Dominant or Dominated?

[Boom_Stick]

im the dominated type, it just feel more fun

[marc2468]

I'd prefer to be dominated. I just get a weird feeling of loss of self-control but security. I dont think I'd be able to dominate anyone else but would prefer to simply be used for their enjoyment and for service to them. Its complex and I cant explain it but im definately sub.

[Komodo Jones]

Even though a lot of people see me more as a dominant as many people have ready my and my past slave's blog I am more of a submissive person. I mean I can swing both ways but yeah I'm a true sub at heart. The reason is because I see myself as very indecisive, therefore I think it's easier for someone to take control of me. In the same way, I do have a creative mind but sometimes it is hard to come up with new things to spice up what's already been.

[Ninjota]

Im a total dominant, in all aspects of life, not only do i get things done easier by myself and take charge, im a fighter (I.E. Proving dominance over other fighters) and prefer to take charge and take care of someone else in a relationship, by being the leader.

[keykitty]

I prefer to be dominated because I love not having any control or responsibility whatsoever. I have dommed men and women before but definitely do not get the same thrills that I do when making sure I please someone else as a sub

[ButterflyAngel]

I prefer being dominated.... I am very indecisive and i like having people make decisions for me. I love being controlled and I love the thrill i get when serving my master.

[sontch]

eh, dominated. I'm just not creative, so I like having someone else do it for me.

[SlutPuppy]

Being dominated is what I like ^^ Defiantly, hands down. I can be domme when I want to be though, and people should never forget that...

And as for why, because I'm normally a very independent and slightly controlling person.. And I loove when people will make me submit to them. >.> it's kinky and a huge turn on ><

[Nixie]

Originally Posted by Mr.RainbowBanana

Are you more interested in being dominant in getting people to do your dares all for your pleasure, or dominated in being a slave allowing others to take control? And why?

And honestly it depends on my mood!. hehe. Sometimes I get rather moody and want to take aggression out.

[Ribbit101]

I like a bit of both; on here I publicly show more of my 'dom' side than my 'sub side, however.

As a male, it is so very hard to find a real female who is into topping, so naturally domming is a more fun activity rather than sitting up for hours hunting.

[12356416514a]

i don't like to make people make things they don't like but i also don't won't to be a slave

[sweetsong]

Originally Posted by 12356416514a

i don't like to make people make things they don't like but i also don't won't to be a slave

IMO, a good dom does not make the sub do things they "don't like." Rather, they get to know the sub and find out what they like and "make" them do that. A sub likes the control aspect and a good dom (erm, make that human being) should not find pleasure in forcing someone to do something they hate.

That's why I like both... I think it can enhance the trust and closeness in an already established relationship. But just the dom/sub aspect alone I don't believe will hold anything together long term, at least not for me. (:

[xodegox]

I'd rather be dominated because i like the loss of control as well as the fact that I'm horrible at thinking of tasks and dares for other people to complete.

[Slugger]

I anostly don't know what I am, I think I would be more Dom just because I don't like to be told what to do, But I may be wrong.

[MasterCA]

I like to dominate.