaller games, it got so much easier to do. The exhibition/voyeurism kink really flourished here.

Is there a kink which you have but even if you do it online/solo that you haven’t yet dared do with someone? Why if so?

Humiliation and degradation. It's easy to do it with a stranger online who exists only as a master to humiliate you. Much more scary to do it with a person that'll see you beyond their sex sub.

Is there a fantasy which you find yourself imagining but could/would not be able to do in real life? What is the fantasy and how would it go in a setting when all safety concerns would be eased (aka through magic of sci fi/magic/safety teams at the ready)

Sure, blackmail, that's probably the biggest one. Could be a really hot thing just losing control but also like all the real world safety concerns just make it a hard limit as anything more than a fantasy I keep to me. I mean I also like the idea of really rough using me, like fuck me hard, like not obliterate me, but definitely tough CBT. I mean, I would want magic for afterwards because long-term pain, ouch! And I guess the other big thing that's in fantasy only land is going back to those humiliation kinks, like forced nudity in front of a magical group of strangers that consent and have fun with it, but also still leave me totally embarrassed.

What is the closest to that fantasy you have been able to go?

Blackmail I tried once with a good friend, basically he had a bunch of stuff on me already, and just threatened to send stuff or leak stuff if I didn't do as he wished. I knew he wouldn't, but the risk was thrilling and seeing my nudes and compromising photos threatened was thrilling.

I play with CBT on here time to time, but it's usually just tying up or spanking, nothing insane, and almost always as either a forfeit or like a gamble risk game.

The humiliation and forced nudity one, I'd say the closest would be the big game of roulette of doom I played (and lost). I think it was 5 others, might've been 7, who I came for first, and then had to eat my load while they watched. And even after had to stay on cam, fully exposed and occasionally commented on. That was so thrilling and I've gone back through the text chat from that call a dozen times since.

What is the closest to it that you think you would go currently? Or what modifiers would be needed for you? (I have had many play sessions where things had to be adapted around chronic health issues etc and it can be humanising to share)

I mean, if it's someone safe, I'll go a little wilder, show face, that kinda thing, but going public is a hard fear of mine, so I wouldn't want to risk that. I mean, if I had a safe word, someone that I could trust wouldn't break the rules and like ideal situations, I'd probably perform as their sub toy to follow orders, even with an audience if they wanted, take humiliation and probably even a little more. The biggest thing for me is I'd need to be able to hit pause with no penalty because of my living situation and work and stuff, I can't always play continuously, which I know doesn't really fit with total submission, but y'know, reality.

When you are craving this fantasy what do you do? Do you just spend time imagining it, do you read/watch porn/listen to hypnosis/guided fantasies?Do you indulge in a milder variant to scratch those itches?

Yes.

Seriously though, I imagine it, I write erotica about it, I read about times I've played close or risky to it. I will lean into porn that features it, I go through getdare and play an extreme game, just with myself and not share the punishments when I lose. And yeah sometimes I settle for the milder versions too because solo doesn't always cut it.

And sometimes I look for someone to confess it all to, and talk about it with haha!

I hope this was intriguing and that my shyness to share publicly is okay"

03-17-2024, 04:37 AM	#1
Simi Moderator Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 3,017 Blog Entries: 6	A few questions about fantasies Hey Gd, I just wanted to ask a few questions about kinks/fantasies of yours you haven’t been able to explore fully. Potentially looking for inspirations for writings some tasks/fantasy explorations but i just wanted to see what was out there. I am going to leave the questions very open ended and you are very welcome to dig into a very particular kink of yours, several or or be more general. More in depth answers are very welcome, but don't feel like you have to write a bunch for everything. Is there a kink which you are interested in/fantasised about exploring but never braved doing? Was there a kink which you used gd as a way of helping push you into testing first? What was it that helped push you? Is there a kink which you have but even if you do it online/solo that you haven’t yet dared do with someone? Why if so? Is there a fantasy which you find yourself imagining but could/would not be able to do in real life? What is the fantasy and how would it go in a setting when all safety concerns would be eased (aka through magic of sci fi/magic/safety teams at the ready) What is the closest to that fantasy you have been able to go? What is the closest to it that you think you would go currently? Or what modifiers would be needed for you? (I have had many play sessions where things had to be adapted around chronic health issues etc and it can be humanising to share) When you are craving this fantasy what do you do? Do you just spend time imagining it, do you read/watch porn/listen to hypnosis/guided fantasies?Do you indulge in a milder variant to scratch those itches? __________________ 30 year old, British,Female, Pan, Ace, Switch, a Proud Puppy Owner and an Owned Piggy Come join our free Getdare Minecraft Server! More players are always welcome! Want to be interrogated? Assorted questionnaire links! Fancy a pounding from a piggy? Check out my anal stretching dice dare! Training Threads: Fantasised about being hypnotised and trained? Visit the Hypnosis Training Advice thread! Become a piss slut at the Piss drinking Academy About me, and likes/limits My bdsm test Torment a Piggy (Pm Dares) Last edited by Simi; 03-17-2024 at 05:41 AM.

