Why do males fake being a female sub?

[itslate]

@Lola.Fox and @sluttylexi: I agree, all this only makes sense if there is a connection. This part is crucial to me, too and I constantly tried to get to know her(him). And I normally wouldn't demand a picture early. I only did it here because I got so suspicious.
About the limit: I guess I have to say if sending a single pic of a hand was a hard limit that a sub could never break, I would just not start a relationship with her. (This would all be so much easier if I was the only male alive )

@TheKidWithSkills
Your post was really helpful to me. If I heard that kind of reasoning (body looking kinda male) from a sub first, I might be suspicious, but I suppose it's a valid argument. I'd probably just have to stick it out until the sub trusted me enough to send a pic. If I find out after say 2-4 weeks that I was domming a male, it would certainly hurt, but as I saw here, it doesn't kill me. Still, these are difficult questions: Who should trust first? And when is that point where finding I've been lied to actually does hurt me so much that I have to demand proof? There are no simple answers.

@slaveboyaberdeen
Reading your post made me pretty convinced he was probably coming from that motivation. He really tried to stay on as my sub and I figure he was bummed I caught him. Finding a female sub is probably not that much easier than finding a female master, so we are kinda in the same boat. It's just that I wouldn't get anything out of it basing the whole relationship on a lie. But then again, I should just feel empathy for him. And I actually do.

[Princess Tally]

sometimes they may not be faking but they are actually a trans female who just says female too avoid constant questioning (like me) so as much as it maybe annoying please be respectful to transgender people

[itslate]

Of course I am respectful to transgender people. But that doesn't mean I would respect them lying to me.

Edit: This is a difficult topic and I don't remember asking him if he was born/naturally female or transgender, so I can't say for sure if he was "actually lying" to me. But I don't think that this is what this was about.

[Princess Tally]

im sure you meant no respect but also if they were a cis male trying too pass as a female then yeah hes lying but if they are infact a trans female and they just dont like to mention it then please think about this possibility before you jump straight to lier.

[itslate]

I did, that's why I edited my post

We could get into what kind of omissions concerning gender should be considered "lies of omission", but I think that would be for another thread.

[Princess Tally]

Yeah i think your right , ofcourse all this being said i do hate it when people lie theybwere still in the wrong especially if they were trans they could if atleast hinted or told you after you got upset.

[DesiSlave]

When I first arrived in sexchat, I was straight and when ever I get into any chat room I usually looked for females. After few days I get bored. Why ? Cos there were less real females, females who were talking to me after sometime they turned out as males. After going like this for almost 2/3 months or so I felt OK lets make a fake female account and check what lesbian females are talking about.

That idea also did not appeared to be a success. I figured out some of those females were also fake, but this time I found more females than previous. But things were not so interesting. Then I was curious about how other males talk to females.

Again made a female account and looked for males. This time I figured out oh I enjoy how few of them who were dom fuck a sub F. But that particular place was not filled with such persons.

Then I thought ok no faking lets check how gay persons do it. And with another account I checked that.

So thing is that people often cannot decide what they want and check things out with fake accounts. Often they don't want to realize they are sub, few think sub male is a gay person. These miscellaneous things make people create fake accounts. This is what I think.

[itslate]

Curiosity and boredom sure could be motivations as well, but they both won't motivate for long. I strongly feel this faker was looking for a long term relationship. Else, he wouldn't have fought so hard to stay my sub.

[FoxFire]

I think its just another thing that gets peoples rocks off

just like guys making girl accounts on her

If I had it my way I'd either ban em for it or make them post into their own forum for that as its pretty misleading - they also have a habit of stealing random photos of girls from the internet which could potentially be damaging to that girl..I've google imaged searched ( seached using the photo ) avatars of girls that guys use and sometimes it comes up with that girls facebook

not cool at all.
or pornstars photos which might be under copy right.

my .02 its not cool and needs to stop, or be moved to its own private spot

[mashachan]

I did contact so far 6 ppl here.. 3 men 3 women.. all were men... lol
well.. sucky !

The fake stuff is annyoing like hell... realy. I don´t know why ppl doing it at all.... for me.. online stuff is boring.. at some point.. and i want a real relationship.
I mean i don´t come up with a meeting unless there is a bit of chat since you need to know the other person... if it will match at all.

Originally Posted by FoxFire

I think its just another thing that gets peoples rocks off

just like guys making girl accounts on her

If I had it my way I'd either ban em for it or make them post into their own forum for that as its pretty misleading - they also have a habit of stealing random photos of girls from the internet which could potentially be damaging to that girl..I've google imaged searched ( seached using the photo ) avatars of girls that guys use and sometimes it comes up with that girls facebook

not cool at all.
or pornstars photos which might be under copy right.

my .02 its not cool and needs to stop, or be moved to its own private spot

that did happen to me.. since then.. i edit my pictures. I use a nova on my face and write my name and the other persons name over the picture.
Iam realy done providing those collectors with pictures.
Call me paranoid but since i even got "faked" on skype via webcam and a call... iam not doing any pictures of me naked or in "special" positions and so on.
It seems it is some kind of sport to leech all these pictures and stuff... and that´s a huge problem.. atleast for me. I don´t trust anybody on the internet.

and sorry for the gibberish and grammar... but iam dead tired... iam still up because i wanted to meet someone... to bad.. after 2 mails the person did for ask naked face pictures. *lol*

[richied]

Most of what I can think of has been stated. Only, other thing is they like pretending to be a girl.

[Jah Brother]

There used to be this idea floating around where you could "verify" your gender by sending a mod a pic. Then they would check something and others could see you're a verified account.
Too bad it was only an idea

[drwarschauu]

It's awful when someone online pretends to be someone different. Itslate, you end your original post by stating you should always ask for pics. I can see where you're coming from and how it hurt you, but I don't think pictures are always necessary. Voice files work too, asking for specific words to be said. Pictures scare some people off. Voice files, especially non-sexual, are a bit less scary.

Want to know something terrible? At least one person who posted in this thread is, in all probability, someone who pretended to be a girl with a previous account. I know a bit about this guy. And he just posts here, talking about how bad it is for people to do it. How low can you go?

[itslate]

Voice would be fine with me, too. I just need to be sure in any way, given that this landscape is so strange.

Originally Posted by drwarschauu

Want to know something terrible? At least one person who posted in this thread is, in all probability, someone who pretended to be a girl with a previous account.

Just wow.

This site really has it all. From people who are genuinely fun to hang out with, honest and sexy, to people who... do that. It's really hard to distinguish in which category one belongs, both oneself and other people (except for some on here with celebrity status like yourself ). I could just be a guy (or, in fact, alien) making up a story to convince people I'm smart/caring/active/experienced or future subs to send me pics.

[lola.fox]

Originally Posted by drwarschauu

It's awful when someone online pretends to be someone different. Itslate, you end your original post by stating you should always ask for pics. I can see where you're coming from and how it hurt you, but I don't think pictures are always necessary. Voice files work too, asking for specific words to be said. Pictures scare some people off. Voice files, especially non-sexual, are a bit less scary.

Want to know something terrible? At least one person who posted in this thread is, in all probability, someone who pretended to be a girl with a previous account. I know a bit about this guy. And he just posts here, talking about how bad it is for people to do it. How low can you go?

AMEN..why is there no 'prayer hands' emoji!?