03-17-2024, 06:05 AM	#2
Simi Moderator Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 3,017 Blog Entries: 6	This is a message I received in a DM from a shy person I asked them if they wanted me to post it anonymously and they liked the idea of that so here we go: "Is there a kink which you are interested in/fantasised about exploring but never braved doing? God, literally dozens. I've always fantasized about like being a subject of a voyeur, like someone having hidden cameras to watch me do the mundane, and the not so mundane. I've toyed with the idea of being a sex slave sub for an extended session before. Like I love the idea of just being forced to do anything and everything for a master or even better masters. And not like an hour or two either, my biggest fantasy is like a couple masters and a weekend or longer of just total submission to their kinks, which ideally might include some of mine, but it's kinda hot having to do things that aren't just for me too. The exhibition threads as well as some of the like risk dice games are really fun, but some of the harsher stuff I get so nervous I don't think I could really play. I've done stuff like the roulette of doom, but I'd like to try even harsher in my head, I just don't think I could actually follow through. Was there a kink which you used gd as a way of helping push you into testing first? What was it that helped push you? Oh, well, I mean, most of them haha. First games were just the standard nudes, risked privately, then maybe higher risk, videos, all that just grew with time. If you told me when I joined I'd be naked in front of 5 people watching on webcam, ruining an orgasm as a punishment, with everything visible, I'd have died, that was a fantasy never attainable, but through a hundred smaller games, it got so much easier to do. The exhibition/voyeurism kink really flourished here. Is there a kink which you have but even if you do it online/solo that you haven’t yet dared do with someone? Why if so? Humiliation and degradation. It's easy to do it with a stranger online who exists only as a master to humiliate you. Much more scary to do it with a person that'll see you beyond their sex sub. Is there a fantasy which you find yourself imagining but could/would not be able to do in real life? What is the fantasy and how would it go in a setting when all safety concerns would be eased (aka through magic of sci fi/magic/safety teams at the ready) Sure, blackmail, that's probably the biggest one. Could be a really hot thing just losing control but also like all the real world safety concerns just make it a hard limit as anything more than a fantasy I keep to me. I mean I also like the idea of really rough using me, like fuck me hard, like not obliterate me, but definitely tough CBT. I mean, I would want magic for afterwards because long-term pain, ouch! And I guess the other big thing that's in fantasy only land is going back to those humiliation kinks, like forced nudity in front of a magical group of strangers that consent and have fun with it, but also still leave me totally embarrassed. What is the closest to that fantasy you have been able to go? Blackmail I tried once with a good friend, basically he had a bunch of stuff on me already, and just threatened to send stuff or leak stuff if I didn't do as he wished. I knew he wouldn't, but the risk was thrilling and seeing my nudes and compromising photos threatened was thrilling. I play with CBT on here time to time, but it's usually just tying up or spanking, nothing insane, and almost always as either a forfeit or like a gamble risk game. The humiliation and forced nudity one, I'd say the closest would be the big game of roulette of doom I played (and lost). I think it was 5 others, might've been 7, who I came for first, and then had to eat my load while they watched. And even after had to stay on cam, fully exposed and occasionally commented on. That was so thrilling and I've gone back through the text chat from that call a dozen times since. What is the closest to it that you think you would go currently? Or what modifiers would be needed for you? (I have had many play sessions where things had to be adapted around chronic health issues etc and it can be humanising to share) I mean, if it's someone safe, I'll go a little wilder, show face, that kinda thing, but going public is a hard fear of mine, so I wouldn't want to risk that. I mean, if I had a safe word, someone that I could trust wouldn't break the rules and like ideal situations, I'd probably perform as their sub toy to follow orders, even with an audience if they wanted, take humiliation and probably even a little more. The biggest thing for me is I'd need to be able to hit pause with no penalty because of my living situation and work and stuff, I can't always play continuously, which I know doesn't really fit with total submission, but y'know, reality. When you are craving this fantasy what do you do? Do you just spend time imagining it, do you read/watch porn/listen to hypnosis/guided fantasies?Do you indulge in a milder variant to scratch those itches? Yes. Seriously though, I imagine it, I write erotica about it, I read about times I've played close or risky to it. I will lean into porn that features it, I go through getdare and play an extreme game, just with myself and not share the punishments when I lose. And yeah sometimes I settle for the milder versions too because solo doesn't always cut it. And sometimes I look for someone to confess it all to, and talk about it with haha! I hope this was intriguing and that my shyness to share publicly is okay"